So this isn't really about me..but more a friend thing. So i'm a guy and my friend's a girl. Well she likes another one of my friends who is also her friend...She asked me to call hiim and discreetly find out if he liked her or not..we didn't have a lot of time on the phone..but he said...she's okay..then he had to go..so i couldn't talk to him about it.. But how do I ask him so he doesn't really get it...and if he doesn't like her..how do I break it to her? OH..and supposedly..he has a girlfriend..that cheats on him..but idk a dickhead told us that..but any help is appreciated
I think that you shouldn't call him, you should talk to him in person, so that he cannot like hang up or anything. Just go up to him, and start talking about her, and you could say like something along the lines of hey you know so-and-so what do you think about her, do you like her at all? And if he asks you why you are asking just say that you are wondering.
Now if he says no, then don't try and hide if from your friend. You just need to tell her the truth. Just tell her that he doesn't like her that way. She will probably be upset, so just comfort her, and just be nice and everything, it will make her feel better.
And you should try and find about him having a girlfriend first, just so you know for sure...
xsweet_pea_10 answered Thursday March 16 2006, 2:05 am: Ok well since this is your guy friend you dont want to bug him about it. When ever you get a chance to talk to him again just ask him if he would ever give the girl a chance. If he doesnt like her then break it to the girl saying " well he told me your not bad but he doesn't like you in the same way " and if she looks upset then just say that she will find another guy and forget about him.
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