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Every weekend all our friends do something fun like go to the movies or bowling. And they always invite me and my boyfriend... but my boyfriend never wants to go. He only wants to sit home and watch movies and snuggle. Which is okay sometimes... i mean, i'm glad he wants to be with me... but we never do anything fun. And the weird thing is, it's not like he's anti-social... at school he's super popular and a big show off and loves to be the center of attention. But whenever we're together with a bunch of people, he ends up pouting and getting mad that I'm talking to other people. It's like he's jealous if I get any attention, or if I'm giving anyone else attention. So all we do is sit home while everyone else has fun, and they think we're like the most boring couple on earth. Ugghhh... what can I do? And why is he like that? (link)
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tell him that you want to go out once in a while. he should understand, and just tell him that you only want him, and every other guy is a friend to you. if he gets too jealous, stop wasting your time. you should be with someone who trusts you to be in a group. besides, what would you do...he's WITH you!
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WEll ok my best friend is a girl and we have been through alot together and i really love her and dont want anything to happen to her and ill make sure that nothing does however, theres a problem she likes to get around and have fun with guys and it hurts/ pisses me off...by the way i dont like her more than a friends...she gives them head,let them finger her, and fucks them and im afraid one time somethings going to go wrong and she going to get pregnant...i want to convice her she dont need it but she just laughs at me and goes and does it anyway such as right now shes fucking a friend of mine in my basement...i dont no what to do...i want to tell her how i feel and also get her to stop!! Anythign in helpful! Thanks (link)
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talk to her, but if she doesn't listen you should try to back off. some things people just need to learn on their own. just be there for her if something happens, and let her know that. its fantastic that you care this much for your friend, but she's obviously going through something right now. she wants to be loose, and there's not much that can be done about it.
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15/f & boyfriend is 15/m.
been with him for 9 months, met family, we've gotten pretty serious. i don't know if i feel the same way about him like i used to though. he makes me happy when he wants to but always says the wrong things and not a day can go past that i don't have a urge to punch him and the face. he sits there and tells me not to talk to guys, which is fine and all but he goes and talks to girls. like the other day he was at this girls house (who he says he doesn't talk to.) and he was jumping on her trampoline with some other guys. it's fine and all i guess i just hate being lied too because i know he talks to her. she likes him too, and that makes me scared. he constantly critizes me and puts me down but i really do love him and want to be with him, and he tells me he loves me and looks at me with this adorable face and i know he loves me. he just sometimes gets to the point where i can't take it anymore and i don't want those moments to happen anymore. i want everything to be okay. i've told him these things a billion times and he promises things will change/get better but they never do. i don't wanna just be told things will get better i wanna see that things will. im thinking about breaking up with him but everytime i did in the past he cried to me saying he loves me so much, and can't loose me. and today im at home sick, and he's with his friends, and when he's sick or with his friends i'm home, alone. he just acts like everything is fine when it's really not. we'll get into a big fight and he'll call back and just be like "hey. whatsup." and it kills me because i know there is so much things left unsaid. what do i do to get things w/ me and him better?
i really dont wanna dump him, but things need to change. help me please. (link)
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tell him exactly what you wrote here. if he doesnt listen "break up with him", and when he cries tell him that youre sick of this and you really need to see a change. and if he doesnt change, well you can say that he promised he would. and he'll think about life without you, and i can see that is probably horrible.
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alright, well i'm almost 16 years old and i have never done anything with a guy. i've never had a boyfriend and i just kind of feel out of place. people in my school are really... "physical" and i think that they are crazy for half of the things they do. i guess my question is how far do people really go at my age? is it weird that i haven't done anything? i mean its not that i don't want to, but i was just wondering. (link)
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babe, im proud of you. those girls that do everything with random guys are just looking for attention...and they might exaggerate a bit too. the way you see it, you want the guy to really love you, and thats good. dont feel like you have to do anything you dont want to to get a guy to like you. there are many fish in the sea!
