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friend has a problem
I just met a girl named Lindsay this year we're not very close but we still talk. We went to the consession stand and she just bought a water. I told her she needs to eat..but she says she doesn't eat lunch. She told me that she hasn't eaten lunch or breakfast since the 6th grade and we're in the 9th now. She also told me that she takes diet and energy pills over the counter..which is really bad. She wants to be 100lbs and she's like 120 right now and she's about 5'3 or something..which is healthy I guess. She also told me her parents don't notice or care..but I don't beleive that. I'm afraid this might lead to anorexia or some other serious disorder..but she said she wouldn't..again I don't beleive that. I don't know what to do..every time I tell her to change she's like "What are you my mom!?". What should I do?
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You are totally right! First off, ask her why she wants to be that skinny? Find out the reason first! Also, tell a doctor, they might know whats going on, and maybe you can even get her to come into the doctors office! Obviously, something is worng with her, talk to someone who does have power. Good luck!
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ok well heres wat u do.. u inform her about wat u think, then lik tell her its ok to b 120 at 5'3"... i mean if u have to take her to a doctor and lik make the doc explain that 120 is a very healthy weight... and tell her musucle weighs more than fat
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tell an adlt if u dotn get her help then she coudl get realli sick she needs help!
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this website is boring but tell ur friend that she is weird and yell ANOREXIC at the top of your lungs in front of the whole school and then maybe she will eat
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you should sit her down and talk to her. when she says things to make u stop she does it because she really doesnt want to stop or she cant stop. u need to tell her the bad things that can happen to her if she continues this, ex. anorexia like you said before. these disorders r very very bad for her health and if talking to her doesnt work then u might want to say something to her parents, hopefully they will care enough to help their daughter out. well i wish u the best of luck with ur friend.
*::shannon::*
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Say no I'm not your mom but you need to eat because I care for you! Explain to you that you care and love her (as a friend I guess) and that you dont want her to get sick. Tell her shes perfect the way she is. And ask her to eat. if she doesnt I'd tell an adult. Its really bad just to eat one meal a day.
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