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Too many whinging people!
I'v ealways liked to be there for people when they're going through a rough patch but lately it seems as though there has been a rapidly growing number of friends and aquaintances who continually whine and sodding whinge to me about the same problems yet refuse to actually do anything to help themselves.
I'm a nice person, honestly, but i can't take much more of this before I totally snap at someone. I'll be there for them and help them but they need to realise I'm not their emotional sponge there to soak up every little worry and complaint. What do i do?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
I feel for you, It's been a problem for me too.
Thing is, you can't take on everybody else's problems all the time, it'll make you depressed too... Carrying other peoples burden weighs you down. I'm in a pretty bad state myself because of some of the things i've had to take on, and it's not something i would recommend unless you really care about the person.
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If your tierd of giving the same people the same advice all the time then just tell them that you don't mind giving advice but that your tierd of them asking the same question. I don't think you should just ignore them but don't be mean about it when you tell them that your annoyed by the same question everytime.
♥ jackie
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