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plz advise
Im 15 male and from scotland. Currently i am in a long distance relationshop and i am confused!
I love this girl, im sure of it. And she loves me too, but i dont know, things seem hazy, its not that i dont trust her of course i do. But like she has a load of male friends and is rather shall we say "close" to them. I dnt mean anything goes on or that jus im not sure what goes on coz i cant be there and see. Like i sed i do trust this gal with my life i jus dont know wot 2 think at the moment, plz help me sum1.
Youres anon
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ok well i dont really know about your question but i wanted to ask you one, so me and my family are comming to scotland for two weeks in the summer and i was wondering what you think of it and what we could do there, im 14, am i going to be bored out of my mind or can u tell me some ways to hav fun? Lindsey Im-lindzluvya09
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A lot of girls have a lot of guy friends! Dont worry about it, if she loves you she would never do anything to hert you. One of my best friends is a guy.
~Brina~
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Dude run, do not stay in that relationship, long distance relationships are just trouble, get away from it. Especially if this girl is like this, run my boy, run, tell her you don't want to talk to her anymore and leave.
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hmmm... well since it is a long distance relationship it is hard to trust her but that's all you do have... i mean you can't control things that you.. can't control.. .and don't worry.. even IF she's cheating with you things will be ok in the end.. everything always is.. but for the time being don't worry about it.. you're there and she's here. if you think about it too much you'll worry yourself sick about it and maybe even drive her away. i've got alot of male freinds too and we're pretty close too and i'd like kill myself is all of my former b/f's didn't understand and trust me.
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if she loves you you aint got nuttin to worry about... she dont want no one else..!!! no sweat... but.. since you cant be there.. she is prolly hangin out wit guys just to feel like someome she can talk to ... maybe she is confused... but listen.. if you have that many questions.. let it go for now and see how she takes it.. then if she comes back.. shes yours... THATS HOW YOU'LL KNOW!!
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TO: anon
okay heres the thing...just relax...if the gal loves yoo and as yoo sed yoo trust her wid yor life then why not just relax? just chilll and as yoo sed...trust in yor g/f ya noe?
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Sometimes as much as u are worried about your girlfriend or boyfreind u jus have to learn to trust them until someting goes rong! obvisly u love her like u said soo trust her if she says she isnt cheatin then well she isnt!
Blayre
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go suck your mom's boobs
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Well if i were you i would just talk to her but make sure to not get her like really mad so well just tell her that you want her to have fun and enjoy haning out with her guy friends and other friends but your just conserned about it a little bit because u dont know what is going on in her life and i'm sure she will understand you.....! if you try hard in of
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dont worry about it .. if she really loves you like you say she does then she wouldnt lie to you .. make sure you talk to her about it .. hope i helped
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Aww that's really sweet.Maybe you should let her know that.That you love her so much and you trust her but sometimes you just get uneasy feelings sometimes.Alot of the times girls are jsut realyl close to guys more than girls.I know thats how i am adn some of my other friend who are girls.Just keep in there.Let me knwo if you need any more advice i'd be happy to help.Good luck with you and your girlfriend.
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hmm...maybe u should try to hang out wit her more often when she is wit her guy friends... or just follow her for a day in secret... dony make urself known and dont try to draw attention to ur self ...... no its not spyin its bein concerned 4 her and ur self !
>M<
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You said that you trust her so you have to. If you're still not sure about it just talk to her. Tell her that you trust her but sometimes you need to be reminded that she'd never do anything to you. Long distance relationships are hard, I'm in one right now. You have to just keep thinking to yourself "I love her, she loves me she won't do anything I trust her." My boyfriend has lots of female friends and I've met them all and I trust them. It's not that you don't trust her its that you don't trust THEM. Don't worry I know the feeling. You just really need to talk to her and tell her how you're feeling. If she really loves you she'll understand. I'm close to all of my guy friends, they are like my best friends that are girls but they have penises. That's just how you should think of them. Just think that they are just like her friends that are girls. Like I said, long distance relationships are hard but just remember this "No circumstances will come between two people who truly love eachother" My boyfriend taught me that no matter what, distance, time, NOTHING can get between two people that love one another dearly. Hope this helped.
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I know exactly how you feel. But trust your heart. I know it seems crazy but your instincts are usually right. If you're still unsure, don't set yourself up for heartbreak when you find out what she did/is doing with her male friends. You can always love each other and not be together, if you're worried about her cheating on you. To some people the physical things mean a lot in a relationship. Maybe that's what she's after with her male friends. Well other than all of that, the only other thing I have to say is to talk to her about it and express how you feel. Good luck, hope it all works out. xo-Jor*
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