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hi...im 16/f
here's my problem...im dating this guy named john and hes very nice, caring, sweet...i like him very much but the only problem is that his 7 years older than me...hes 23 yrs old,is it ok if hes older than me? (link)
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It is kind of wierd becuase i think its illegle to have a relation ship with someone over 21 if your not 18. But if you really like him and your comfterble around him and he likes you to then it might be ok. I personly think he's to old for you and watch out since he's older you never know if he's just going to use you. Well i hope it turns out ok.
♥ jackie
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There is this guy. We have never actually talked in person but he instant messaged me and we got to talking. We talked for a while and he told me a secret. A huge secret. I have never been told such a big secret before. Now it is incredibly weird around him at school. I fell like i know him so well but yet I dont. It is so awkward. We dont really talk anymore but knowing that I know his secret is just weird. I am the only one that he ever told. I cant even talk to him unless it is over a instant messenger. How do i make this situation not awkward. (link)
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Well he probly feels that you will keep his secret and he trust you to so don't give it away. Since he felt comfterble telling you it then it shouldn't be hard to talk to eachother. Just go up to him and say hi. Then once he says hi back say you have to go tto class. Just take baby steps each day so you won't feel as awkward talking to him. The next day just be like hi wats up and when ever you start to feel comfterble talking to him then start a conversation. Hope i helped.
♥ jackie
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I'm 15, around 160-170 pounds, and starting a diet. In my diet I plan to eat 1500 calories a day, and burn off 200-300 running daily. I'm also going to eat healthy foods like fruits, and not any junk food. I figured out this will probably help me lose 1-2 pounds a week.
I never really feel like dieting will help me lose weight, because I've been big for so long. Will I be able to lose weight according to my plan? If not, what do you think I should do?
Do you think this is a good idea at my age, and will it cause any problems? (link)
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This is good for you and your body. If you want to also lose fat and tighten your skin then you should also come up with a work out plane. like jog or walk everyday from a half an hour to an hour, but don't over work your self becuase then your body could react in a really bad way. Start to exercise and work out your muscles. www.toneteen.com is a really good website.
♥ jackie
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I'v ealways liked to be there for people when they're going through a rough patch but lately it seems as though there has been a rapidly growing number of friends and aquaintances who continually whine and sodding whinge to me about the same problems yet refuse to actually do anything to help themselves.
I'm a nice person, honestly, but i can't take much more of this before I totally snap at someone. I'll be there for them and help them but they need to realise I'm not their emotional sponge there to soak up every little worry and complaint. What do i do? (link)
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If your tierd of giving the same people the same advice all the time then just tell them that you don't mind giving advice but that your tierd of them asking the same question. I don't think you should just ignore them but don't be mean about it when you tell them that your annoyed by the same question everytime.
♥ jackie
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i always get swearmarks and they are so embarrasing.. does anyone no how to prevent them or get rid of them or something?
thankssss (link)
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Find a better deoderant. Theres this spray kind that you could spry all over you body which helps sweat and oder. I think its DOVE. You are probly better off useing the spray kind if you sweat alot and you caould find it in a normal store or where you might always buy your deoderant. Hope it helps.
♥ jackie
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PLEASE take the time to read i really need some advice..thanx..and i rate high
I am 14 years old almost 15 and i have never experienced a relationship with a boy..i never had a real boy friend before and im not concieted but i've been told im sexy,cute,nice body but im just quiet. i do want a boyfriend but i want the right one for me and im scared to go out with boys when they ask me out because i dont know how to tounge kiss and im 14 and where i'm from i should be a pro at kissing now. another thing is that im not close wit my family and im miserable and depressed i live with them but i just am miserable living with them but i dont express that all the time...i recently moved to this school and everyone knoes each other and i want to be popular in that school sooo bad...so everyone can know me for me instead of my looks and for being quiet. i want alot of friends and that i dont have becuase i have a hard time trusting people..but i have a lot of "so call friends"...another thing is that i envy people alot but i try not to because that is what makes me so miserable instead of being thankful for what i have. im not a snotty lil jealous girl or anything but i keep it to myself when i envy someone. and one last thing is that as you can tell im insecure about my self and i try so hard to overcome that and i know "i only have one life to live so i shouldnt care what people think" but..idk i just cant help being insecure hopefully i'll grown out of that.
