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what is the real definition of cheating on someone?
just wondering (link)
when u have a b/f going and kissin someone else...or doing more then kissing...if your just flirting then thats not cheading xoxo effy


Ok, do all guys wait for GIRLS to make the first move? I mean, i kno this guy likes me but he wont make a move. what should i do with him? (link)
no not all guys there are some that are 2 shy but there are some that will move rite away...if you kno the guy likes u and he wont make the first move then go ahead and make the first move for him lmao...good luck xoxo effy


How do I get guys to like me? Im a 14/f and i weigh 115 lbs. My friends say i am really pretty but i cant seem to get guys to notice me. Any suggestions? (link)
ight...well you gotta wear something sexy...not 2 sluty but sexy enough...put a lil make up not 2 much but enough...and kinda flirt a round a lil bit...u'll b ok..u'll live :)xoxox effy


does any1 know how bad it hurts your hair to permantly straighten it? and what the process is?? (link)
it doesnt hurt at all...xoxo effy


Do guys want a girl who's like all energetic and talkitive and flirty? Cuz its seems like they are the ones getting all the attention. I'm shy so nothing's working for me. What's going on in ur heads guys? (link)
it all depends on a guy..but most of the time they want a talkative energetic "outgoing" girl...but there are someguys out there that would prefer a shy girl rather then a talkative one...there are some that think the talkative ones are annoying...it all depends on a guy...dont worry the rite one will come ...xoxo effy


I joined the army to make a life for my then girlfriend, now fiance. She has always resented the fact that I made the decision to enlist and leave home. It's now been almost a year and I have only seen her a few times since leaving. I miss her and I think it could have been a mistake joining even though it has created a way for us to get married. I am not happy without her and the long distance is wearing on me. How do i make myself happy without her? (link)
write her and talk to her over the phone as much as u can...everytime you get a chance to talk to her do so...let me tell you i been in ur shoes and i kno wut its like...talkin to her a lil more often then usual will b a lil better of course but still...you'll still miss her and everything...the best way is to go see her everychance u get...or drop off that army stuff and just b wit her :) and make ur self happy...xoxo effy


i have a big problem.....my friend thinks im talkin shit bout her but im reele not...i guess her friends r tellin her that im sayin shyt behind her back but im relee not. she hates me now for a reeson that isnt even tru! our friendship reele ment alot to me but now she wont even talk to me. wat do i do??? it was sooo much better and funner wen we were friends. (link)
well i dunno what to tell you...if ur really sure that u didnt say anything to bout her...then talk to her and tell her u didnt...and prove to her u didnt...u got to have proves or give her sometime to find out the truth if thats the turth then ...its gonna come out sooner or later...xoxo effy


i REALLY like this guy...but im not sure if he likes me ... he flirts with me ..alot..but then not alot if you understand that ..but also i just really wanna know who he likes..but since he knows that i like him i dont wanna ask him ..wat do i do?!..also he is like dropping signs ((i think and my best friend thinks)) that he likes me ....i cant really explain the signes but yeah..wat should i do? (link)
hmmm ask him if he likes you...or get one of ur guy friends that is his friend 2 and tell him to ask him...and then he could tell you...i used to do dat alot..it works for me i dunno...anyways hope i helped xoxo effy


ok i told this guy i like that i liked him..and i did it in person ...then after i told him he was like "can i see your phone" and so i gave it to him and he was just like messing around ..come to find out he put his number in my phone..wat does that mean!? haha ..im really clueless with "guy languagE" thanks! (link)
hahahahha ur so cute n funny...that means he likes u ..or his way of saying "call me" lmao...so call him up...and see wussup...chill wit him or something do something get to know him better...let him to get to kno u better..and b4 u kno it u'll end up being his gurl ;) xoxo effy


Everone says that 'puppy love' is just when younger people say they're in love but 'real' love is proper love. So is it possible for a 13 year old to be in real love? (link)
yes.. it is...you could fall in love when your 13...BIG TIME...but there's a lil persentage to b together 4 ever...if u do lov him and he loves u do anything :)xoxo effy


Hi Guys, Last week I broke up with my girl friend. We enjoyed sex a lot and I have become habitual to sex. Now the first need for me is to find out a girl who are more interested in romance/sex. How can I do it. Please suggest. (link)
go out...give out numbers talk to them...and fine out wich one is as much interested in u as u are in her...dats how u do it...xoxo effy


Hello im a 17 year old guy and i have had sex alot of times b4 and I am a freak in a sexual way like i would do ne thing and all of the girls i had sex with before liked that but just when i thought i was the nestiest person in sex i had sex with this girl last week that told me she wanted me to take a shit on her now im nasty but thats some nasty shit and this girl is like so beautiful even sexier then u no offense and ne ways i like her and she said she loves ma sex but how do i tell her that i wont do that cause its too nasty because my modo was "Nothin is nasty enough fo me" and now i found out there is so please help me. Thank You (link)
hi, well tell her u relly like her and u cant do dat to her...tell her what you think..and if she doesnt care either do it...or let her go...or just i dunno dont do it and let her think bout it..something like that...but thats a weird nasty situation let me tell u ...anyways hmmm hope i helped xoxo effy


