I've never really had challenges talking to guys because they usually come to me...like I've never really had to start talking to them first. There's this kid at my school and he's probably the most adorable kid ever but he's really popular and I think he might be a little superficial. I'm a junior and he's a senior so I always see him in the halls but I don't have the balls to actually talkk to him. I'm not shy, really but Idk how to approach him. Any ideas? I'm really bold and outgoing haha. Like I do subtle things like brush up against him and stuff, but idk if he has the idea that i like him yet. I really wanna talk to him...
*If there's something going on in your school, say a big test, you can act like you need some help for it. And you know he's really smart, and see if he'll help you. Guys feel all macho when they help a girl.
Volleyball2150 answered Thursday October 18 2007, 3:15 pm: wow... you seriously sound like me right now. LOL. I am also having trouble getting this guy to notice me and start talking to me. well i got this advice from a friend and she said that I should do something near him that he HAS to react to. For example, ask a question... he HAS to answer it. otherwise, it would be terribly rude to just not answer. or drop something near him but pretend you didn't notice, and see if he would pick it up for you. (its kinda childish but it DOES work) then you can say "thanks" and just pick it up from there. Or what you can also do is have a friend talk to him and then pretend like you need to talk to your friend and then have your friend introduce you to him.
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