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I like this guy and i think its weird that I have never met him, but I catch him looking at me. I try to not believe it and think its my imagination. Like today i was working on something at school and and he was in the classroom next to mine and so as I was working I looked up and caught him looking at me and we locked eyes for a split second and then he looked down...was this my imagination? I HAVE NEVER MET THE DUDE! How can he look @ me?! I mean, i dont think i'm that attractive...HELP!

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~NEED HELP RIGHT NOW!

Ohh you asked me this one already sorry it took a while to answer but yeah check your other question!! ask if you need more help! http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=217039

Q: I like this guy and i think its weird but I catch him looking at me. I try to not believe it and think its my imagination. Like today i was working on something at school and and he was in the classroom next to mine and so as I was working I looked up and caught him looking at me and we locked eyes for a split second and then he looked down...was this my imagination? I dont know him that well! How can he look @ me?! I mean, i dont think i'm that attractive...HELP!

Everyone doesnt think their attractive. It all depends on what guy you ask..some guy might think your the hottest girl ever and some might think your "ok". But you dont know what this guy thinks so you should find out. I say go up to him.He looked at you..so you could go up to him and be like "Hey, my name is ___ and I saw you in class just wanted to say hey" and I know it might be hard but just do it! He's probably not a jerk so I dont think you have anything to loose. Either he'll be your friend or maybe even something better.. Good luck!!

Q: Ok so in july i had my apendix taken and i was told that i might not get my period and I was ok kewl. But I got my period in august and now I haven't gotten it in 3 months. When before my surgery i had it regular for 2 years. My mom called her geinocologist(cant spell) and she said i had to wait till i didn't have it for 6 months and then even then they will examine me but wont give me anything. Is this normal?

Well we wont know but just wait another 3 months and see. Your fine though its not like your going to die. Be happy you dont have your period l0l!

Q: I need help getting my toe touch. I just can't get it high enough. I stretch everyday and still not progress. People tell me to "roll my hips" but I dont know what they mean. Help!

Hey ookkk you need stretches! My toe touch sucks too...But what I did to get it higher was reading this page http://www.varsity.com/index.asp?article=782 and doing what it tells you. Also its good to jump up and down and try to touch your ceiling. Good luck

Q: I just met a girl named Lindsay this year we're not very close but we still talk. We went to the consession stand and she just bought a water. I told her she needs to eat..but she says she doesn't eat lunch. She told me that she hasn't eaten lunch or breakfast since the 6th grade and we're in the 9th now. She also told me that she takes diet and energy pills over the counter..which is really bad. She wants to be 100lbs and she's like 120 right now and she's about 5'3 or something..which is healthy I guess. She also told me her parents don't notice or care..but I don't beleive that. I'm afraid this might lead to anorexia or some other serious disorder..but she said she wouldn't..again I don't beleive that. I don't know what to do..every time I tell her to change she's like "What are you my mom!?". What should I do?

Say no I'm not your mom but you need to eat because I care for you! Explain to you that you care and love her (as a friend I guess) and that you dont want her to get sick. Tell her shes perfect the way she is. And ask her to eat. if she doesnt I'd tell an adult. Its really bad just to eat one meal a day.

Q: Okay, I'll put it to you this way: I'm OBSESSED with mashed potatoes. I make them all the time when I come home from school. I normally eat them plain or with corn. I need to mix it up a bit. Does anyone have any thing I could put in them to make them good? Anything will be good for me. I eat anything pretty much, especially mashed potatoes. Heh. Anyway, if anyone has any ideas as to how to spice up my mashed potatoes, that'd be great! Thanks if you can help!

Gravy! :) I hate gravy but yeah..try it with bread..weird but who knows.maybe its good? Try it with anything you like and it will probably taste good.

Q: Hey grly! This isn't really anything you can give me advice on... but why in the world are you leaving the GOG Message Board? Well I mean I know you are busy but still.... well I'll miss ya a lot girly! I love you and Jesus does too! God Bless Ya! :D

Lol wow everyone is telling me to coem back. Ok I'll come back when i can but sometimes yeah I just do feel like it or im busy..haha :)

Q: im a dancer, and i recently outgrew all of my dance shoes. (tap, jazz, and lyrical) i ordered new ones, but the companys shoes ran reaaally small and none of them fit me. i have really long narrow feet...do any of you have the same problem and do u know where to find dance shoes that will fit?
than you so much

Go to Capezios. All i did was tell them what i needed, and my shoe size and they found the shoes for me. I was there for a minute and got what I needed. so yeah its good http://www.capeziodance.com/homepage.jsp

Q: I've liked this one guy I've known since we were 5 for about 11 months. He's only known since June, and rejected me flat out. I know that there's not chance for anything between us...but idk...I keep holding on. My friend a few days ago suggested that I might be in love with him. And I'd never given the subject a thought, but now that I am, I'm even considering it. Is it possible for me to actually be in love with this guy that is absolutely perfect for me? And if I am, how do I come to admit it or let him know without confessing my feelings straight out to him? Please let me know what I should do...

-Hopelessly In Love-

If you do love him, do NOT tell him you do. That will freak him out and he probably wont talk to you. You need to move on since you know he doesnt like you. Find new guys..it'll take a while but you'll be over him and in love with someone else.

