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love life.
ok. so, my friends all hate my bf, and i thought it was nothing. but, the other night, he kept making extremely rude comments about me and other people. and, he apologized L8R and everything, but i dunno. since then i've totally seen him in a different light. i've been seeing him the way my friends have. and, i mean-- we were, well-- are rlly close, and we love each other. but i think he is an ass hole now. i dunno what to do! please help me.
thank you soo much!
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You are 100% correct: He is a (you know what) but most girls love that type. I have no idea why either. If you have any shred of self-respect, dump him and make friends with a thoughful and deep guy instead. The thoughtful and deep types usually become the managers of the thug types in adulthood. I also recommend to all teen girls that they delay all dating until University.
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I guess in the beginning of a realtionship, each person puts on sort of an act, of what the other person wants them to be, and the other partner willingly blinds themself and sees absolutely no flaws. now, once you get comfortable is a completely different story. you start seeing the person for what they really are, and its no surprise, nor does it make you a bad person, if you realize that you've made a mistake. personally, with so many guys out there, i'd move on, but i also believe in second chances. sometimes people do things that they don't realize can change our perspective on something completely, which is why you should talk to him. there's a possiblity that he felt attacked by your friends and went on the defensive. If you two are in love, you'll work it out.
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sometimes it takes someone to turn down the wrong road before they learn. Maybe your friends were seeing the guy you needed to see all along. But there is really nothing you can do except for one of two things: 1. dump him or 2. stay with the guy...you dont need to be around someone like that because with all due respect he sounds two faced. where he tells someone one thing and then tells someone else something else. just tell him you cant be his gf anymore because you dont feel it is right at the moment...hope i helped!!
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If you think he's an asshole, he probably is. And I would not go out with an asshole, personally.
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Theres nothing that you can really do about it..
you most probably lost your feelings for him you cant just continue being his gf and have no fellings for him i say tel him the truth at the moment thats all you can do
just tel him im sorry what you did... and i know that you apoligized ,but it hurt me alot even thou (if you forgave him) i forgive you but i dont look at you the same as i used to..
& remember be straight forward yet nice=]
hope this helped =]
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