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So theres this guy Im talking to.He says hes likes me but hes soooo shy. He puts his arms around me, we cuddle and he kisses my forehead. but hes so shy to kiss me...we talk like everyday, but he hasnt called or texted me in like three days, and i feel weird. dont know why. I know hes really shy, and i want HIM to make the move, but im guessing i have too. Im confused cause weve been friends for like a year, but he knows ive liked him for like 6 months and so has he...should i make the first move...but the problem is, is that hes really shy and might hold back his feelings. (link)
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if you know he likes you, and if you know he's shy, then what are you waiting for? he's just too shy to do it himself.
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i get so jealous when i see skinny girls who can wear cute dresses and look amazing ... or just anyone pretty in general. i know i'd be a ton prettier if i lost weight, but how can i be patient and motivate myself to stay with my diet? any tips to not crave junk? (link)
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i think the jealousy you have can be converted into motivation. if you can imagine what you'd look like without the extra weight, then when youre about to give up, picture that. i have self-motivation problems as well, and it always helps when i have a specific goal like that.
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8th grade formal is friday! Well i just found out this girl has the same dress as me. And people always get us confused for some reason and now we have the same dress! any ideas on maybe how to make me look different. And my dress is a halter dress how should i wear my hair? i'm not really sure. I have curly brown hair its not thick i just have a lot of it. i can straighten it and pretty do what ever i want with it. But i'm just not sure what i want it to look like. my hair is longer though.. any ideas?
any ideas for my hair for formal?
any make-up tips?
my dress it black and white- i wanted color but eh any ideas would be helpful
the main thing is i don't wanna look "sleezy" i have longer legs and i have high enough heels and the dress is shorter and tight...soo i wanna look i guess sexy but cute? if you knwo what i mean!
thanks a lot! (link)
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i say straighten your hair and put it halp up or in a cute bun.
and if you want to look different choose one color and wear bright accesories that match (like red or hot pink)
make-up really depends on your style...glitter, color, shades, whatever you want to play around with
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okay my friend doesnt like a guy who is a player, and she say she doesnt like them and stuff but when she comes to her type of guys she wants a guy who is high standard and every girl wants him kinda like that and i dont get what she really saying what is she really saying?
sorry im from japan and my english is horrible. (link)
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it sounds like she likes players, but doesnt want to sound like she is a slut or anything. if a girl likes a player, shes judged as being easy or just wanting to hook up. it sucks, but thats how it works...
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15/m.... me and my boyfriend (16/m) were having sex and he had a condom on. During the sex, which was my first time, and I loved it, his condom came off and when he pulled his dick out the condom wasn't there and we couldn't find it.. like I don't even feel it.
What should I do? (link)
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well its probably not in you, otherwise youd probably know, and if you start to feel symtoms of pregnancy (like sickess and your boobs swell) then theres a problem
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When a guy and a girl are walking eachother, who's are goes on the other person's shoulders, and who's goes around the other one's waist? (link)
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well put your arm around his waist, and he'll probably put his on top. it forces you to move in closer.
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Ok so me and a good guy friend have been friends with benefits for awhile. It used to be just making out but recently we've been dryhumping a lot. He wants me to give him a handjob and he also wants to touch my boobs and stuff but I said it was against my morals. Am I being hypocritical that I'm dry-humping but won't let him touch me under my clothes? Which is usually considered more serious?
I'm still a virgin if I dry hump right? (link)
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1. youre only a virgin if you actually have sex
2. tell him to stop pressuring you or you wont make out with him anymore
3. isnt dry-humping kinda akward...jw...
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Where can I find clothes like abercrombie and fitch & american eagle but cheaper? Because I honestly don't think a shirt is worth $30-$40 ish.
I would really like to get cute shorts
and a shirt similar to this-
http://www.ae.com/web/browse/product.jsp?rcid=womens&scid=cat90038&navroot=womens&productId=0355_5721
or anything plaid.
But i don't know where to look! I don't go to the mall often or anything... and I wouldn't be able to go in every other store to look around. Time is limited.. (link)
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search amazon.com. they have lots of stuff there.
