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sleep over gone wrong.
alright well this is kinda relation ship and friendship. so we'll call my friend E and her brother M. To start off, I hung out with E on Saturday night, and slept over after. so M was with us later, so we were all in their living room and E fell asleep so me and M were like talking and flirting and i like sat on his lap, but then i got down and sat on the floor and then like E woke up and so me and her put on pajamas and then we came back and so M and I thought she was asleep so he had like his arms around me and stuff and then like 10 minutes later E randomly goes "M go to bed" and hes like what and shes like "go up stairs NOW" and then she was like "i cant believe youd make out with my friend"(we didnt make out fyi) and then like she got up and went to her room and so I got up to go talk to her and M was like no wait ill go and then he came back like 5 minutes later and was like shes pissed and she wants to be alone and so i went to her room anyways and i was like E im sorry but we didnt hook up and nothing happened and she was like i saw him with his arms around you and i heard you asking him if i was up and E was like crying and then she was like just go away and i was like where the hell am i supossed to go and she was like with M and i was like no so i just stayed in her room and then in the morning she still seemed pissed and i havent talked to anyone about this and i dont have Ms number so i can talk to him so ive had this on my shoulders all day and all yesterday, i feel like sucha bitch and a slut. it sucks. and E wouldnt even talk to me in school today, so what should I do?
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if you cant get E to talk to you in person, try leaving a note in her locker. Explain that you didn't make out with her brother and that you miss talking to her and feel bad that she's upset. Make sure your friendship is safe before anything else. Then talk to her brother, and see where you stand. Make a decision to just be friends or maybe see where more then friends goes? Just make a line that you and E are comfortable with, and be sure not to cross it.
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Well first off, this is all very immature on E's part. You should be able to explain to her that nothing went on. And so what if something did? Is she in love with her own brother?! Anyway, I know it must seem like the hugest deal right now, but if she's truly your friend, she'll eventually grow up. If you really like the dude, you're entitled to a relationship you know. I advise you to talk to her alone, even if its against her will, and straigten the whole thing out. Its really not that big a deal. Personally, I think she doesn't want to loose you to her own brother, or him to you. Explain to her that it doesn't have to be weird at all. Best of luck.
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