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okay. so im 15. nd my boyfriend wants us to go farther than what we have.. and so do i. but i know like your gonna orgasm and stuff. but i dont know if i'll sound stupid. what do i sayy like when im about to have an orgasm? yeah i know i sound dumb. but i just want to be aware. oh and what are some "techniques" i guess to giving head. does anyone have any suggestions. i'm an only child soo i kinda need advice with this stuff from someone other than my mom. cause i think we could all agree that would be awkward. thanks guys.
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We cannot give out those kind of tips and anyone doing so can get banned permanently. I wanted to point that out first incase anyone was going to do that in a reply. It's an automatic permanent banishment if you do. That's okay, you didn't know.
Even if someone gave you tips it wouldn't help you at all. What one guy likes versus what your boyfriend likes are too seperate things when it comes to oral sex or sex in general.
What you need to do is talk to him about it and ask him what he likes and what he wants you to do and have him guide you while you are doing this for the first time.
Let him know you have never done this before. Communicating back and forth is key for learning how to do this successfully so both parties feel satisfied.
When it comes to intercourse please make sure you have a method of birth-control first and condoms as well. When you are having or about to climax you don't have to say anything really, moan etc. Some women are silent. Just relax, enjoy the experience and no matter what you end up saying it's fine.
what you might want to do before climaxing is tell your partner and praise him for what he is doing and guide him further telling him what you want/like. That should work for you. If you want to moan, say something, be silent, scream etc. it's all fine as it's a natural reaction and something I'm sure he can handle.
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well usually when you're about to have a orgasim you don't really say anything but "uh uh uh, ahh!" haha, because it feels so good. i know it's probably going to be embarassing at first because you make all kind of weird noises, but hey, everyone does it. he'll understand.
for head, everyone is different. my guy likes kinda deep and alot of tonge. yours might not, who knows. you should just ask him yourself. he might not know though because he might have not ever got it before so just try your best and see how he likes it for the future. i'm sure you'll do just fine.
good luck & have fun. :)
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well usually you just end up making a noise. Every person has a different sounding noise so no one can really tell you wat noise to make because it comes down to when your having sex. Dont worrying about sounding stupid because hes the only one hearing you and im sure he will enjoy the noises you make. I usually just say anything that i think of that moment. lol
about giving head, every guy likes different things if you have given him head already then ask him what he likes. Do different things and ask him if he likes it and if he likes a certain way you do something then do it. Its really all about communication. If you guys tell eachother wat you guys each like then if will be more enjoyable for the both of yins. I mean i dont think anyone wants something done to them that they dont like. That wouldnt be any fun. So just communicate with him and talk to eachother and remember dont be worried about sounding stupid because if you get all worried then you wont be able to enjoy the moment. Ok well i hope i helped if you need anymore help you can write me in my inbox.
-katelyn
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Well tink about this. Guys make noises too. And if you are that comfortable to have sex with him, then he shouldn't think you sound stupid. Something else. Guys like it when they hear you moan, because they think it means they are doing a good job. Ever hear of faking it? Lol. If you think you need more than that, just tell me. Remember to wear a condom.
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