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MY LIFE:depressing
PLEASE take the time to read i really need some advice..thanx..and i rate high
I am 14 years old almost 15 and i have never experienced a relationship with a boy..i never had a real boy friend before and im not concieted but i've been told im sexy,cute,nice body but im just quiet. i do want a boyfriend but i want the right one for me and im scared to go out with boys when they ask me out because i dont know how to tounge kiss and im 14 and where i'm from i should be a pro at kissing now. another thing is that im not close wit my family and im miserable and depressed i live with them but i just am miserable living with them but i dont express that all the time...i recently moved to this school and everyone knoes each other and i want to be popular in that school sooo bad...so everyone can know me for me instead of my looks and for being quiet. i want alot of friends and that i dont have becuase i have a hard time trusting people..but i have a lot of "so call friends"...another thing is that i envy people alot but i try not to because that is what makes me so miserable instead of being thankful for what i have. im not a snotty lil jealous girl or anything but i keep it to myself when i envy someone. and one last thing is that as you can tell im insecure about my self and i try so hard to overcome that and i know "i only have one life to live so i shouldnt care what people think" but..idk i just cant help being insecure hopefully i'll grown out of that.
anyways can i get advice from everything i just mention or just opinions and statements please...thank ya sooo much
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ohkay ... so we think that you should just be yourself and if they dont appreciate you then they arent really your friends. and then about the guy situation ... if you are with a guy and he's pressuring you to do something that you dont want to then maybe he's not the right person for you. if you tell him about your kissing situation and he laughs or makes a rude remark, face whatever then he isnt the guy for you .. but if he understands then obviously he cares about you and what your boundaries are and that you want your kisses and relationships to be special. if you just dont even feel comfortable with kissing him in that way then tell him that you're not all into the pda ((public display of affection)) thing and if he is for you then he will understand.
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Ok first of stop putting don yourself. your going to have to have someconfidence in yourself to gain friends and boyfriends. If you want a friend to trust well then get to know them more befor you diside that there liers or not. Then try to become a little more outgoing, talk its not going to hurt. Be random. Don't try to hard to be popular becuase then people are going to call you a copier and you don't want that. Be yourself find your own style and your own additude. Being more outgoing and talkitive should really help with the guys. Now don't worry about the kissing you don't really need to know how to do it it just comes. When it is time for ou to kiss a guy you will just do it theres no way to learn or know how it just happens. So just be your self, talk, and be a little more outgoing and you'll make it.
♥ jackie
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Oh, I'm glad I'm not a teenager anymore!
You are normal my girl, and believe it or not all the misery and depression will go away.
The right boy for you will happen along when you least expect it. Don't worry about it to much, just relax and let him find you.
As for french kissing, you basically stick your tongue out and wiggle it around...not hard to figure out once you get started!
Be yourself and you should make lots of friends. Not all of them are going to be long term keepers, but they will be nice people to know.
You don't have to be the most popular or fit in with the snobby real popular crowd. They are overrated and as soon as high school is over they turn back into regular people anyway.
All the rest of the stuff you will outgrow. You are right about that. So just go have fun and maybe talk to someone new everyday. Pretty soon they will all think you are great. :)
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