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Is there anything wrong with a 9th grade girl dating a 7th grade guy? (link)
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Take a look at this...
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=511553
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i think i may have depression.. or anger issues idn
but like lately i've been snapping at everybody
i'm not pmsing either .. but if i am i get my period the end of the month to the beginning few days and today's the 12th ;; i've been fighting with my bf and my family soo much lately and idn if its my fault or not but i know that i've been really aggrivated lately and sad.. like really sad at random times
do you think i may have it? because my mother does? what are some symptoms? (link)
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Since I'm not an expert on these things, I decided to look these websties up for you that should help you out. =)
http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/depression.html
http://www.med.nyu.edu/psych/screens/depres.html
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Thanks for trying to help. I appreciate it. I really dont know about emailing aol.But ill try. Maybe i can call aol and tell them whats going on and hopefully they can retrieve my aim password. (link)
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That's a good idea, give customer service a call and I'm sure they can help you out. Good luck! =)
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how do you get rid of those marks pimples leave on your face? (link)
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I recommend using Neutrogena Advanced Solutions Complete Acne Therapy System. It's a real lifesaver!
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Thanks...bUT I TRIED that also.Nothing works. I wish i can email TOM from myspace but he'll probably think its a prank.i REALLY REALLY need my myspace password. (link)
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It doesn't send your password? Sorry, obviously, it doesn't. I think emailing Tom would help, just be sure to tell him it is completely true and you really need the password. It may take a while for him to get back to you, though. Can you email AOL and let them know that you need your password?
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is it alright to use
and free??
come on is it ok answer asap THANKS (link)
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As far as I know, the site is perfectly ok to use and it is claimed to be free.
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well heres the thing, i have really bad handwriting and i really want to make it better. If i write slow it looks fine, but i dont have time for that when im taking notes and stuff. Please give me some tip on how i can write neater! (link)
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Since you write better when you're slower, I recommend writing that way and continuing to write over and over, until you work your way up to becoming faster at it, while still writing very neatly. Practice does make perfect, if you take out the time to work hard.
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for me to be upset/mad about this?
This girl has had a crush on my boyfriend for many months now. On and off I suppose. :/ They both have a class together and both are friends. She was flirting with him a lot and started to bite him.
I find her kind of immature, she still acts like she's in 8th grade [she's a freshmen] She even bit my boyfriend when she was with some guy. She also bites two of my guy friends.
So the first time, She bit his arm and left a large purple circle. Also left some teeth marks near his hand. It bothered me I guess and he figured it out, so he said he would talk to her about it.
but today, I saw him with various bite marks on his hands, arms.. 2 large bruises on one shoulder and another on the other and a teeth marks on his back too. i don't think he's cheating on me. i trust him. i know he has no time for her out of school or i would have heard it from his mom. and, i have many friends at HIS school that would have told me any strange behavior, you know? it's just lately, she's been all over him in a nonchalant way.
and he doesn't know how to tell her to stop since they are like best friends.
since he doesnt know how to tell her, he's planning to ignore her..
but i doubt it will help.. so any advice for me?
i want to write her a message over like myspace or something, since i don't see her in person. what should i say? i'm afraid she will make me look like the bad guy :/ i'm not the type to say "Fu*k off" She can hug him and yeah, but biting/leaving hickeys.. is just as bad as kissing to me. it's almost worse.. because there's proof.. or maybe i'm just making a big deal out of this.
I kinda feel bad for getting mad about this. (link)
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I think you have a right to be upset, I would be very upset. If your boyfriend can't find a way to tell her, then you can try telling her and see how that goes. I hardly think it's going to help, really, but you can give it a shot. I think the only way she'll top is if your boyfriend tells her to back off and means it, and if she tries anything, he'll stop her and tell her he has a girlfriend, etc.
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hi i am nearly 14 and i am only a 30AA/30AAA why are they so small it is so embarissin all my friends are c cup and i have grown loadz and started my period please answer it (link)
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Since you're only nearly fourteen, you still have lots of time to grow. I was in the same situation as you are now, and I'm going on sixteen and am already almost a C cup. So you definitely still have time to grow. Some girls, believe it or not, grow up until they're 20. Sounds crazy, but it's true.
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I have to know my aim password because my aim s/n is registered as my myspace email address. So in order to get on myspace i have to click the forgot password link and type in my email address.But its no use if i dont have the password for my aim s/n because i need the password for my s/n to get my myspace password. (link)
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Ok, now I get it. Sorry about that. =)
Try this, if it doesn't work send me another question tellin me what happened.
https://account.login.aol.com/opr/_cqr/opr/opr.psp?lang=en&locale=us
This should work, since you do know your screen name.
