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getting over
recently ive been going through a breakup. We didnt go out very long but we were friends before that for like a year. Now he says that we can still be friends, we broke up because we dont live close to eachother and "bad timing" so i still like him and he says he still likes me. I want to still be his friend but i dont know how to be just that, when we first met it was because he liked me but we didnt go out we just talked and after awhile stopped talking, then a few months later we became friends again ... till now. I dont know if i can just be his friend, if i feel for him like this, and i think he's moved on to this new girl (whos like completly different than me)so i feel replaced, and disappointed, and kind of used. I dont know what to do, he promises me that we'll be friends but we havent spoken to eachother in like 5 days (which is long for us, we usually talk everyday) and last time we talked he kept bringing up my replacement, they dont go out but they act like me and him did. please help me, i dont know whether to stop talking to him or to pretend i dont feel this way. Ive already told him i felt replaced but he doesnt seem to get it, he acts like he does then he'll just go back. btw 15/f
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hey attempt to get over him. obviosly he sint that nice of a guy if he doesnt listen to any of your feelings whatsoever. try to find another sweet loving and caring guy. btu also try to stay in contact wiht him. and make sure he knows that you jsut wantto be friends now. remeber there are plenty of other fish in the sea! lol. cait ♥
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i think you should take a break from him. obviously if he moved on that quickly, then is he a reallly nice guy & one you would want to be with?? i mean yes, you like him, but that could always change, especially if he's going to do that to you. let him know how you feel & explain it in as much detail as you can. then, it's up to him to decide what he wants to do with it. it's not on you anymore. if he wants to be your friend, he'll give you more effort than that. try going out with new people. i'm not saying it'll be easy, but you can at least try it. the situation isn't in your hands anymore. it's in his, so as long as he knows how you feel, then you're basically free to do whatever. if you guys are meant to be together then he'll realize how he feels about you & you might juss like staying friends.
-hope that helped!♥
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