anyways can i get advice from everything i just mention or just opinions and statements please...thank ya sooo much (link)
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Ok first of stop putting don yourself. your going to have to have someconfidence in yourself to gain friends and boyfriends. If you want a friend to trust well then get to know them more befor you diside that there liers or not. Then try to become a little more outgoing, talk its not going to hurt. Be random. Don't try to hard to be popular becuase then people are going to call you a copier and you don't want that. Be yourself find your own style and your own additude. Being more outgoing and talkitive should really help with the guys. Now don't worry about the kissing you don't really need to know how to do it it just comes. When it is time for ou to kiss a guy you will just do it theres no way to learn or know how it just happens. So just be your self, talk, and be a little more outgoing and you'll make it.
♥ jackie
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whenever i'm meeting someone i don't know, i have the hardest time keeping a conversation! i'm really outgoing and friendly, but most of the time i just don't know what to talk about and we end up standing there in this awkward silence. any tips / suggestions?? thanks!! (link)
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Ok so there's not total silence don't worry to much about what to say thats what keeps you from talking. Try to be random and losen up. Be funny and outgoing on your conversation. Here's the thing thow don't talk to much about yourself let the other person talk to ask him/her what they like to do, talk about some things they have intrest in. I like to be random i say something thats funny and doesnt really have to do with anything but most importanly be yourself. Have great conversation.
♥ jackie
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Alright, I'm 13. I've been getting my period for about 6-7 months and it was pretty regular. Well, the time's passed for me. I was supposed to get it about a week ago, but I never had sex (and don't plan to for awhile) so I don't know what's going on.
Since I'm still kinda new to the whole period thing, I'm a little freaked out. Help me? (link)
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You are fine. Since you still havn't been on your period for a long time it probly wont stay regular every month so don't worry nothings wrong and its only been a week. Don't worry you will get it soon.
♥ jackie
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Ok, here's the deal...I'm 13/f and all of the sudden I'm starting to really like my best friend, now I know that's kinda normal but here's the catch. ITS A GIRL! What is wrong with me? This isn't normal or right and I dont want her or my other friends for that matter to hate me, but I just can't make it go away! Should I just stay away from her until this weird feeling goes away? Please, I rate high! Thnx in advance (link)
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Wow this is a big deal! Ok well its ok to like another girl. So don't feel like your wierd or somethings wrong with you. Now you probly don't want to hide it from your friend for ever just tell her that you think you have feeling for her. tell her not to freak out becuase your not like going to make moves on her and stuff. I really don't think your friends will hate you for this and if they do well then they werent very good friends. Don't just stay away from her keep talking but just dont make a huge move on her act like you always do and this feeling might not go away so if you have to just tell her how you feel. Hope everything turns out ok.
♥ jackie
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i need some ideas as to where to go on dates. and dont say the movies.. thats where i always go & so does everyone else. it gets old & boring after a while. thanks a bunch =] (link)
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To have fun on your date go
1. mini golfing
2. goat cart riding
3. Tee time
4. out to dinner
5. chuck e cheese ( might sound like akid thing but you and your date could have alot of fun)
i hope you have fun on your date and hopfully you like on of my ideas have fun!!
♥ jackie
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How do I get a boy to like me without really telling him I like him? (link)
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You can't make someone like you, but just give hints like flirt with him or when you talk to him give some hints. You might just have to tell him soon or later that you like him though.
♥ jackie
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I got a pimple near my lip or.. on my lip on the side I guess. It's not a cold sore.. So yeah what can I do to make it go away? It obviously hurts when i move my mouth. it has a white head and all but i dont know how to pop it without hurting my lip. (link)
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Befor you go to sleep at night put some tooth paste on it. This will dry it out and then it should'nt hurt as bad and you will probly be able to pop it. just wash your face and by the pimple really good.
