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Is it true that guys don't really like hand jobs? And that everytime they get a girl to give them a handjob, they are really just looking for a way to convince the girl to give him a blow job? (if that makes sense)

i hang out with guys a lot & i can say that alllll guys are different. some want it to lead to that, some don't really care, some juss want something haha =)

-hope that helped!♥

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im soo upset right now and i dont know what to do. last friday i broke up with my boyfriend of almost 2 months (long distant realtionship) . .it was going to fast and getting really serious and i got scared so i broke it off. he was really upset.he is my best friend and we still talk everyday. Well while we were going out one of his girl friends he met on myspace would leave flirtaious commments on his myspace and im like i think she likes you and hes like no and even if she did im not interested in her at all . . i believed him and everything..we would actullyjoke about. well yesterday i was on the phone with him and he said he wanted to be single for a lonnnggggg time then he asked me if i liked one of my guy friends and i said no and then i asked him if he liked that girl who left him those comments and hes like no not really. So today i come home from school and find out their going out. im so mad and upset. what should i do?? should i call him and confront or what??

sry that its so long and confusing

thanks in advance!

myspace gets people in trouble!! especially guys..there's always girls that are like "omg your myspace picture is soooo hott" blah blah blah..& its sooooo annoying. i know what you mean. the thing is you did break up with him. are you upset that he lied to you about it?? maybe he juss didn't want to hurt your feelings?? talk to him about it & try hanging out with new people.

-hope that helped!♥

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For as long as I remember, I go through friends like doghnuts. I never seem to take a liking to anybody cause I always find them to be either to immature (when I mean immature I mean people that are so wrapped up in there like, that they think there life is so terrible), stuipid, too smart (the people who think they are so smart so they cn't talk to you) I just want to meet people that like to have fun, they are secure about themselves and there bodies, and don't like to showoff (Down to Earth) I am not trying to complain but I am just curious how many people have that problem. It is not like I don't get along with them, I do, it is just I don't feel my friends give me enough challenges . I just want to meet people who are very different in personality and don't have bad motives. Where can I find this??

i've had that problem a few times. i figured out that it was basically girls. since i'm a girl myself you'd think i'd somewhat get along with them & most i don't. i'm a girly girl/sportsish, but i like hanging out with guys. my bf is my best friend & i realized that guys are way more fun to hang out with. if you're a guy try hanging out with girls er vice versa. good friends will come to you.

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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!

15/f

girls get like that. i don't even understand girls & i am one haha =) i think you should give them time to cool off & time for you to cool off. if you try talking to them about it, they might juss get even more mad. give em time & bring it up later & see what happens. if they're your true friends, they obviously wouldn't do that.

-hope that helped!♥

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school has always been something that stresses me out.... a lot. but, when i came into school this year, i was not exactly on school mode. i tought i would get into the habit of it soon enough, but i didn't. i'm just not in that mode. i'm not in study mode. and it's not that i am too lazy to study, it is just that i can't concentrate because my room has to be fixed and until it is fixed, i have to work outside of my room, where it's not as comfortable and quite noisy sometimes. i thought it would not be that big of a deal, but i know that this year i can get all A's. I know that I can because the problem was that when i took my placement test last year, to tell whether which honers classes or AP classes, etc. i should be placed in, there was a problem with the bubbling. it was standardized so lets say that i skipped number 6, but by accident instead of bubbling it in in number 7, i bubbled it in #6 and then that threw me off. apparently, i wasn't placed in the appropriate classes, so everything is extremely easy, but it is SO easy that i slack off because i don't think i have to keep on top of it. homework is a pain for me to do in a not-quiet zone and i just don't know what to do anymore. I think it's gotten a little to out of hand. i think i'm missing a bunch of assignments, and its stressing me out that school is not stressing me out, if that makes any sense. any ideas someone please help me

are you allowed to stay after school?? sometimes that might help, because basically its quiet & you could even ask the teacher for help. if not, then try going to the library juss until your rooms done. it seems like it's juss a stage though & you'll get out've it soon.

-hope that helped!♥

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what are some really good songs

uhh it depends on what your into & the genre's you like. try this website-

www.billboard.com

it has like top 100 songs & stuff.