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Hi! So, I have really big pale green eyes. I was wondering what color I should put on them to make them more noticible (or, pop as some would say). (link)
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Here you go =)
http://myjellybean.com/style/makeup/palegreen.htm
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im 17/fem, and in my sophmore year of highschool. so last year, there was this nice, but really flirty teacher in my school who did something incredibly uncomfortable [for me] one time. he actually did three things, all in the same day. we were just sitting around in his classroom and he decides to sit next to me, so he sorta pushes my leg/thigh over. i ignore it. A while later, while looking towards another direction, he runs his hand from my knees down to where my leg joins the hip. i simply hop off the desk and walk away, and ignore it. then one of my classmates decides to take a picture and he gets next to me and hugs me by the waist and holds me tighter. i know he was probably taking advantage of it being the last day of the schoolyear, but teachers just aren't supposed to do that. when i told my friend, she said he had done the last one to her too, but of course, i ignored it. Well this year, i got the same bad vibe from another teacher when he sort of touched me the wrong way, and its tormenting me. i dont want to get anyone in trouble, so im not telling on them, but what should i do to distract myself from thinking about this? (link)
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I'm sorry, but I cannot tell you to ignore this. It would be against everything I believe in, and I'm supposed to give people the best advice I possible can to help them in their lives. And if I told you to simply ignore your feelings and move on, I wouldn't be helping you at all.
Look, this teacher should get in trouble. Think about this: What if he does the same thing to another young girl? What if he does something worse? What if he rapes her? Then, you're also going to know that you knew what he did to you, and you didn't speak up. So please, tell your parents and talk to your principal. This is extremely important, not only for yourself, but for other young girls that he may have already done this to, and ones that he may be planning on doing this too.
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Okay well there are these two boys , mike & kev !well i like them both and they like me back to. me and mike have been "talking" and he has told two of his friends that his was going to ask me out then he goes off and tells this one girl that he ALSO likes and says yeah im not going to ask her out. and at the football game tonight he told this girl , Leah that he liked me but he didnt want to date me. and me and kev are cool im pretty sure he likes me and i like him so ill see how we do. but it is just mike that i need help with and his phone just recently broke so i cant text or call . so please help me. WHAT SHOULD I DO !!!?? (link)
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First off, my advice is to go for Kev. You know he likes you, you like him too, so there won't be much drama there. However, with Mike, obviously there is a bunch of drama. If you really need help with him, then I think you should go to his house, since you can't call him or text him. Then, talk to him about all of this. Let him know that he's either going to date you or he isn't, you need a straight answer. Going back and forth wondering if he really does want to date you, isn't helping you at all. So that would be the best advice I can give you.
And to answer your question, in the additional info, I don't really believe that's what it is. I think he's probably liking that other girl, unfortunately. I don't want you to think bad of yourself just because this guy may not want to date you, trust me, there are plenty of other better guys that will/do want to date you. That you won't have to wonder if they have feelings for you or not, because they'll let you know they want to be with you.
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OKAY.....i have myspace and i dont know my myspace PASSWORD.IN order to get it i have to know my AIM password which i DONT HAVE. I TRIED EVERYTHING.I TRIED CLICKING THE FORGOT PASSWORD LINK ON AIM AND MYSPACE.NOTHING WORKS.I REALLY NEED TO GET IN MYSPACE I HAVE CONFIDENTIAL THINGS ON THERE THAT I HAVE TO SAVE TO MY COMPUTER AND FAX OUT IMMEDIATELY.PLEASE HELP.THANKS. (link)
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I'm sort of confused because when you go on Myspace, and click the forgot password, the only thing I've ever had to do is put in my email then they send me my password. Can you send me another question explaining why you have to know your AIM password, please? I can help you more, if I know.
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What’s a good hairspray (I have pretty curly hair) that will hold it, work in wind, etc, and still be mildly soft??
Preferably one that doesn’t smell like poo...and that i could get at target
Links please!
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A good hairspray is John Frieda's Frizz Ease Curl Perfecting Spray. It's amazing!
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Okay, well one of my internet friends (I've met her in real life before though) got Work Expierience with this TV show, who are our idols and we basically worship them.
She's already done it and came home and told our group all about it.
I honestly couldn't be any happier she got it, really. But at the same time I don't think I've ever been this jealous in my life. It's not a bitchy jealous. I haven't gotten narky with her and as I said I'm REALLY happy for her.
My problem is though this is one of those sorta 'depressing' jealousy types. I feel really depressed and wish I could get work expierience with them. I can't, because I live in another city and I don't think it's legal. Also they rarely take in high school students, actually she's the first female high school student they've ever taken in.
I've also met them, and flew up to that city just to be in the studio audience. It's still not enough, I still wish I did what she did.
So my question is, how can I get this feeling off my chest? It's become pretty pathetic how depressed/jealous I am over such a petty little thing as this. It's not like I'm really missing out, work expierience for them isn't handed out like candy. (link)
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I think in these situations you just have to take a step back, and analyze the situation. Your friend scored a great job and of course, you're happy for her. But yet, you still can't shake the feeling of some jealousy. To get rid of the jealousy, I recommend working on achieving your goal. What's something (other than what your friend has done) that you've always wanted to do? Whatever it is, you should do everything in your power to work hard for it, then you can be the one celebrating the glory.