♥ jackie
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So this isn't really about me..but more a friend thing. So i'm a guy and my friend's a girl. Well she likes another one of my friends who is also her friend...She asked me to call hiim and discreetly find out if he liked her or not..we didn't have a lot of time on the phone..but he said...she's okay..then he had to go..so i couldn't talk to him about it.. But how do I ask him so he doesn't really get it...and if he doesn't like her..how do I break it to her? OH..and supposedly..he has a girlfriend..that cheats on him..but idk a dickhead told us that..but any help is appreciated (link)
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Ok well since this is your guy friend you dont want to bug him about it. When ever you get a chance to talk to him again just ask him if he would ever give the girl a chance. If he doesnt like her then break it to the girl saying " well he told me your not bad but he doesn't like you in the same way " and if she looks upset then just say that she will find another guy and forget about him.
♥ jackie
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13/f. Every day, I feel so lonely. It's like I'm an inanimate object. Nobody ever even seems to realize I'm alive. Nobody cares about me at all. I have no friends except my parents---that doesn't count. I try to make friends, but nobody ever gives me a second thought. In fact, I haven't had a single person at my house since I was 9. Nobody ever considers my feelings; if anyone has seen "Chicago," I feel exactly like the person singing "Cellophane." I cry like crazy every single evening at bedtime. It makes me want to do something outrageous just to see if someone would notice. Sometimes I wonder whether anyone would notice if I died. 5's to anyone who seems to emphathize... (link)
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First of all you need to stop putting yourself down. If your always complaining to people about how your life sucks and you want to try something just to see who would care . Well thats why you don't have friends, try to feel good about yourself and giving yourself compliments. If this is to hard then just start out by making a list of things you are good at or that you like about yourself. Become more outgoing and introduce yourself o people. Well let me know how everything goes.
♥ jackie
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hey
hey every one well my dad always hits me for no reasona sif imh is step daughter he always makes me cry and if i tell him not to he will hit i dont know what to do he makes me feel as if im not part of the family :( (link)
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Ok well i really think you should tell someone. Tell someone like a teacher, your mom, or even a police officer. This is important to tell someone becuase if he's hitting you hard it might lead to abuse. Well i hope it turns out ok .
♥ jackie
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I am looking for the CD broken bracelet by Michelle Branch, I know it was an independant release, and that it was released in 2000. anyone know where i could find it, I have tried ebay, amazon, and the like. (link)
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Ok about your question where it is well you should be able to search it on the computer sorry i would give you a location but im not sure where you live . Hope I helped.
♥ jackie
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I've decided I want to be more in shape and eat healthier. I don't neccasarily need to loose weight, 5'4" - 135 lbs. But I just want to tone up and eat better. Can anyone suggest work out plans / healthy eating habits / or websites to give me this information? It is greatly appreciated, getting ready for summer/prom =]
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this web site is really good for workouts and diets.
www.toneteen.com
♥ jackie
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I'm only sixteen and I have massive, dark bags under my eyes. And even when I get enough sleep, they're still there. Is there anything natural (in exception to things like plastic surgery) I can do to make the circles go away or hide them?
Thank you very much. (link)
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Get a plane metal spoon and get it cold then just hold it under your eyes . It works really good but you might have to hold them there for a little while .
♥ jackie
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hey .. my name is michele (i'm on lauren's login thing). i'm 13/f. I know relationships aren't a big deal right now, but I really like this kid Frankie. We talk sometimes in school, but we don't have any classes together, but we talk a lot through texting and online. Sometimes it seems like he likes me, but other times I'm not really sure. I like him though, but I don't know how to tell him. I'm sure questions like this have been asked so many times, but should I tell him? or how can I tell him without worrying about being completely embarressed?
Thanks !!
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You should tell him . Don't be embarassed at all. Well since you talk on the computer alot just im him when he gets on and say " Hey it's not a big deal but i like you,but it's ok if you don't feel the same way about me.I just wanted to get it off my chest. Well i just hope we can still be friends." Well you should totaly give it a shoot !
♥ jackie
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