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love til you feel it
it's all that we need in our lives.
so stand on the edge with me,
hold back your fear and see
nothing is real til it's gone.
& hold on before it's too late,
well run til we leave this behind.
don't fall just be who you are,
it's all that we need in our lives.
♥ ♥ ♥
i'm britney. i'm seventeen, and just got out of a long term relationship. :( i'm here to give advice whether you use it or not. anything else, just leave in my inbox.
advice
for the past 5 onths i've been dating his great guy named kyle. He gives me everything a girl would want, great gifts, many compliments, my family loves him, he drives me every where, takes me out to nice places, like everything.
but last summer before i even met kyle i really like another guy named chris, one night chris and i ended up ahveing sex and since then i've always had a little thing for him. chris and i stopped talking for a few months then before i was dating kyle he just started talking to me again. i was thrilled.
but anyways after kyle and i had been dating for 3 months i ended up cheating on him by kissing chris. he eventaully found out and was furious. i told him i was sorry and had no feeling left for chirs, but it was a lie.
now kyles 4 hours away from home working for 4 weeks and only is back on the weekends. i ended up heating on him again twice with kris recently.
i do love kyle but chris just gives me an amazing feeling that i don't get with kyle anymore. chris and i decided we'll keep seeing eachother.
so my question is what should i do about this, because i reallly really like chris and love the feeling he gives me but i love kyle, and he's done so much for me.
well since kyle is so sweet you [can't] do this to him, it's not right. no matter how much you want to be with him, you need to think. you know you can't have both as terrible as it is. in my opinion i'd go for the one you love. tell kyle you're sorry. you need to tell him what happend. if he doesn't take you back then that's his loss. tell chris you like him, and it's been great but you have your love out there waiting and you need to be with him. i don't know. if you don't want to do any of this, fine. i'm just trying to help.
good luck? (:
how could i make a move on a guy a like.
(he knows i like him a lottttt but he has a gf) so how could i do that and make him like me more than a friend and still not ruin a relationship w. his gf? like i want him 2 kinda hav 2nd feelings on his gf and kinda break things off w. her...its only been a couple weeks !! ..then maybe me and him could work things out....we're actually pretty good friends and i no he thinks im really funny and kool nd stuff bc he told my friend adam that i am.
well what you [don't] want to do is actually make a move on him, and let his girlfriend find out. those situations suck ass. alot of drama occurs, and noone likes that. (: but what you could do is flirt, alot. tell him that you really like him and you wish things could progress, find out if he likes you. he already said your funny and cool, that's always a bonus! just make him realize things will be better if you and him are more then just friends. i'm sure it'll work.
good luck.
does anybody know how to get pictures from my phone to my computer?
i know you can acess 'my album'
my phone is a t619 by tmobile.
email them to yourself. like hit send, and type in your email. that works, i do it all the time.
okay my friend doesnt like a guy who is a player, and she say she doesnt like them and stuff but when she comes to her type of guys she wants a guy who is high standard and every girl wants him kinda like that and i dont get what she really saying what is she really saying?
sorry im from japan and my english is horrible.
she wants good wholesome guy! haha. someone who will be there for her, and help her out. the dream guy pretty much.
they're isn't much of them.
and at practice she likes to "show things off" quite a bit and i swear she's always trying to come on to me but she's straight so should i go for her or not?
well if you wanna try something out go for it. if she thinks it's weird and pushes you away then don't be offended it's just cause she's not a lesbian. but if she shows stuff off to you maybe she wants to fool around.
GOOD LUCK. (:
Would you ever...
Just..
nevermind im ashamed of asking
would i ever what?
ask me anything! (:
i'm here to help you.
YAY!
When you have sex for the first time do you bleed? and if you do, does it get on the sheets, and how much do you usually bleed?