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does ANYONE know how to make your pictures look cartoonish. i mean they still look like you but they look draw out instead? is there some site that does this??! or does anyone know how? please HELP I RATE FIVES FOR DECENT ANSWERS.. :]

♥ sumer

p.s. this is REALLY important. i mean my dad made me take my pictures off my myspace, and i want to know how to make them look cartoonish so i can put them back up :] but yeah PLEASE AND THANK YOU.

here's a website-

http://www.download.com/Photo-Lab/3000-2192_4-10420148.html?tag=tab_pub

it's a photo editor. you can also search w/e programs you want.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so i am only in my second year of highschool but i think that i should start to think about what colleges i want to go to. now i am clueless about how this go's but i wanted to know where i could get a "common application" sent to my house. i know that some schools don;t accept it. also i am aiming for harvard, boston university, MIT, and schools in that level. so when i went on their site i did'nt know where to go for them to send me a application of either the common on one or that schools specific on... so thanxx a bunch if you can help i would appreciate it very much.. i will rate!!!!!

i actually took classes that gave us an example application. you have to go to the schools website actually. they don't actually have to send you one though. you can print them out. if you do want them to send you one then you should email them. here's some examples-

HARVARD-
http://www.admissions.college.harvard.edu/utilities/electronic_resources/apply_online/index.html

go there & there's a red link that says 'Common Application'. you MIGHT need adobe reader & it's free so you can juss DL it. there you can print it out & what not. here's another example-

BOSTON-
http://www.bu.edu/admissions/apply/your_app.html

they give you a bunch of links to go to.

so basically GOOGLE what college you want & go under 'ADMISSIONS' on their site & search around for the applications.

-hope that helped!♥

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When I go to rate someone's advice, it says "Answer not specified." What does that mean and how can I avoid it?

make sure you're doing it right & you're all signed in er what not. if you still can't either go to the HELP/FAQ page under 'Miscellaneous' on the side er leave a msg for DANGERNERD.

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I really like this guy, my really good friend, who is taken but he doesn't know it. I got him something for Valentine's Day, but obviously, I haven't given it to him yet... I'm wondering if I still should. I'm giving things to other people (both ladies and guys). It's nothing big, I mean what I got for him. Maybe I shouldn't give it to him... or? I don't know... I really want to but it might seem a little wrong. Should I? Or I shouldn't?

give it to him. juss tell him that you know it's nothing much & you hope he has a good valentines day. i mean you already bought it for him so why not?? he'll probably really like it.

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One of my guy friends' birthday that me & my best friend act with is coming up soon. He's a regular 13 year old guy (8th grade... turning 14) & his favorite song happens to be "Afternoon Delight" featured in Anchorman (haha yeah he kinda has a sick mind).
We want to make him a cd with songs like Afternoon Delight.
So far I've got Afternoon Delight, All Night Long (lionel richie ((SP))).. but i can't seem to think of any other songs to put on there cuz that kind of music isn't my expertise (thank god)lol.

Please help me find some more songs!! I rate 5s for trying!

www.pandora.com

greatttt site. it's free & what you do is type in the artist/song title of whatever song you want..for example 'afternoon delight' & they'll search it for you. you don't get to hear the actual song, but they give you songs that are kind've like that one so you can get the titles & DL em. also you can use itunes & it kind've does the same thing.

-hope that helped!♥

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well i know valentines day isnt about the presents and stuff but i would at least like something. even if its a poem written with words crossed out. well my boyfriend who i started to date about a week ago is away in another state thats 3 and a half hours away from where i live by plane because his dad is getting a transplant and i guess its faster there. he goes to my school and well i sorta had a thing for him before he left and he had a thing for me to. well as most people know tommororw is valentines day and he isnt coming back till march or april. so my problem is he cant give me anything and i cant give him anything. i talk to him online for like hours. but that still doesnt help with my problem. its gonna feel so weird not getting or giving anything on valentines day. and lately ive been sorta depressed because i cant get or give or spend anytime with him on valentines day. what should i do? help!! cait ♥

have your own valentines day!! like the first day he comes back. it'll be cute haha =) definately don't feel depressed about it, because you have someone he's juss not there for you right now. as long as you guys can talk everything should be fine.

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recently ive been going through a breakup. We didnt go out very long but we were friends before that for like a year. Now he says that we can still be friends, we broke up because we dont live close to eachother and "bad timing" so i still like him and he says he still likes me. I want to still be his friend but i dont know how to be just that, when we first met it was because he liked me but we didnt go out we just talked and after awhile stopped talking, then a few months later we became friends again ... till now. I dont know if i can just be his friend, if i feel for him like this, and i think he's moved on to this new girl (whos like completly different than me)so i feel replaced, and disappointed, and kind of used. I dont know what to do, he promises me that we'll be friends but we havent spoken to eachother in like 5 days (which is long for us, we usually talk everyday) and last time we talked he kept bringing up my replacement, they dont go out but they act like me and him did. please help me, i dont know whether to stop talking to him or to pretend i dont feel this way. Ive already told him i felt replaced but he doesnt seem to get it, he acts like he does then he'll just go back. btw 15/f

i think you should take a break from him. obviously if he moved on that quickly, then is he a reallly nice guy & one you would want to be with?? i mean yes, you like him, but that could always change, especially if he's going to do that to you. let him know how you feel & explain it in as much detail as you can. then, it's up to him to decide what he wants to do with it. it's not on you anymore. if he wants to be your friend, he'll give you more effort than that. try going out with new people. i'm not saying it'll be easy, but you can at least try it. the situation isn't in your hands anymore. it's in his, so as long as he knows how you feel, then you're basically free to do whatever. if you guys are meant to be together then he'll realize how he feels about you & you might juss like staying friends.

