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This Is Me. Take it - Or Leave itI'm Emily
I'm 18 years young
I can be a bit straight forward but it comes from the heart
I'm moving to Florida next week!
I have a Jeep and it is very sexy.
I'm a little short for my liking
I am an aspiring model
I'm going to college for massage therapy, but am hoping to get into the entertainment business.
I used to be on my highschool's fencing team, and I miss it a whole lot ::sigh::
I used to fence with a sabre.
Art is my life
Andy Warhol is AMAZING!
I'm obsessed with tattoos and piercings
I am a guitarist, a photographer, a painter, and an artist.
I'm a loner, I'm a loser but I like it that way.
My friends and family mean the world to me.
I have 3 dogs.
I've been through more than I should.
I've been told I'm too adult for my age.
I'll answer your questions if you need it [=
Words of advice on love:
- Don't ever let someone tell you that you are not in love.
- If you say that you THINK you're in love, then you aren't. If you really feel it, then you are.
- Never let someone judge your relationship unless they know FACTS.
- To me, age is not an issue. If you are 13 and dating a 30 year old, then it's a big deal. If it's 5 or 6 years, not a big deal.
- If you are being abused mentally/physically GET OUT OF THE RELATIONSHIP! Don't give the excuse that he apologized. If he loves you he wouldn't do that to you.
I'm not a fan of answering questions that are listed in the FAQ. If it's a question you can look up on Google then please, look it up on google. Don't be lazy.
I do not like when people have issues with typing.
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hey im thinking of shaving.. u kno down there(im female) and i was wondering if you use shaving cream or something like that? i rate 5's!!
What you should do is first trim it with scissors and then put lotion on it and then shave it off with a moisturizing shaving cream or even conditioner. After that rinse it really good and keep putting moisturizer on it because if you don't it will itch very badly. Hope this helped.
Ok, I just bought this new jacket..it's polyester..and everytime I wear it, it leaves lint all over my shirt (or whatever I'm wearing underneath it.) Is there a way to prevent this? Thanks!! I'll give 5's for every answer!! ;-)
Oh I hate it when that happens! You take the damn thing off and all you see is LINT! Wash the jacket in cold water and put it in the dryer on low heat. If you're dryer has a no heat setting that works even better. Hope this helped!
This is for the girls.. okay.. well i'm on Ortho tricyclen Lo.. and if any of you are i have a question!!.. okay well when will i start my period.. will i start it on my normal day.. or when i start taking the inactive pills? Thanks!
I do not use it but with all birth control pills, it causes your period to come later or earlier than the expected date. Some days you'll spot and when you do get your period it either lasts longer than normal or it's shorter than normal. If you have any major concerns you should contact your doctor or call the 800 number for the pills. Hope this helped.
me and my bf have been together for a long time now..the only stuff weve done is i gave him a handjob ONCE and that was it. im not a virgin and neither is he. i dont want to have sex with him though because i am so scared to get pregnant its too risky. lately hes been kinda like feeling up my shirt and trying to put his hand in my pants. i always stop him by making an excuse. i dont want to seem like a sissy though. hes done EVERYthing...n ive only done it once...i get nervous now i know he wont do nething till im not ready but i dont know how to tell him. i just get a weird feeling when he wants to do stuff im not ready yet...how do i tell him...=\
Hey I know what you're going through. The key to a great relationship is trust, honesty, and communication. Do you trust that he won't push you into doing anything you won't want to do? Be honest and tell him that you're not ready to do anything. If he loves you then he wont' force you into doing anything you don't want to do. If he does, then he's not worth your time at all. You said you're scared to get pregnant and that it's too risky. You're exactly right. It is too risky because you can get pregnant and STDs. Don't be scared to tell him that. He's not going to think you're a sissy for telling him that or being scared. Having sex IS a big deal. Lots of people don't think it is, but it IS a big deal. Just sit him down and talk to him, tell him that you're nervous and you're not ready to be doing that yet. You'll be fine, just talk to him. Hope this helped!
In june i got in a car accident where my friend rear-ended some1...and i ended up with a spranged knee and a neck brace..well now whenever some1 gets like close to a car i start to freak out and like lose my breath...is that ok? because it was in june and its now november
My friends just recently got into an accident at the begining of this week. They will NOT get into a car with anyone under the age of 25. They are scared to DEATH. It's normal to be feeling like that. You're still paranoid because of what happened. I got into an accident and I only got a cut on my face from the glass but I'm still scared to death whenever a car comes even close and this happened 2 years ago. It takes a while to get over it if you even do get over it. If you really are thinking that it's stupid or whatever to be scared when you get close to a car, try going to therapy for a little while. I had to go to it because the first month after the accident I wouldn't get in a car at all. I stayed at home and watched TV for a month. Thank God it was in the summer or I would have missed so much school. But getting into an accident is scary. It's not something you can get over quickly. You're just paranoid and it's okay to be like that. Go to therapy for about a month and they'll talk you through things and you should be better. I really hope you feel better! Hope this helped.
should i become anorexic? i am to fat, im 5ft 5in and 115lb my stomach is to big, i feel fat. i play soccer, basketball, and softball. i thought that that info might be helpful..
also am i fat (not compared to you, ingenral)
Are you insane? Do you have ANY idea how unhealthy anorexia is? For the love of God do not do that to yourself! You're not fat at all. I'm 2 inches shorter than you and I weigh more than you. I'm a size 2 in pants. Are you crazy? You play that many sports and you think you're fat. Seriously sweetie, that is NOT fat at all. Being anorexic is so not healthy. You can die from that. I was anorexic because I thought I was fat. It was the WORST thing I had ever done in my life. Do not do it. You're not fat. Please do not do that to yourself!!! You're crazy to even get the thought in your head that you're fat!