Hey this is that 12 year old guy who couldnt come any more i dunno if u remember me well any how i took a break for about two weeks like you said no masterbation and no sex for two weeks and on the third week i had sex with one of my ex's and just when i thought i was cumming i pulled my dick out and i pissed on her and it was pretty embaresing because i actually thought i was cumming and she even oppended her mouth and everything and she got mad and told all of her friends that i have no cum in my body so what i did was had sex with one of her friends a week later to prove to them that i could cum so as i was doing her in her ass she pissed on me and i took a deep breath and i relised that it wanst her piss it was my own i was pissin in her ass and it was comin out of her pussy and i couldnt even feel it. :( I kno it sounds unbelievable but i went to the doctor he wouldnt believe me either so please what can i do i still dont want my parents to kno that i have been pissin on girls because its against what my family believes in. Whats weird is that i never even heard of anything like this. Please help me tell me how come that i cant cumm any more but all i do is piss and it feels the same as when i used to cum. I wanna cumm again and b able to have sex with girls and they wont b afraid of me pissing on them. Please Help Me i will do anything Thank You (link)
hi, well i'm sorry i dont know what to tell you...i never hurd of this either...never seen any situations like yours...i'm not a doctor or anything like that...so i dont relly know...i would say go to the doctor again and tell him wussup...tell him to check u anyways even though he doesnt belive you...i dont know what to tell you...sorry! xoxo effy


M 19 Orlando FL
I have been reading all the advice columns and all the questions and everything, then i clicked on your PIXS and holy crap you are sexy specially on the one picture with the red pants against the wall and your ass looks soo good i wanna do anything you dreamed of to it because damn girl you need some good loving and good fuckin. Holla at me if you eva wanna get together. :-* (link)
hi, well sorry to break it down to you but i've a b/f and i'm very much in love...i got w/e you say i need so...sorry..xoxo effy


My friend Lisa shes soo annoying, shes my best friend and i love her. But she's a blonde and she abuses that fact.. she imed me today and this is wut happened::

her: whats the number to a hospital
me: why
her: you call 1-800-911 right
me: no
her: i need the number to 911

she pretends to be a dumbass and shes not dumb at all. i can't even have a conversation with her without her asking me what a word means, and she only says it to make herself look blonde, and she sounds so retarded it pisses me off. how can i get her to stop? (link)
tell her what you think...tell her how u feel and tell her how retarded or dumb or w/e u think she sounds and she might change it ;) b/c ur opinion will matter to her (i think) so...good luck xoxo effy


i'm in middle school and we have the popular cheerleaders. Everyone tells me how thin and beautiful i am. And the popular girls aren't that pretty, but all the boys love them. I'm not a cheerleader but i think i'm just as good as those girls. why don't the boys notice me? (link)
hmm b/c most of the times boyz in middel school go after "fame" and they one b popular..and if they popular they gonna make em popular 2...but dont worry wait till high school...things gonna change..and boyz in middel school might notice u more then u think but they might b to shy to come to you b/c u might turn them down since they prolly think ur geourgeous...u kno wut i mean dont worry ;) it will b ight ;) xoxo effy


I have a few questions about getting shiney hair.
1. Does icy cold water really help make your hair shiney?
2. Are there any other techniques that help make your hair shiney?
3. What are some good products?
Thanks..I rate high! (link)
yes, cold water makes ur air shiney, also i've hurd vineger makes them shiny...and if you use conditioner and then cold water after wards and then blow dry them and iron them....it will make em str8 and shiny :-D xoxo effy


I have an exboyfriend that I don't like-like but I do like him as a friend. I want to be his friend but every time I get around him I don't want to talk becuz the last time we did he said why did you break up with me. I ran off so I couldn't answer but I broke up w/ him bcuz I think that i was using him. i haven't had a boyfriend in a while so i wanted one real bad so i went out with him. we hugged but didn't kiss and it still didn't feel right. How do I talk to him without hurting his feelings or making him mad? (sorry its so long) (link)
damn....lol well i think you should tell him that the reason why u broke up wit him was b/c u werent feeling him no more...at the begning you thought u did like him but them u realized u didnt so u didnt want to use him so thats the reason why...i think this is better then tellin him "i broke up wit u cuz i used u from the BEGINING" or w/e xoxo effy


WoW...damn girl u lookin pretyyy......................SLUTY! (link)
dont hate ;) xoxo effy


Ok, I have 2 years to lose 100 pounds or so! I need help though lol. What is the best diet south beach,atkins, ect. Like what should I do. And do you think it would take 2 years or shorter? And what should i NOT eat. Thanks if you can help me! (link)
do not eat junk food...like chips, french fries, mc donalsd u kno (fast food out of list) dont eat anything unhealthy...just eat salads...and fruits and boiled eggs and bolied pattato...you could like put some oil, slat and vineger...that would taste so good...oh boy (damn i'm hungry) and yah...excercise...run a mile 3 times a week...run or walk...start off walkin then add up joggin and then run...if you do wut i wrote ...you gonna loose pounds in like hmmmm 1 1/2 ;) hope i helped xoxo effy




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