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hey my name is kara im 14 i live in oceanside im very outgoing i love hanging out with my friends my friends me more to me than anything etc.....and if you need help with any problems i deffinitly can help i have been throught alot and helped alot of my friends through so much even if i havent experienced it dont worry i still can help....

love,
Kara

advice

My best friend recently cut his wrists and was waiting to die. He's at the hospital, he's okay, and he knows what he did is stupid. This is some serious matter to drop on someone, so I was wondering how to lighten my mood. I'd appreciate any advice that will calm and level myself before I talk to him.

writing down how i feel helps sometimes but if your not into writing then you could always just listen 2 calming music or u can always talk 2 one of your other friends

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i had some drama within my group of friends. me and my 2 bffls told some of our other friends how it annoyed us that they always talk about their amazing sleepovers infront of us and we're never invited. They all hate me now, and they really dislike my 2 friends, but since i did most of the talking, they especially hate me. They said some really mean stuff about me and even said they "never liked me." i know i shouldn't care about girls who pretended to be my friends for 3 years, but it really makes me so mad! i have friends on my side too, but i feel so crummy about the things that said about me, calling me a b*tch and a hoe and annoying and stuck up. what should i do? i'm so mad at them!!!

15/f

what i always say to myself is the people who know the least always have to say the most they were never your real friends so forget them and also if they wont stop talkin bout you then that means they hav nothing better to talk about i have had people start wit me i show them it doesnt bug me you were just tellin them what you think nd how it hurts you that you were there friends nd you guys never got invited just forget them you have so many other friends

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my friends are inviting me to a sleepover but my mom would not let me sleepover how can i convince her

dont worry my mom is prob just like yours shes over protective but i go through this alot have your mom call your friends mom dont let your friend talk 2 your mom b.c then you mom will know that you told her to say something to her and she wont believe a word of it trust me i know but say 2 your mom i realli wanna go im good friends wit (name) and you could call her mom and ask her everything i just wanna stay her (name)'s house and then give your mom your friends house # it will all work out i promise

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how early on can you tell if your pregnant..

&& what is the chance of getting preg on birth control. I Didnt take it how they told me to && I missed it a fiew times. I didnt know i was taking it wrong but someone told me today sense I didnt take it the right way it wont work fully.

I dont think im preg actualy im like 99.9% sure im not..

but you can never be to safe && sure

if you missed a few theres more of a chance you are but you should always try 2 use more just one type of prtection and also you could usually tell about 3 weeks after it happens if your pregnant

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okay. since i cant let my computer have any viruses.

what will happen if i download limewire, download 10 songs or so and then uninstall it. then just install it whenever i need it.

im willing to do anything not to get a virus. because my mom said if i crash my computer one more time then i cant get it fixed anymore..
and walmart.com has nothing to chose from!

thanks..

i have limewire on my computer dont worry about it you will be fine but if you download a song and the text turns red on your song delete the song right away it is bad and if you do that you will be perfectly fine

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i am 15/m and i am completely in love with this girl we'll call her Ally she is 15 as well...and we have been dating for three months but it seems like years...we are both so close to eachother and we love eachother so much...now we want to have a baby....i know we are 15 but we want one....we have been talking about it for a while now..and we feel like we are ready like we have been doing a lot of research....but how do we tell our parent that we wanted one and it wasnt a mistake?

well you should talk to a doctor or someone in that feild first before you do anything because you could get yourself into a big commitment you may think your ready but i know that one of my friends had a baby and she couldnt even go to school anymore b.c of it she needed to be with the baby all the time..so be careful what u do think and ask questions

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