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guys why are they so unforgiving ?
well there this guy well he has a girlfriend and
we sort met on the internet through one of my friends.it all went well until me and him got serious we told each other i love you and everything and one thing i so regret is sendin him pics of my chest . well i kept asking him to break up with his girlfriend and he kept sayin he would soon. but all of a sudden one day he stopped talkin to me.(we live close to each other)anyways i kept texting and callin him because i didn't know what was going on .i was so mad and sad since his gf knew nothing about what we had done and i felt bad i told her everything and whenever i texted him he just told me to leave him alone that he didn't want to talk to me.and im really heart broken and sad over this i mean i know i should get over it but i can't its been since last october since me and him stopped talkin i tried not tryin to text him but nomatter what i do i want to resolve things with him so bad and he just refuses to talk to me .and my best friend rachel started terxtin him and i told her to ask him if he would talk to me and he said he couldn't handle me.so any advice and would any guy please help me understand why he won't forgive me because its like breakin my heart not bein able to talk to him. oh and fyi im 15 he's 19 and so is his gf and if anyone says well you shouldn't have done anything with him because of your age i already know because my parents tols me not to talk to him anymore but i did anyway so any advice will help thankies .oh and sorry for how long it is .
and also im not into him like that anymore im just dyin to be friends with him again but he wont give me a chance.
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Why do you even want to be friends with him? Do yourself a favour and keep your distance. Don't even bother to contact him.
Why? He was stringing you along.
He probably had NO intention of dumping his girlfriend for you. He just wanted what he could get (a picture) and now doesn't want anything to do with you anymore.
It's harsh, but it's the truth.
If he wanted to be with you, he would have broke up with his girl, simple as that. but he didn't.
Erase him from your memory and get on with your life.
Things will be okay soon and maybe then you will realize how foolish you were and that you don't ever need someone like that.
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Wow. Talk about desperate.its not even because you're not on his age level, but more his maturity level. He's like any other guy, why can't you see that? And OF COURSE he's pissed. You handled business that wasn't yours to handle.Because you felt "guilty", AFTER he dumped you of course. I'm REALLY not trying to be mean, but everyone learns one way or another that you just DON'T get in between a relationship, because either way, you're still the third wheel. I'd say its better if you leave everything the way it is, because it could get way worse. At least the picture you sent didn't land in the wrong hands. It can do serious damage to your reputation. I know its not what you wanna hear, but its for the better.<3.
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Darling, you were never friends with this guy to begin with.
He was only using you. He was using you behind his girlfriends back. If it wasn't obvious enough: now that he has no more use for you, he doesn't want to talk to you at all. (Hopefully he made this choice out of a shame, and the realization he should never have behaved that way with you in the first place.)
Things with him ARE resolved. You are no longer speaking to him and that is the best thing for everyone.
Don't try to be friends with everybody, certainly not stupid teenage boys who cheat and use you for thier own amussment and then ditch you.
Stop being sad for goodness sake! Have a spine and be angry with him for treating you and his girlfriend so shabbily!
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