Thanks Ya'll
it usually all depends.
my first time i didn't bleed at all, but my friend told me she did a lot. it can sometimes be a lot of blood or little drips. so it pretty much just varies from person to person. if you don't want stuff on the sheets put like a towel down or something.
good luck. (:
Can someone please tell me what exactly a handjob is? is it when a guy sucks your fingers or something? haha HELP thanks!!
lmfao. sorry. it's when a girl like messages a boys penis. like grips the penis & moves up and down.
uh.. What is spooning?
well it could be butt sex, or when your laying down and someones stomache is against your back.
how long will it take me to lose 20 lbs? i'm 140 right now ... 5'6"
actually, your the perfect weight. i checked your bmi, and is says to stay like you are so you shouldn't be 130.
believe it or not you can loose up to 7 pounds a week if you REALLY try. eat super healthy, do a lot of exersising, walking, biking, ect. all people are different though so don't be upset it you do everything and only loose 1-6 pounds, or even more then 7! so it pretty much all depends on how you work on it.
good luck ! (:
15/m.... me and my boyfriend (16/m) were having sex and he had a condom on. During the sex, which was my first time, and I loved it, his condom came off and when he pulled his dick out the condom wasn't there and we couldn't find it.. like I don't even feel it.
What should I do?
it could just be stuck inside of you. there's nothing really wrong with that, but it could leak into you which ISN'T good. if it doesn't come out it'll probably just have nothing bad happen, but i'd take a pregnancy test in like a week or something.
good luck! (:
So since about the beginning of May i've liked this boy and we talk all the time on the phone. Since like May 4th hes called me everynight (except for friday and saturday nights) and we talk for a MINIUMUM of an hour 1/2 each night. And i really don't think a guy would call a girl everynight for what 2 weeks unless he felt something there. and well so far thats really all hes done to make me think he likes me. but i really wanna find out if he likes me but idk how to. next time i'm on the phone with him should i ask him who hes likes or should i just come out and tell him or what? any advice would be greattt. thanks!
Just go and be like "Hey, who do you like?" I don't know how he acts but if he isn't shy he'll probably just blurt out, you. If you like him too go out! You'll both be happy. Good Luck. (:
what is a catillion?
did you mean cotillion? if you did here, that's from dictionary.com :)
–noun 1. a formal ball given esp. for debutantes.
2. a lively French social dance originating in the 18th century, consisting of a variety of steps and figures and performed by couples.
3. any of various dances resembling the quadrille.
4. music arranged or played for these dances.
5. a formalized dance for a large number of people, in which a head couple leads the other dancers through elaborate and stately figures.
-most websites talk about it being the dance thing. so i'm guessing that's what your talking about?
me and my girlfriend are really close an everything but recently she tearned all despressed and wont talk. and shes very quiet now which is weird since shes usualy really extremely loud. she doesnt want to do anything with me anymore and stuff like that. shes really tight with my best friend. and he told me that she told him that some fifty year old raped her.why would she tell him and not me. what should i do?
don't balame her for this. she's probably just scared. she didn't know what to say to you. make sure hwen your best friend told you was deffinitly true, before you go and ask her because that could really upset her. ask her if everything is okay & that she can tell you EVERYTHING & ANYTHING, and you'll always be there for her. comfort her. if that's the case and she did get raped i can completly understand why she is depressed & she needs help. just talk to her and see what happens.
i hope she's alright & you are too!
good luck. :)
okay so i want to take some weiht lose pills cause im just not happy with how i look and it seems easy and because my metabolism slow and no matter how much i work out nothing happens. but are they addicting? i dont think so but i want a second oppinion. nd i was thinking doing hydroxicut if that helps. thanks guys
just like the person below me said they are addictive actually. they aren't healthy at all. there's always ways to make your body the way you want it. try dieting or eating healthy. my metabolism is pretty slow too, i hate it, it sucks. exersise more often. walking works. but i wouldn't take diet pills if i were you. google up on it more though and find your own information if i'm not giving you what you need.
hope i helped. good luck.
okay. so im 15. nd my boyfriend wants us to go farther than what we have.. and so do i. but i know like your gonna orgasm and stuff. but i dont know if i'll sound stupid. what do i sayy like when im about to have an orgasm? yeah i know i sound dumb. but i just want to be aware. oh and what are some "techniques" i guess to giving head. does anyone have any suggestions. i'm an only child soo i kinda need advice with this stuff from someone other than my mom. cause i think we could all agree that would be awkward. thanks guys.