-hope that helped!♥

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ok so i like this guy right? but the problem is he's like the most popular guy in the grade. and he's so hott and he's so sweet and he's like my perfect guy. and everyone says that he would go out with me and that he just won't right now because he's like my exboyfriends really good friend. i really want him to realize that i like him but idk how to let him know without coming on too strong and stuff..
-confused.

i think you should become his friend first!! it'd work out good because maybe then he'll really like you & you guys can go from there. juss talk to him at least once a day even if its for a few minutes ya know?? then work from there. hang out. go in groups & then work on going with juss each other etc etc. it should work fine that way. juss because he's 'hott' & 'popular'..don't let that intimidate you. if he's a nice person it'll be easy talking to him. soo basically start as friends & work your way up. my bf & i were friends first & then became bf/gf.

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Anyone know that code for myspace that can make you write big AND have any color you want? I`ve seen some people having it & they can put it as their captions on their pictures and write something. I have this code to do that, but it`s too long to fit as a caption. So there must be one smaller I`m guessing. Any one know it?

it's the basic code

< font SIZE="#" >
< font color=code >
< font face=font >

etc etc.

REMEMBER* if you don't take out the spaces they won't work & obviously you have to put the #, code & font.

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is there a way i can get an older version of photoshop (ie: photoshop 7) on the internet? even if it's a trial version.

thank you.

www.download.com

it has old programs you can dl for like 30 day trials & what not!! its cool haha =) here's the direct link-

http://www.download.com/3120-20_4-0.html?qt=photoshop+7&tg=dl-20

er you can juss search w/e you want

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i was at a concert the other day,and someone that was filming the bands on stage had this awsome sweatshirt on.it was black with a pink glow in the dark brain on it and on the back it said motion city soundtrack.

does anyone happen to know where i could buy that one?ive looked all over the place and i cant find it.so if anyone knows a website i could buy it off of id really appreciate it.
thanks!

sry i couldn't find it that exact one but there's a store online for motion city soundtrack soo if any new items come up er other tshirts you like you can use this website-

https://secure.bluecollardistro.com/motioncitysoundtrack/

OR

www.motioncitysoundtrack.com

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Next Saturday is my school's Sadie Hawkin's dance. I don't know if I should go because I don't have a date..(all of my friends do!) I don't know how to dance. Guys never ask me to slow dance. Sometimes I feel left out..but should I go anyway..I feel left out because my friends are planning their stuff..and I'm not. :( Help.

ask your friends to help. they are your friend for a reason. they could definately teach you how to dance. i think you should ask someone to go but if you dont wanna, juss try dancing with guys there ya know?? it should be fine & don't worry about it. it's suppose to be fun, not stressful.

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aight look this dude was rubbin the head of his di*k on my pu**y because i told him he couldn't stick it in and PLUS he aint even have a condom and then he stuck it in and i pushed him back and moved so my 2 questions are....

1) is that called havin sex with him ?

2) could i be pregnant if thats all he did

now i really need to know this because it went farther then i wanted it to so if u could plz lemme kno wat chu think i would appreciate it!!!

i'd definately say that was sex. you COULD possibly be pregnant but if you guys didn't like..ya knowww maybe not. for you to be pregnant, there'd have to be sperm. if not then don't worry about it.

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i need some sereous help right now. this girl i like so much will tatlk to me anymore. we used to talk so much, i mean we went to the fair and would ride the rides together. she never said she liked me but i got this immpresion because she asked me who i liked a million times.but at our junior high dance yesterday, she said that she hated me and i felt way to nervous and heartbroken after that to ask her to dance.I feel so hurt its like ti dont want to go to school anymorea because i dont want to be in the vicinty of her . what adviec can you give me so i can find out why she hates me but not seem despeate to know?

the only thing you can do is try to talk to her about it. if she doesn't listen then you need to go out & meet new people. there doesn't really seem to be a reason why she hates you from what you wrote. juss go & talk to her about it. she'll probably explain it & then you guys can be friends er even more.

-hope that helped!♥

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