I'm starting to make a collage on my one wall, with like band pics and my concert tickets and all that. I don't have much stuff yet. All I have are my tickets, Taking Back Sunday picture, a Something Corporate picture, and a My Chemical Romance picture. Does anyone know any good magazines to get like full-size pictures of those types of bands? Or anywhere else, like internet addresses? Thanks so much!
You can get their pictures off the internet. Go to google and then click on images.Type in the name of the band and there will be many pictures of them. You can do that or even visit their home site and they have pictures of them up on stage. http://images.google.com/images?q=my+chemical+romance&hl=en http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&lr=&q=green+day http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&lr=&q=taking+back+sunday http://images.google.com/images?hl=en&lr=&q=something+corporate. Hope this helped.
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How can you fade jeans? I need some way`s to do it, but not bleach, I`ve tried and it doesn`t work.
I`ve heard that cascade dishwasher suff work`s, anyone who`s heard about it know how to do it? Any help is appreciated !!
I've never heard of the cascade dishwasher stuff but if you put water on the pants and then rub them down with sand paper it works really good. I've never tried it but my cousin did. I'm talking to her as of this moment and she said she used cascade and sand paper. Which is exactly what eveyone else said. She said not to wash the jeans, put the cascade on it (a little bit of it) and then scrub them with the sand paper. After that wash the jeans in cold water. Hope this helped!
well i shave down their and like it always is itching now like crazy.. ii even let it grow back in and it still itchs.. and NO ii dont have crabs! lol.. ok.. well can someone tell me whats the matter?!
That's what happens when you shave down there. It itches. What you need to do before you shave it all off again is put lotion on it. Then shave it, then more lotion and keep putting lotion on every day. It's razor burn, you get it very easily down there. You just need to keep putting lotion on it and you'll be fine. Hope this helped.
Hey, I've noticed that on some people's columns, they have parts of their text that's bolded, and I just wanted to know how to do that or what is the code for that. Thanks y'all. :)
You need to use this code: *b*TEXT*/b* only replace the *'s with < for the first one and > for the last one. So it would be: < then the b then > thenwhere it says TEXT put your text then do the again for the/b. Hope that wasn't too confusing!
I have extremley bad cramps... only the problem is i dont know how to swallow a pill. The advice I want is NOT how to swallow a pill but if you know of any really good chewable types of medicine to realive the pain (I'm 15 years old if that helps). Thanks!
Actually, you're going to think I'm crazy.... A friend of mine can't swallow pills either and she gets TERRIBLE craps. So what she does is takes the pills, crunches them up with a spoon puts it in a jucy drink and then drinks it. Also, you must must must get a heating pad. They are the most useful things ever. When you're cramping really bad just lay down and put the heating pad on your stomach. They really help! Hope this helped.
k im 15 and ive kissed but never made out b4 yes sad i know. anyways i was wondering, exactly how do u do it? and am i the only 15 year old who hasn't?
Well no you're not alone. I've kissed guys before but I have many many many friends that haven't gone as far as a peck on the lips and others that have gone as far as sex. My brother didn't get his first kiss until he was 16... For kissing this is what you should do: Make sure your faces are close enough to eachother and at the right angle and THEN close your eyes make sure one person's head is tilted slightly so your noses don't collide. Close your eyes and then when your lips touch open your mouth a little and slowly stick your tongue in. Basically massage his tongue with yours. Don't open your mouth too wide or you might eat his face and it's really gross for him (I know this from experience) Try to avoid from making loud slurping noises because it's pretty weird. I know alot of people might tell you this but once you're lips touch you'll be fine and just go with the flooow. You'll be fine!!! If you want to make it a little kinkier... nibble his lip. Gently suck his bottom lip into your mouth and sorta bite it. NOT HARD because that happened to me and the kid made my lip bleed. It's painful so BE CAREFUL! Hope this helped. Good luck!
Ok well I know this question is really stupid but i don't know what to get my dad or brother for x-mas. My brother is 16 and plays guitar and stuff and i don't know what to get him. Any ideas for either of them? thanx!
~I rate!~
You can get him a new guitar strap or an extreamly large box of picks. Picks picks picks! Guitarists love picks! Go into his room and find a pick and look at it. If it's a fender pick it will say Thin, Medium or Heavy. Whichever one it is, you buy that really large box of picks! For your dad, hmm... this is a tuffy. You can get him a tie (My daddy loves ties) or give him a card that says something like "I'll clean the bathroom for a week or I'll do better in school" or something like that. What I got my dad for his birthday was a tie (duh) and a card that said that I'd always be his little girl. You could do that too. (If you're a chick... your question didn't say if you were a guy or a girl) You could also buy him a greatetst hits CD of his favorite band. Hope this helped.
