Let me start of saying that I am a guy. Well, me and this guy are going out and I really like him, but I havent ever met him in real life. But he has a webcam, so I know that he really is the age he says he is. I am supposed to see him this summer, but I don't know how to act. I mean, hes a year older and a hell-of-a-lot more mature. I mean, I love him a lot, and I don't want him to think I am totally imature and too clingy this summer when he comes down here. Any advice?
Additional info, added Tuesday May 15 2007, 8:49 pm: OK, I don't have a webcam, but he knows I am because he and the guy that introduced has met both of us, so I mean, I am not super worried about it. But my rents don't know that I am bi and I don't want them to because they would send me to a mental institute, and I am not joking. They are super christians, and dont like bisexuality/homosexuality. I would also like advice for that if you havent already answered my question.. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? loveyou123 answered Wednesday May 16 2007, 12:36 am: You're going to be nervous, but just try to be chill about it. Once you see him you'll be fine. All this worrying about it beforehand is just making it worse. RELAX! [ loveyou123's advice column | Ask loveyou123 A Question ]
SlushPuppy answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 8:43 pm: I'm wondering...do you have a webcam? If you do, and he sees you (but doesn't know your maturity) then I really don't think you have much to worry about. He's watching your every move, and probably approves if you guys are going out. ;-)
If you don't have a webcam, then I'd say just try to "comb your hair everyday" and most importantly just show him who you truly are. I mean, don't be like stocking him EVERYWHERE, but you can certaintly spend a lot of time with him this summer so both of you get to know the true you's. [ SlushPuppy's advice column | Ask SlushPuppy A Question ]
cmarie159 answered Tuesday May 15 2007, 8:39 pm: act normal =]
be yourself
someone can't love you unless they love the REAL you
just explain
that you are a bit.. nervous? [[is that the word im looking for?
and can i underline
PUBLIC MEETING
just in case
webcams are good but ya never know ;] [ cmarie159's advice column | Ask cmarie159 A Question ]
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