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okay my friend doesnt like a guy who is a player, and she say she doesnt like them and stuff but when she comes to her type of guys she wants a guy who is high standard and every girl wants him kinda like that and i dont get what she really saying what is she really saying?
sorry im from japan and my english is horrible.
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it sounds like she likes players, but doesnt want to sound like she is a slut or anything. if a girl likes a player, shes judged as being easy or just wanting to hook up. it sucks, but thats how it works...
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she wants good wholesome guy! haha. someone who will be there for her, and help her out. the dream guy pretty much.
they're isn't much of them.
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She wants a guy that every girl wants. She seems to be attracted to guys that many would want and go after. I think she likes being able to be with a guy that many girls would love to be with because she likes the feeling of being envied by others. Plus it is a self-esteem boost for her to be with a guy every girl wants, because it makes her feel special since he is with her and not the other girls. But this type of guy tends to be a player. Many guys that are good looking, good with the ladies, and the basic model of the "perfect" guy are players because they know they look good and women want them, so they use that for their advantage and get lots of play with many ladies. So she wants a guy with all the attributes of a player, but not the attitude or cheating personality that a player generally has. This type of guy is almost inexistent, so she has high hopes for finding a guy like that. No girl should ever lower their standards, but she needs to come to a reality check. Her standards are naive and gullible. I hope I helped you understand a little more :)
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