Hey um im having some super makeup problems .. ive got wicked long eye lashes .. super green eyes .. and kinda small eye brows .. theyre skinny hah .. but yeah anyway .. i need some ideas for new eye makeup .. im so getting bored with the black eyeliner in the top of my eyelid and the bottom .. gets boring .. i wanna go to school and wow people .. i rate high!! thanks
You need to get a clear mascara to make your lashes nicer since they are long enough. Green eyes, ooo pretty! I love green eyes with a pinkish/redish eye shadow. Not too much because it will look over done. As for the eye liner, try a different color, browns and earth colors. Don't put it on the top of your eye lid because that is what makes your lashes look mad long. Just put it on the bottom with a little bit of clear mascara or black mascara (whichever you prefer) Even with your cheeks, you can make them a little more red to bring out your eyes. They have brow pencils that you can use to fill in your eye brows a little more if the fact that they are skinny bothers you. Also, for about 20 bucks, if you go to Macy's near the make-up section, you can ask them to put make up on you. It might be more than 20. Or you can just ask them what colors would work best for your skin. Hope this helped!
saw your response to another question, what's the nine line?
The nine line is a hotline that you call if you are suicidal and they just talk you through things. Hope this helped.
Im 15 male and from scotland. Currently i am in a long distance relationshop and i am confused!
I love this girl, im sure of it. And she loves me too, but i dont know, things seem hazy, its not that i dont trust her of course i do. But like she has a load of male friends and is rather shall we say "close" to them. I dnt mean anything goes on or that jus im not sure what goes on coz i cant be there and see. Like i sed i do trust this gal with my life i jus dont know wot 2 think at the moment, plz help me sum1.
Youres anon
You said that you trust her so you have to. If you're still not sure about it just talk to her. Tell her that you trust her but sometimes you need to be reminded that she'd never do anything to you. Long distance relationships are hard, I'm in one right now. You have to just keep thinking to yourself "I love her, she loves me she won't do anything I trust her." My boyfriend has lots of female friends and I've met them all and I trust them. It's not that you don't trust her its that you don't trust THEM. Don't worry I know the feeling. You just really need to talk to her and tell her how you're feeling. If she really loves you she'll understand. I'm close to all of my guy friends, they are like my best friends that are girls but they have penises. That's just how you should think of them. Just think that they are just like her friends that are girls. Like I said, long distance relationships are hard but just remember this "No circumstances will come between two people who truly love eachother" My boyfriend taught me that no matter what, distance, time, NOTHING can get between two people that love one another dearly. Hope this helped.
My boyfriend is always putting his arm round my waist and touching me but I never know where to touch him. I don't want to be really outragous or anything, I just want to know how I should touch him.
Well if you've ever kissed him before, while you're making out, gently put your hand on his stomach and run your fingers down his chest. Also, when you're lovingly staring into eachothers eyes, touch his face and run your fingers over his lips and then grab him and kiss him. It's a turn on for guys. You can't be too rough or you might hurt him. If you are ready for this you can do this too. While you guys are making out, take your hand and put it near his lower stomach near his ding dong. Run your hand down and then back up on it and if you want to take it a little further, sorta put your hands down his pants and pull the top part of his boxers and like play with it (not his thing, the boxer thing) I know you said you didn't want to do anything too outrageous but your definition of outrageous could be different than someone elses. Also, when you guys are walking, put your hand on his ass and smack him like playing around or just put your hand in his back pocket. And most guys I know LOOVE being kissed on the neck! It's a total turn on for them! I hope this helped! If you need any other ideas just drop it in my box.
does anyone know any good poem sites? because i wanted to add some to mybuddy4u.....thanx in advanced...
I know everyone kinda hates this site but I like it: http://www.firehotquotes.com http://www.lovepoemsandquotes.com http://www.quoteland.com http://www.goodquotes.com
those are all that I know. Hope this helped!
So I'm doing the South Beach Diet and I cant have carbs for a while. Well I've been on it for 5 days, but yesterday I decided to cheat. Well this morning I woke up and my stomach felt gross. I was about to eat lunch and I looked at the food and wanted to throw up. I really love food but today its grossing me out. Of course, I cant go out with food so I'm forcing myself to eat but I dont know whats wrong! My stomach just gets grossed out when I see/eat food. Is this because yesterday I decided to cheat and have carbs and my body was just getting used to the no-carb deal? I dont know..Its confusing me and yeah. Do you know what could be wrong?
The drastic change in diet causes to upset your stomach. Going 5 days without eating carbs and then eating them one day will get you sick. And it's exactly what you said. You're body is getting used to not having carbs but when you out of no where have carbs, it makes you feel sick. It doesn't seem like a long time to go without eating carbs but you can go a couple days without eating someting and then when you eat it again, you'll get sick in some way. Don't worry about it. Peptobismol, heating pad, something light to eat with no carbs and water, 2 tylenol and a TV remote and you'll be good to go. You'll be fine. Hope this helped.