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Should i ask him out?
So theres this guy Im talking to.He says hes likes me but hes soooo shy. He puts his arms around me, we cuddle and he kisses my forehead. but hes so shy to kiss me...we talk like everyday, but he hasnt called or texted me in like three days, and i feel weird. dont know why. I know hes really shy, and i want HIM to make the move, but im guessing i have too. Im confused cause weve been friends for like a year, but he knows ive liked him for like 6 months and so has he...should i make the first move...but the problem is, is that hes really shy and might hold back his feelings.
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if you know he likes you, and if you know he's shy, then what are you waiting for? he's just too shy to do it himself.
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Well a really good plan for your first kiss would be to hug him (not around the shoulders, but like a chest-to-chest hug) and then take your chin off his shoulder but keep your arms around him. This way your face is like an inch away from his face. Smile....then blink kind of slowly, then all you have to do is move your mouth forward an inch, no room to turn back. It'll be a great first kiss, especially if your kinda shy. Or else he could kiss you 1st when you're an inch apart, if he gets a little burst of confidence. But either way it doesnt require a whole lot of confidence....just a well thoughtout plan. Go for it, I really hope it works!
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Hey. I agree with JustAskMe... You should ask him. I know you said he's really shy, but if he likes you he won't be too shy to tell you how he feels. You might not want to ask him in person, though. Try asking him over the computer, on like MSN or AIM or something.. It's much easier to tell someone your true feelings when you aren't on the computer or phone with them. If you don't want to ask him out personally, have a friend sort of hint around, you know, like saying "So, ----, Do you like ---?, Maybe you should ask her out..." Or something like that. If not, just go for it on your own! Good Luck :D
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You'd be surprised how many guys say they'd actually prefer for the girl to ask them out, so if you're confident enough, go for it (it sounds pretty necessary). But, if you're like me (and I wouldn't ask a guy out... i just wouldn't) then just use your friends. Childish, i know, but it could work... just an idea. Anyway, good luck with that. either way, i have a feeling you two will be going out pretty soon;)
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