well usually when you're about to have a orgasim you don't really say anything but "uh uh uh, ahh!" haha, because it feels so good. i know it's probably going to be embarassing at first because you make all kind of weird noises, but hey, everyone does it. he'll understand.
for head, everyone is different. my guy likes kinda deep and alot of tonge. yours might not, who knows. you should just ask him yourself. he might not know though because he might have not ever got it before so just try your best and see how he likes it for the future. i'm sure you'll do just fine.
good luck & have fun. :)
i just had a "lesbian" experiance..... i saw some pictures of girls in yano... n it turned me on i went furthur and masterbating... i was think of both girls && boys but it was the girl tht turned me on most.... am i lesbian?
im only 14
thanks X
odds are you probably aren't. everyone goes thru that stage. i went thru it about like two years ago. i don't know it just still in a way turns me on when girls makeout and stuff, but i KNOW i'm not a lesbian. you'll probably actually experiment eventually. then you could probably tell then. not sure. good luck with everything. :)
my bf got a new job..and i am so0o happy for him because he has been through a lot. but in a way iam kind of jealous and feeling left out....friday he waas just supposed to fill out paperwork..so he went down there at about 4. i get home from my game and drive to his house..and ifind that he was still there at 9! he left when i got there and said he just wants to learn..so i let it go. sunday he worked an extra hour..then stayed anotherr hour after that talking to one of the workers. and now today he isnt in school..i bet he walked deown to his job like he said he would in the morning..and its crazy because enough is enough! i probably sound selfish..but i kind of feel left out and jealous. what should i do?? dont get me wrong..i am totally happy for my bf..it just seems like he is OBSESSED.
i feel the exact same way. my boyfriend recently got a new landscaping job. it drives me crazy because before this we used to see eachother constantly. his hours always change. typically from 7:30-7:30pm, it sucks so badly. he's not supposed to work weekends, but of course saturday he worked till 1. it just makes me so mad, but there's nothing i can do about it. i told him things are changing and he said "i'll cut my hours when you're out of school." i guess that's all i can do. whatever.
but you could talk to him. hopefully he wont get angry. tell him, "babe. this new job, i'm so happy you got it believe me it's just what about me. we haven't seen eachother much and it's just making me sad." something along those lines. and if he says oh well. i'm sorry, because i was in that situation and still am and there's not much i can do about it. also you could say "babe you've been working so much. cut your hours and let's hang!" i don't know just try it.
hope everything gets better! good luck. :)
I need your help deciding what the ideal menu for a public dinner would be.
Not knowing what would be the best dishes to serve is making this an impossible task.
If you will tell me your favorite foods, or point me to your favorite recipes, it would really help a lot.
You can list as many things as you like. They don't have to be fancy things at all. I am all about the comfort food baby! :)
This will be a mixed group of people so I would like to have something for everyone.
Cooking for a banquet is not as hard as trying to figure out WHAT to cook!
Everyone will receive feedback.
Thank you!
P.S. If all that was a lot to digest, pun intended, here is a summary: Please list all your favorite foods.
hm! i love talking about food. it makes me hungry. haha. but here are some of my FAVES.
-chicken ceaser salad.
-chicken parm.
-hamburgers/hotdogs.
-french fries.
-chicken [any kind.]
-tacos.
-pizza.
-fruits & veggie platters are yummy.
-shrimp platters are good too.
-potato salad.
those are my FAVES.
some other ideas can be ;
-steak.
-ribs.
+ here's a site that i THINK has some cool recipe's http://www.cdkitchen.com/recipes
well i hope i helped. good luck!
i just wanted to say that what you wrote:
I hate looking myself in the mirror, I hate knowing I have fear. I hate seeing what isn't there, I hate feeling that I am scared. I hate believing what isn't true, I hate believing and trusting you. I hate crying myself to sleep, Forgive me for I have dreams. I feel left out and all alone, With no one to call my own. My eyes are red and I cry blood, Please help me or I'll cry a flood. My friends see what I let them see, If they only could see the true side of me. And as I die inside with pain, Please don't think that I'm insane. Cause believe it or not I have a heart, That's been slowly torn apart."
thats amazing.
thank you so much. =D
your so sweet.