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It's almost [insert holiday], I really want to get my [boyfriend or girlfriend] a great gift. What should I get [him or her]? (link)
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Halloween Costumes
http://www.seventeen.com/fun-stuff/special/halloween-hub-1007
http://parentingteens.about.com/od/halloweenfun/tp/costume_girl.htm
Gifts in General & for Occasions [links]
http://www.links2love.com/gifts_for_her_3.htm For Her
http://www.links2love.com/gifts_4_him.htm For Him
Christmas
-Gifts for girls
*Jewelry
*Flowers
*CD of favorite band, or favorite DVD
*If you have good taste, buy her a cute sweater or pair of heels. She'll be amazed!
-Gifts for guys
*Watch
*Favorite bands CD or favorite DVD
*Cologne
*Decorate a picture frame, with a picture of the two of you
-Gifts for parents
http://festivals.iloveindia.com/christmas/christmas-gifts/christmas-gifts-for-parents.html
http://familycrafts.about.com/cs/giftgiving/a/120400a.htm
Valentines Day
-Gifts for girls
*Flowers
*Personalized card
*Out to dinner
*Jewelry
-Gifts for guys
*Cologne
*Make a mixed cd for your guy
*If he's into sports, get him some memorabilia of some sort.
Birthday
-Gifts for girls
*Red Roses or Her Favorite Flowers
*A Locket or Any Other Type of Jewelry
*Take her out to dinner
-Gifts for guys
*Watch
*Cologne
*CD or DVD
*Anything that he's been saying that he wants for a long time
P.S. For anniversaries, you can take a look throughout all of these. They're all good gifts for any meaningful day, really.
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Okay. So if you have a final exam worth 100 points, and you get 50% on it, (fail it) how much % will your grade drop??
Any help accepted!
thanx! (link)
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It does depend on your current grade, but most of the time it drops between 10-20%.
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Does anyone know where i can get a headband with a bow on it (like the one's that Blair wears in Gossip Girl)??
Thanks! (link)
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I know exactly which one you're talking about, it's so cute. I've seen similar ones at Claire's.
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are dog's in the wolf fam? (link)
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Yes, they are in the wolf family.
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I honesty believe my boyfriend is gay (he just doesn't know it yet). I'm not gonna go through and list the reasons why, because it really doesn't matter. I know many guys who claimed they were straight until they couldn't hide it anymore and I'm just about positive my boyfriend is hiding behind me. I have absolutely no idea how to deal with this or if i should say anything or not. (link)
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I think you should talk to him about it, and see what he has to say. Either way, I believe it will end with a break-up. Which seems to be the best thing here to me, just because you're going to keep thinking that he's gay and it's only going to harm the relationship more. So I think it's best to talk it over with him, and then breakup with him.
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so there's a guy that i like a lot and I've been his friend for a few weeks (maybe a month?) i don't know him THAT well, but I know enough about him to feel comfortable asking him out.
I think about him all the time and I want to ask him to go to a movie with me this weekend, but I don't know if I should ask him... If I wait, what if he doesn't ask me? I just don't know when/how to ask him or if i should even ask him at all.
He knows I'm interested because of this one time... (i won't explain here)
so please just tell me what you think. (link)
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I think it's a good idea if you ask him, approach him soon and let him know how you feel, and that you want to be more than friends.
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how do i make my own website? and how much will it cost me? (link)
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If you want a free website, you can use Yahoo! Geocities or Freewebs.
www.freewebs.com
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Me and this guy were freinds with benetfits like we hooked up adn he felt me up. we've been best friends for a while but that was fun to.. Then one of my best friends Lisa he asked out the next day. I was really upset and all I want to do is cry!! I feel betrayed adn cant get over him! any advice? (link)
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Unfortunately, these things do happen. You're probably better off without him, even though it doesn't seem like it right now. You'll find a great guy who will only want to be with you, someday. =)
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*Goin' Crazy by Natalie
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There is this guy that i think im in love with..we're not together anymore but i think about him alooooot..i want to be with him a little and i still like him a little. but he has a habit of flirting alot and talking(trying to get with) other girls..sometimes it makes me sad but i dont say nothing to him about it. He was trying to get back wit me a while ago but he also was wanting to hook up with other girls to..but i havent asked him why he did that. on his birthday i kissed him n he pretended he wanted me back but i dont know...and he asked me to type a paper cause he doenst have a computer i did it and then he wanted to make out but didnt talk to me a couple days after...i dont noe wat to do i want to move on but im lonely and miss him being my boyfriend..but he hurts me soo bad (link)
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"He hurts me so bad." That quote alone is enough for me to know that this relationship is no good. And it's not because of you, it's all because of him. If he was a deserving boyfriend or even a friend, he would never hurt you by toying with your emotions and always flirting around with different girls. Believe me, even though it's still hard to get through -- you're much better off without him.
