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my friend duznt know whether or not to tell her boyfriend that she likes his best friend more than him.... and her boyfriends best friend likes her back... should she tell him? plz answer...

yes she should tell him. she shouldnt b w. some1 she doznt realli lyk. good luc hun

xoxo
brunettebeauti

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ok, well i was on vacation for 9 days, i came back to find my hamster, decaying alive! It's so gross and nasty, i feel so bad for him, idk what to do! He has part of his skin missing, and fur, he can't walk or anything, i feel so bad. My parents won't let me take him to the vet, i think he has been alive for about 2 yrs or 1 1/2.....what should i do? PLEASE I NEED HELP :( HE IS MY BABY, I'LL DIE WITHOUT HIM!

call ur vet nd c wut he says.

good luc hun

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ok I just started school and im new.its been about a week and 1 day and im starting to make friends.there is this girl that is nice to me her name is lauren.im sitting at a table with another girl named kaite and some people from my classes.a girl that is friends with the people from my classes comes up to me and says dont be friends with lauren,she is not cool etc etc.then some people move away.so now i dont know what happened or what to do.should I be friends with lauren who I sorta know and ignore the girl who told me to ignore lauren or should I not be friends with lauren and go with the people from my class (I like the people pretty equally)I have no idea what to do help please.
-mal

which of them r better friends n r nice nd friendly?? dont listen 2 other ppl.u can b frienz w. both

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ok why does every 1 say drink water to lose weight? wat does it do? and why do they say cold water is better? how does it make u lose weight??

water makes sum ppl less hungry. water washes out ur stomach nd keep things moving. its very good 4 ur body u should drink at least 8 cups of water a day i kno rite..

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yesterday at the doctors i got a shot in my arm (kind of my shoulder) and it didnt hurt at all, but now today it hurts really bad it feels like i have a bruise where the shot was and it hurts really bad whenever i move my arm. is this normal or should i be concerned? im starting to worry. how long should this pain last?

idk if its normal. if the pain lasts call ur doctor.
good luc sweetie

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well there is this boy i really think i like him.. and my friends think i should go out w/ him and all this other stuff im like rite.. to go out w/ someone that means the other person has to like you back they say he likes me but i really dont think he does hes really quiet and im kinda shy so i never want to aproach him or when hes w/ his friends i dont want to say hi or anythang then so at school we really dont talk or anythang .. so what can i do to "flirt" w/ him i guess you could say or to just talk to him and stuff you know? well thanks.. oh by the way i rate well =]

get his sn and talk 2 him online. wen u guyz becom good friendz online u mite hav the courage 2 go 2 talk 2 him.

good luc sweetie
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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I transferred to a new school and my friends that i already know ignore me and i try to make new friends but im not good at that stuff. So at lunch everyone is saying ohhh talk and i dont know what to do or say.

y do da friendz u alredi now ignore u?? n e way u should b urself nd find wut u hav in common w. da ppl in ur skool

good luc hun
xoxox
brunettebeauti

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I have asked a lot of people for advice on this, but no one has an answer. I start school tommorow.

On the last day of school last year, 8th grade, I sort of asked out this guy, Alex, whom I liked and who liked me, by saying "If I dump Jerry will you go out with me" (yes i know im a jerk) and he said he would and I said we hadda hang out over summer. I really did intend to, in the beginning of summer I called him a few times and there was never any answer. Then I went to a lot of camps, but I did have some time in between. I went out with this guy during one camp but we sorta drifted apart. Now school is starting tommorow and it's going to be so awkward. I don't know what to say to Alex...I did intend to hang out with him, but it just didn't work...And I don't know if I like him anymore or what seeing how I haven't seen him all summer. I need advice real soon on what to sasy to him tommorow and how 2 handle this thing. It's a pretty sticky situation. Thanks.

