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uuhh boyfriend problems.
15/f & boyfriend is 15/m.
been with him for 9 months, met family, we've gotten pretty serious. i don't know if i feel the same way about him like i used to though. he makes me happy when he wants to but always says the wrong things and not a day can go past that i don't have a urge to punch him and the face. he sits there and tells me not to talk to guys, which is fine and all but he goes and talks to girls. like the other day he was at this girls house (who he says he doesn't talk to.) and he was jumping on her trampoline with some other guys. it's fine and all i guess i just hate being lied too because i know he talks to her. she likes him too, and that makes me scared. he constantly critizes me and puts me down but i really do love him and want to be with him, and he tells me he loves me and looks at me with this adorable face and i know he loves me. he just sometimes gets to the point where i can't take it anymore and i don't want those moments to happen anymore. i want everything to be okay. i've told him these things a billion times and he promises things will change/get better but they never do. i don't wanna just be told things will get better i wanna see that things will. im thinking about breaking up with him but everytime i did in the past he cried to me saying he loves me so much, and can't loose me. and today im at home sick, and he's with his friends, and when he's sick or with his friends i'm home, alone. he just acts like everything is fine when it's really not. we'll get into a big fight and he'll call back and just be like "hey. whatsup." and it kills me because i know there is so much things left unsaid. what do i do to get things w/ me and him better?
i really dont wanna dump him, but things need to change. help me please.
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tell him exactly what you wrote here. if he doesnt listen "break up with him", and when he cries tell him that youre sick of this and you really need to see a change. and if he doesnt change, well you can say that he promised he would. and he'll think about life without you, and i can see that is probably horrible.
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confront him. be serious, &make sure your point gets across. tell him all of what you just told us. if it gets to it, you might just wanna take a break with him. maybe a week. if you guys get in a fight&he just casually calls back, bring up the fight. say everything that is left unsaid. i think a break would be good, it sounds like it would.
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