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Hello everyone I need some serious help! My boyfriend said for me to surprise him with his Christmas present but I really don't know what to get him. Can someone give me some hints? It's our first Christmas together and I really want to make it special and memorable. Thanks (link)
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*Cologne
*Get a picture frame, decorate it with a picture of you two together.
*His favorite band/singer/rapper's cd.
*A watch, if he wears one.
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so i want to get an all white tattoo on my wrist but im worried that sinse im more on the paler side that it might not look very good. what do you think? (link)
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Oh, my friend did that not too long ago. Her's almost looked like a band was around her wrist, but anyway, she's also pale and it looks great on her. So I'm sure it'll look good on you too. =)
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I've never really had challenges talking to guys because they usually come to me...like I've never really had to start talking to them first. There's this kid at my school and he's probably the most adorable kid ever but he's really popular and I think he might be a little superficial. I'm a junior and he's a senior so I always see him in the halls but I don't have the balls to actually talkk to him. I'm not shy, really but Idk how to approach him. Any ideas? I'm really bold and outgoing haha. Like I do subtle things like brush up against him and stuff, but idk if he has the idea that i like him yet. I really wanna talk to him... (link)
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*You can "accidently" bump into him and drop your books, that should start a conversation.
*If there's something going on in your school, say a big test, you can act like you need some help for it. And you know he's really smart, and see if he'll help you. Guys feel all macho when they help a girl.
*Here are some convo starters that might help you.
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/convo.htm
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okayy lets see, me and this guy have been going out for like around 1 month. we went out for like 5 months before though. he pretty much knos everything about me and i pretty much no everything about himm. now when we talk on the phone at night, we go blank it will be silent for like 10 minutes cause we cant think of anythingg to say to each other. i need some stuff to talk aboutt. i ask him how his day was and what hes doing the following day. but after that we cant think of anythingg to talk aboutt. HELPP! well thanks in advancee! =]] (link)
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This should help you out =)
http://myjellybean.com/guys/flirting/convo.htm
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I have these super deep blackheads on my nose, like right down the center bone. They ruin my nose and I just don't know how to make them go away. I have tried antibacterial washes, popping, benzoyl peroxide, oil free moisturizers, and face steaming. Help! (link)
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Here you go =)
http://www.advicenators.com/qview.php?q=507367
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For forensics (It is not a team where you dissect bodies.) I'm planning to do a duo interp piece with Jamie, a guy. But we're not sure what to do. We've asked the sponsor to help us find a piece. But does anyone know where I can find a short skit or play skit for two? I prefer dramatic and psychological ones but any would be fine =)
15/f
Thanks! (link)
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Here are some skits, I'm sorry if it isn't what you're looking for. I've looked everywhere and can't find much.
http://www.righteousinsanity.com/freestuff/skits/index.html
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Hi, you already answered my question, but I have another question. First will you actually get in trouble for it? Like how can you get in trouble with the law if your say kissing in public? I don't understand how they can fine you or whatever for dating someone a couple yrs older than you. Especially if you are in the same grade. I mean what about if you kiss at school? Can you please tell me more if you know more and understand this law? Cause I don't haha (link)
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Well, my best guess is the only way you're going to get in trouble for it is if someone turns you in, which is very unlikely -- unless you're having sex and the parents get someone in trouble. See, I don't understand this much either, because in my states law, the age of consent is 18. You can date all you want, you just can't have sex with anyone that's a minor. Are you positive you didn't get it mixed up with dating?
EDIT: Yes, dating is fine, but sex isn't. I thought you might have it mixed up, believe me, I get worse things mixed up, so no worries, haha. Glad I could help you out =)
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Ok I'm super confused so maybe someone can explain this to me! Let's say a boy is 17 and in your state the law is a 17+ person can't date a minor then can he have a 15 year old girlfriend? Because I was reading that there are laws that when your like 17 and up you can't date minors but what about teens around the same age with only a couple years difference? Thanks so much and I will rate everyone who helps me! :D (link)
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From my understanding, if the law is 17+ cannot date a minor, then they couldn't date someone fifteen or even sixteen, since they would be considered a minor.
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would colleges be mad if you dont visit their school if their school is kind of far away from where you live? would they even know? (link)
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From my understanding, they wouldn't be upset. Especially, since it is far away.
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if you have sex with your boyfriend, that's not considered as "a whore"... right? (link)
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Of course not, you're only consider a whore when you sleep with lots of different guys.
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where can you get these dreads??
http://farm2.static.flickr.com/1401/1472464693_eec0825f8c.jpg?v=0 (link)
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I believe you can get these at a salon, that does dreads.
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