well 2m c wut happens. if u still hav feelings 4 him bcum better friendz den c wut happens from there.
good luc hon
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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okay well hi u know how i told u bout me and my b/f how he wuz goin in to High school and im still in 8th well...we broke up! I cried all day saturday and a lil sunday. I miss him sooo much and i still love him. We broke up because we neva saw eachother nemore and he wuz jus too busy for me and it wuz too hard for him because i guess all his friends have g/fs at skool! Every day it gets harder for me to not talk to him. Every day i wonder if he still loves me and misses me he told me when we decided to break up that he still loved me and he gonna miss me soo much but that wuz then and this is now! Will i eva get ova him???? is there nething i can do to get ova him??? PLZ help! Kaila

ask him if u guyz can still b friends n hang as friends sumtymes
good luc hon
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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What are some good fashions for back to school?

hollister...von dutch...ecko red....baby phat..
good luc hon
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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Okay this may sound a bit weird. . buh im 14 yrs old and i dont have like a real nipple yet.. when im cold or sumthing liek that.. yaah it looks like it but then it goes away.. please help!

hun thts normal...dont wry. u still hav lots of tym 2 gro.

xoxo
brunettebeauti

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My parents wont let me get the 2nd whole pierced in
my ear but I really wanna do it. So i have dicided to do it on my own! Does any1 know how,and what i should use?? Pleaz dont earase this cuz i wanna make sure i pierce them the right way !!I'll rate high..I promise!!

dont pierece ur own ears. it will get infected. i want a second hole 2 but mi dad wont let me get it. wait till ur older or on ur birthday or special occacian.
good luc hun

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okay i like this guy and he likes me. well the other day he asked me out and i said yes but 2 days after, were already broken up ! he said he needs to get to know me better and i totally agree no hard feelings there but what i dont get is why cant we get to know each other by going out? i asked him why he asked me out and then broke up but he said "i jus dont think i really know u well enough" or does he not want to go out and thats why he said that, but like after that hes like i still like u but i jus wanna get to know u better maybe wen school starts. and the day after i seen him at the movies and i waved and smiled--so did he and i knew i liked him alot. do you think we eventually will go back out ? or do you think he jus doesnt like me even though he said he did ..

let him get 2 no u better. stay as friends nd wen ur redi u guyz will go out

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I was wondering if there was any way that you can see who rated you and what they rated you. I appreciate the help! And if you just want to drop in and answer this to say hello that's great too! I rate.. specially for nice people =c)

Love, RacheL
((xoRachel))

go under ur advice column den press get feedback den press da number nd it will tell u wut advice u got rated 4.
xoxo
brunetebeauti

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k, im the girl who asked the ? about askin my mom to wear thongs. Do ne of u no where the sell cute ones. I jus like to be accesorized. I WONT SHOW IT!! lol. I jus would like to know where they sell some cute ones so when I go to the store, I can look and pick??? THANXS!!!!

hey hun
try lookin @ victorias secret
xoxo
brunettebeauti

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alright, im not one of those overweight/underweight girls wanting attention or needing "emergency" help with their weight. but i have been wondering this question for a bit. when you say this weight is "average" for this height... are you saying most common kids for this age are this weight, or this is the weight you SHOULD be... in simpler words: are you basing average weight as the weight most common and good, or the weight that is considered average by professionals? i mean, the US has a large percentage of overweight children these days, and if you base it on average weight of all gendered children, wouldnt that make the scale a little off? sorry this is long- just want to know what everyone is basing their advice on! thank you and goodnight.

average weight means most kids dat age weigh dat much

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Is there anything bad for you in Diet Sodas? I know they say regular sodas are bad for you because they have so much sugar, but since diet sodas have none, does that mean they're fine for you? Is it okay if you have one or more a day? Or is there other bad stuff for you in there?

diet soda is bad 4 ur health. i think its bc it has more choloesterol.