Q: well tomorrow we start tumbling in P.E. and i am soooo afraid of doing a front roll.. i am horrified at the thought of all my body weight being over my head? how do i try to overcome this fear

Awww dont worry. i did tumbling in pe too..and I cant tumble for crap. But you can have people spot you and help you out before trying it on your own. Just try!! dont just be like 'no i cant do it' you have to try

Q: My sister is organizing a public speaking club, for people who want to improve on their speeches, nervousness of speaking in front of a group of people, listening skills, etc. It doesn't begin until 2 weeks so we have a lot of planning to do, and it last for about 2 hours. Do you guys have any ideas of what we should do at the 1st meeting to make it fun, interesting, and to let people like it?

How about making a survey for everyone to take like favorite food, color, bands, etc. etc. And they have to get in a group of 4 people with people they dont know..and talk about what they wrote down for their survey. Pus everyone should introduce themselves..and maybe have snacks and soda and stuff. Oh you could also split up the people in 2 teams and play sharades. That helps with doing stuff in front of people..you know? Hope I helped a little..good luck with the club!

Q: Ok, wow. My friend knows this guy at our school and she likes him a lot, but he doesn't know it (He may, but I don't know.) And he's really sweet and no one thinks he's a jerk or mean or whatever. But, then he didn't talk to her for some reason and so now she's a little bit upset. Her other friends think that she annoyed him, but she doesn't know why. She says that she may of talked to him too much, but she said she did that so he'd like her as a friend more. And so she keeps asking me for advice on what to do, but I don't have a clue, so I was asking you for help. She doesn't want to ask him why he is/was (I don't know.) mad at her, because ofcourse that would make him even more angry or annoyed! Should she ask him or have another friend as him, or what?

Uhh tell her to leave him alone for a while. A week or two...and then go up to him one day and just say hey whats up and stuff..he might not like her but who knows.

Q: i am a freshman and i have always been skinny i mean every one in my family is skinny and so am i nut i mean soem people say i am liek a tooth pick and say that have an eating disorder...i dont no if they are jealous or what because i dont and i am not that to terribly skinny i have muscle and boobs...how do i deal with this and get rid of the rumors

thanx

To get rid of the rumors, make sure you eat in front of people..other than that just forget them. their probably just jealous cuz they wanna be skinny like you.

Q: ok lol...well i just started my period today (ive had it for about 2 yrs) but i got it today again....but my ? is i hav REALLY bad cramps today....and like ther extremely bad....is there nething i can do to make them go away??

I started mine too haha. lol Take 2 ADVIL. I swear if you take advil your problems will be GONE! I love advil and it takes away really bad cramps. ADVIl rocks!

Q: Well, there's this guy in one of my classes and I like him a lot. I've written him two notes now. The first one asked if he wanted to hang out the weekend of halloween with me and some friend and I gave it to him on a Tuesday. He never wrote me back so on Friday, I told him not to worry about writing me back because I guess he didn't want to hang out anyways. Well, then he told me that he didn't write me back because he was busy this weekend with some friends. Well, he started talking to me more since then. Last week I gave him another note saying that I didn't think he wanted to hang out with me or just be my friend or anything like that and he never wrote me back. I'm not sure what's going on, but since that note he talks to me a whole bunch and will just start random conversations with me. By the way he is very shy and doesn't talk too much, but now he talks to me a lot. I'm not sure what to think about all this. Do you think I should just confront him and tell him that obviously what I said in the note was true? Please give me some great advice! It would help a lot!

Maybe he just is trying to show you that he does want to be friends but nothing more? He's just trying to be nice..so when he starts convos with you..talk to him. Or since he's shy he likes you but doesnt wanna do anything with you just yet. You never know..but for now, when he trys to talk to you..talk back:)

Q: Okay, picture this.. if you look at your teeth not the two front, not the next ones. but the next ones.. i haven't lost yet, their the only ones i haven't lost and i have an extra tooth growing out of my gums and its like way up there, and you can kind of see it when i smile but i think its grown to its fullest. but i dont wanna get my two teeth removed because i am 14, and I'll get picked on really bad, would u get them pulled?? or would u just wait for them to fall out?? please help

Since that tooth is growing on top of your gums, You should go to the dentist. See what he/she says. because I had that too and I didnt have to get the tooth pulled out. Just ask your dentist:)

Q: ok my boyfriend is physco..he knocks on my window in the middle of the night and said he loves me and he thinks we're ready for the next step which is sex..but i dont wanna do that..i cant say kno cuz he said he'll kill himself if i dont do it with him.HELP

He just want you to have sex with him. He wont kill himself, but he might break up with you. but hes not worth it cuz all he wants is to use you..break up with him before he hurts u

Q: where is the best place to get thongs other then victorias secret

Charollete ruse, forever 2, department stores..

Q: ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!

Instead of actually being boyfriend girlfriend, their just friends but they still get to makeout and stuff

Q: You're sherrybear1111, right? I saw what you wrote on somebody's advice thing on xanga to advertise this site..lol. I was just advertising also..! -casey (angelxforever)