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Gay?
I honesty believe my boyfriend is gay (he just doesn't know it yet). I'm not gonna go through and list the reasons why, because it really doesn't matter. I know many guys who claimed they were straight until they couldn't hide it anymore and I'm just about positive my boyfriend is hiding behind me. I have absolutely no idea how to deal with this or if i should say anything or not.
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I think you should talk to him about it, and see what he has to say. Either way, I believe it will end with a break-up. Which seems to be the best thing here to me, just because you're going to keep thinking that he's gay and it's only going to harm the relationship more. So I think it's best to talk it over with him, and then breakup with him.
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If you honestly believe this, tell him so, and break up with him.
It's the only responsible and honest thing to do.
If you don't trust him about his sexuality, then you shouldn't be with him. If you think he doesn't want you, you shouldn't be with him.
His sexuality is his business and his job to figure out. You can't tell him who he is, but you can tell what you believe and why you can't be with him.
What he does from there on out is his business.
EDIT: Well, yeah. It's going to be offensive and hurtful. You are telling him you don't trust him or believe him. But the only other option is dumping him without telling him why. You can't stay with him I you believe this.
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