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My family is having a Halloween, party mainly because we have no plans on Halloween, and me and my friends and my brother all don't want to go trick or treating. We figure it's a good idea since probably most people don't have plans besides handing out candy haha. But then we thought, well Halloween is on a school night, and what if people can't stay late, and also what if some of our friends have plans, like trick or treating anyways? That makes us think we should do it on the weekend because there might be more people and we could party as long as we want. But if we do that, none of us (nor my friends!) will have anything to do on Halloween :[ So there is pros and cons to both. What would you do if you were in this situation?! Thanks!!!! (link)
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I think you should have the party the weekend before, because like you said, you all can party as long as want. So it should be tons of fun. And for those of you who don't go trick or treating, you can all stay at your house (or another friend's house) and watch a scary movie together. The AMC (it's a network on tv, incase you don't have it) Monsterfest will be on then, they have tons of scary movies on there, if you have that channel.
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hey so in my profile i want to put in a quote or something like a saying. any ideas?? THANKS SO MUCH!! (link)
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I'm glad I ran across this question, because there are tons of quotes on this website!
http://www.hot-lyts.com/quotes.php
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lately my best friend has been acting different and it's just confusing me and making me annoyed. she comes into school in the morning and seriously acts like a zombie, im not kidding, like i'll say something to her and she won't even answer. i mean everyone has those days- and she's obviously not a morning person, but it's EVERY SINGLE DAY. and if i'm around her in the morning, she just puts me in a bad mood, cause like she'll just pass me in the hall and not say anything and if she does, it's hardly anything.
also, i'm not a mean person or anything but she's also been acting kinda bitchy. of course again, everyone acts like one at some point, but it's just making me not wanna be around her, even though i love her to death and she's my best friend. like today in history, my teacher was handing our tests back and she accidently gave mine to my best friend (it must have been mixed in with her papers) my teacher noticed that she didn't have all the tests to give back and asked if anyone had some mixed in. so my friend had mine, and a few minutes later i JOKINGLY said to her "you stole my test" and she flipped out like omggg no i didn't she handed it to me. then, later, when school was over, i was talking to my other best friend, along with this one, and mentioned that she "stole my test", again, joking-yet she was like stop saying that she handed it to me blaaah. like i've been best friends with her since 4th grade and she doesn't realize i'm joking?! it's not like i said it seriously..idk.
it's just weird and unlike her. when we hang out outside of school, she's usually fine (except for the fact she'll like leave at 9 pm willingly, we're 15 almost 16, who stays out to only 9?) i have 4 classes with her in school, so i see her a lot and half of the time she is in a bad/weird mood, so i try not to say much, but when i do, half the time she comes back with something bitchy, and she ends up putting ME in a bad mood. i'm confused, i wanna say something to her, but i'm sure she'll come back with something, and we'll end up in a fight. what should i do? sorry for the length, thankss. (link)
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I think there may be something going on at home, or something else that's really bothering her. She doesn't know how to express her feelings, so instead she's bottled up with anger and silenced herself from her friends, including you. I think you should catch up with her sometime, and talk to her about it. Ask her what's wrong, and whatever it is you'll be there for her and be happy to help her if you can. Hopefully, this will make her comfortable enough to let you know what's really going on and you'll be able to help her in someway.
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ok so i've(im 20) had a crush(he is 20) on this guy for 7 years and i just told him recently how i feel . we talk all the time at least once a day. but the prob. is his best friend(is 19) whom i have no interest in what so ever has a huge crush on me its to the point of obsession and the guy i like used to date my little sister. he is the same age as me though, he just think it be weird to be with me after dating my sister and i also believe he dont wanna hurt his friend's feelings. up till three days ago i thought we were just friends thats it but then he started say he wanted to " Sleep with me" i accidently sent the message to his friend, who says he is just messing with me. but he confroted his frend(my crush) online last nite and i was talking to my crush at the time and he(my crush) said that his friend was asking why he(my crush) was hitting on me . my crush im'd me saying that he could get himself out of trouble with his friend. he told me what he told his friend he said that he was using reverse psychology on me then laugh about it with me. i said twice well he(my crushes friend) dont have anything to worry about its not like u have feelings for me right? and he said he knows what im capable of and he likes u. WHAT SHOULD I DO ? DOES HE LIKE ME OR IS HE JUST MESSING WITH ME? PLZ HELP
ok so im going to see my crush tomorrow at the football game, only prob. he is coming there with his ex gf and i just found out they watched tv together today.but he says that she was sending him mixed signals. so question one should i even bother going to the game? if i go should i just ignore him? or should i steal his attention? and what should i do to be unforgetable? how should i dress,act,etc? man im confused
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I think the guy really does like you, though I wouldn't worry about it. If you're crush says that you two can be together, no matter what his friend says, then that's what you should do. I don't think you should let his friend bother you, though I know it's much easier said than done.
I think you should go to that game and see how things go, if he seems to not pay much attention to you. Then, I wouldn't try anything with this guy because now that I'm reading this second paragraph, I'm realizing that maybe, he might still have feelings for his ex. Which is obviously, never good. I'm not sure how to tell you do dress or act really, because I have never been one to step out and take somebody's attention really. But you could try that and see if it works, whatever you're comfortable with is what you should do.
Honestly, he may not even be worth your time. I mean, it sounds like he's causing you major drama. So I would go to the game and based on what happens there, is what I would make my decision on.
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