so i had a bf and we were sposed to go out on vday to a really vancy place on vday. as you all know tomorrow is valentines day and he asked me when i could hanh out nd i said tomorrow i guess cause i havent seen him in a while. I didnt even notice it was valentines day tomorrow. I like him but i dont know if I want to go out with him cause Im keeping my options open wanting to meet new guys. But i cant help but like him.
What should I do tomorrow? should I show I like him or not?
Also he still wants to take me out for food this weekend but he says. "cause I wana get some grub."
What do you think i should do? and do you think he likes me or just wants to be friends?
Heartwhisper answered Monday February 13 2006, 7:54 pm: You won't know if he likes you if you don't spend any time with him. And what's wrong with having another good friend....at least give him the opportunity to prove himself to be a good friend if nothing else.... while you leave your options open you may be closing the door on a good thing, that may not be real obvious.... since you kind of have some feelings for him, give it try and you can always let it all go later if it's not what you're looking for or think you're looking for.... opportunities are just that if we take advantage of them... good luck and happy heart day! Just don't use anyone for your own personal gain, that's not a good thing at all, it wants to be a win/win or it's not real and won't add to a good life. [ Heartwhisper's advice column | Ask Heartwhisper A Question ]
Erikanne answered Monday February 13 2006, 6:54 pm: I think that maybe you should go & see how he acts towards you. I'm thinking that he likes you but is to afraid to tell you & you feel the same way. Maybe you should just take a break from him & date other guys & see how it go from there. If it's meant to be it will find it's way bak.
Teza answered Monday February 13 2006, 5:42 pm: If you like this guy and think he is a really nice person, why do you want to risk loosing your opritunity? You are waiting for someone better to come along the way but it might take some time. Since you like him I think you should give him a chance. If you don't want a boyfriend just tell him you want to be friends and just don't lead him on thinking you want more. You can still meet new guys and everything but if you let this one go you might regret it. You can't really find good guys everything and he won't always be available. He seems to like you and it's really sweet of him to take you out to dinner. He seems to really care and I'm sure you respect that. If you want a relationship, show him that you like him. If you don't then just be friends with him but don't tease him and lead him on because that would be really rude. After he takes you out you might realize how much you like him and have a really good time so just go for it. [ Teza's advice column | Ask Teza A Question ]
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