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Okay here's my problem...I slept with my best friend, but he doesn't remember, and now I might be pregnant. Maybe I should explain...About a month & a half ago, my best friend/roommate and I went to a party and when we got home we kinda started making out (we had both been drinking). When he said he something that he really needed to tell me, and said that he was in love with me. It was so sweet and we ended up sleeping together. The next morning I woke up before him and cooked breakfast for him. But when he woke up, he was really confused, and he said he couldn't remember how he got home, and he really didn't remember anything since the beginning of the party the night before. I was freaking out and I didn't say anything about what happened between us. We later found out that someone had put something in the drinks at the party and a bunch of people couldn't remember stuff. I had decided that I wasn't going to tell him about out night together because it would be to weird. Then I didn't get my period this month, so now I'm really freaking out. I know I need to tell him but I don't know how. Then to make matters worse, I was trying to tell him yesterday, and he said that he wanted to tell me something (I thought he was gonna say he loved me) and he said that he was still a virgin and he was saving himself for the person that he was gonna spend the rest of his life with. I didn't think it was possible to feel any worse. I'm 22 and he's 20.

Can anyone help me please? I don't know what to do...

u hav 2 tell him. wut if u r pregnant???? then wut??? u hav 2 tell him or things will get relly messed up.

hope i help
good luc

xoxoxoxo
brunettebeauti

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the past year me and my mom have been fighting a lot and im sick of it! i always think that things will get better but they dont. yesterday she was supposed to go on a couple of erins but before me and my sister were fighting (which is normal i mean we were just getting annoyed by each other) so then she just stays home and a little later says that she wants us to come w/ her. so rite when we're about to leave my friend calls and asks if i can go swimming w/ her and i asked my mom and she said ok. then like 5 seconds after i hung up i asked her where my swim suit was and she starts screaming at me that i cant go and that shes late for what she wanted to do today so she was gonna leave me and my sister alone while she goes out and said i have to call my friend back up and say i cant go. i said that i couldnt do that cuz i just told her i could go so i started screaming to her how i hate the way shes always screaming at me and how she always changes her mind and that i hated my life. then she told me that i needed to go to a doctor but what i need is for her to stop all of this (which is never going to happen). then she starts watching tv and i said how come you aren't leaving and she said that she couldnt leave me alone the way i was acting and i told her that its not me or my sister's fault that she didnt go before cuz we told her that it was fine and we wouldnt fight before, but she just keeps saying how its our fault because we were fighting. finally she says that i can go so she wouldnt have to deal w/ me so as i was putting my swim suit on she starts screaming at me that i have to get downstairs in 10 seconds so when i was goin out the door she starts really really screaming at me w/ a mean glare that im grounded for everything. that nite when i got home she was a little bit better so i wanted to walk my dog but she wanted to come on a walk to so she was there but when we were on the driveway i asked if she was mad at me and she said yes so i went inside and didnt go on the walk. also that nite at dinner i asked if she hated me and she didnt answer. i really dont like her but i just wish she would stop all of this. this kind of thing happens like every day and i hate it! sorry this is so long, but id appreciate any advice.

tell ur mom how u feel if she doznt listen go 2 a conseler.

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Ok HeReS HoW It StArTeD:

I WaS OvEr At My FrIeNdS HoUsE(aka person) AnD ThIs iS OuR CoNvO.

Person: Ummm I need To Tell you Sumin Serious But you Cant Tell AnYbOdY!!!
Me: Ok You Can TrUsT Me
Person: I think I mite Be bi
Me: Bi as in Bisexual
Person: Duh
Me: Wow
PersOn: I kno
Me: So r you atrracted to any of our friends?
Person: yea
ME: Are you attracted to me?
Person: Maybe

So Thats It. So Im confused cuz it kinda grosses me out cuz what if she invites me to sleepover and since i cant tell anybody about it she'll get invited to sleepoers nd stuff so she could try to make a move on me nd my friends i need help
ill rate!!

u can still b friendz. u likes her b 4 so y should dat change. not being frienz w. sumone who is bi is lyl racism. good luc

xoxo
brunettebeauti

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