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girlfight
i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!
15/f
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Tell them that that was how you felt, and you had the right to say that because that is actual fact that they did that to you, [ha sorry i am using a lot of 'thats'] but ask them how they would feel if you did that to them.
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this is a deja vu. Last year when I was 15 I had the same exact problem. Take the high road, don't talk about them, period. All these girls want is attention and you can't give it to them. No matter what. Sure, these girls are going to be mean and nasty but remember you are mentally stronger than them and you have something which they will never posess: Substance. You are probably thinking...wtf is substance. Substance is a type of person that can always be cool, calm, and collected (NON drama!) This will help you survive the vicious attack among teenage girls (yeah most teenage girls are animals, start chillin with more guys) and remember what comes around goes around.
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hey dont let the haters bring you down hunnie. you dont need them. you have toher amzing friends. dont pay attention thatany of there bullshit = ]. cait ♥
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what i always say to myself is the people who know the least always have to say the most they were never your real friends so forget them and also if they wont stop talkin bout you then that means they hav nothing better to talk about i have had people start wit me i show them it doesnt bug me you were just tellin them what you think nd how it hurts you that you were there friends nd you guys never got invited just forget them you have so many other friends
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ok well first i think both these girls and you need time to cool off. right now it seems like both of you are really mad and i think if u talk now it might just get worse. when you're mad you say stuff you dont mean so you dont want to make the fight worse. so yea i think you should give it a little time and when things calm down you can talk about it rationally and just tell these girls that you didnt want to get into a fight you just wanted them to know that this bothered you and you didnt want to make a big deal about this. if they are true friends theyll get over it and everything will be fine. but if it seems like they are still being mean then maybe you should reconsider if you really want a friendship with these girls. you should be with good people that you can be happy with. drama sucks and you want to surround yourself with people who DONT cause it. believe me i've dealt with these kind of girls soo much and have had the same problems
hope everything works out and i could help
Samantha<3
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well ive had a lot of arguments with my friends. and just to let you know when they say they never liked you its totally not true! its just a thing they use to convince others that they arent upset and make you look like the bad one. and you were just telling the truth about them when you said that they were annoying.. so i guess they cant handle the truth. now when they call you a ho* and a Bitc* then thats when you need to stick of for yourself. personally i would say stuff back or fight them but its up to you. and it isnt better to ignore them because if you do then theres a chance they will keep talking out of their as*!
hope i helped...!! goodluck
---->>&&heaRts;kayla
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girls get like that. i don't even understand girls & i am one haha =) i think you should give them time to cool off & time for you to cool off. if you try talking to them about it, they might juss get even more mad. give em time & bring it up later & see what happens. if they're your true friends, they obviously wouldn't do that.
-hope that helped!♥
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You should sit them down & ask them why they are acting like this, friends you have been with for 3 yrs shouldn't act like that... maybe there jelous of your friends.... if that doesn't work forget them because the friends who you have now are your real friends so rember that.
xo Erikanne ♥
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