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My best friend and my boyfriend have been talking alot on the phone lately. He tells me he'd call me back in 10 minutes, but somtimes, he never does. Then, my best friend told me that he had called her and they talked about stuff. What should I do? I mean, he tells me he love me but he always talk to my best friend, calls her mommy or mama and they also have alot more in common than we do. What should I do?
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that hurts. talk to your best friend first, and tell her how much it hurts. of shes your best friend she probably doesnt even realize it's hurting you to that extent. then talk to your bf. if he really loves you hell understand.
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You are sitting on the ground, as your friend is sitting besides you, they slowly gets close to you and then grabs your arm and holds your arm and hug it as they lay their head on your shoulder and cruls up to you.
but thay are the same sex (females).
Do close friends do that to each other?
or is the one who is the toucy person is trying to tell you that they like you? (link)
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I do that to my friends all the time; most of my friends are just really affectionate
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Hey. I'm 13/f and my bestfriend is 41/f. The other day, I went uptown with her and her other friend, and we went in the woods and they smoked pot. Don't get me wrong, I mean if they want to try it, go ahead, it's their lives. The third friend, we'll call her friend 2, is a pretty bad pot head, although we're still good friends. I'm just afraid that whenever friend 1 is with friend 2, friend 1 will smoke pot and get addicted to it. I have no problem confronting her with my concern, becuase she confronts me about cutting all the time. The issue is, I don't know what to say without coming off like I'm trying to run her life. PLEASE HELP ME?!
I rate..
Sorry it's so long.. (link)
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tell her youre worried and that she can always come to you for help. that way, your friendship is still growing and she knows youre there whether she gets addicted or not. if she doesnt take it well, let her ruin her life and get better friends.
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14/f
My mom recently got divorced like 2 years ago. She's been dating other men recently and I really haven't had any problems with it...but suddenly she's been dating this one guy she's really interested in (lets call this guy Joe).
I actually like Joe and I don't have a problem with him. But I'm starting to get jealous of the time my mom is spending with him. My mom is always very busy with schoolwork and "paying bills" she says, so she doesn't have a lot of time to do things with me. Now she's with Joe a lot...he comes over a lot...she's on the phone with him a lot...and it upsets me she always tells me she's busy yet she has so much time to be with him. Not only that, but the time my mom and I ARE together, she's in a bad mood.
So I thought the only thing i could do was talk to her about it. I really didn't want to, because I know this man makes my mom happy and I want her to be happy, and I was scared she'd stop seeing him if i told her. But it was bothering me so much, so i talked to her...and she didn't take it so well. She said I was being unreasonable. But she also said she's going to stop seeing him if I really feel this way, and I didn't want that to happen! So now, she's going to dump him because of me even though i begged her not to. I literally told her i would get over it and it's okay, but she simply wouldn't listen and now she's not seeing him anymore. And I feel AWFUL!
All i wanted was for her to spend more time with me. But she thinks she already does, so i'm assuming in her opinion she thinks doing things once a month with me is enough.
So now I don't know what to do...I feel so bad, because this guy she's seeing is a nice guy, and he shouldn't be dumped. And my mom deserves him and deserves to be happy. Now she's all depressed and even moody-er than ever...she was so happy. And I screwed it all up. What should I do??? (link)
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just say "mom, i really like joe, but i'm feeling like i dont get to spend enough time with you." and see how it goes. maybe you could plan a day thats just you girls, nails, shopping, the works!
hope i helped.
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Let me start of saying that I am a guy. Well, me and this guy are going out and I really like him, but I havent ever met him in real life. But he has a webcam, so I know that he really is the age he says he is. I am supposed to see him this summer, but I don't know how to act. I mean, hes a year older and a hell-of-a-lot more mature. I mean, I love him a lot, and I don't want him to think I am totally imature and too clingy this summer when he comes down here. Any advice? (link)
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You're going to be nervous, but just try to be chill about it. Once you see him you'll be fine. All this worrying about it beforehand is just making it worse. RELAX!
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