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I hate my column colors, their getting old. Anyone have any cute colors that go good together? Other than Pink/black. Right now its pink/black/baby blue and I want something different. I rate 5's if you try! =)
i love pink and orange.. so pink orange and white?.... baby blue, pink and white... purple pink and blue? just some thoughts :-P
hey i was wondering if there is any way that you guys know of to make a pimple go away in a very very short amount of time, like overnight. not acne, but just one pimple. please. i will rate.
mix baking soda and water together and put it on the pimple.. there are also clean and clear overnight patches that help alot.. to make the bump go down you can put ice on it
this guys keeps calling me prude. i just dont want to waste my first kiss on someone i dont care about. do you think i should just kiss someone and get it over with or just keep waiting for the perfect moment and the perfect guy. i am 14 years old. please help.
same situation here.. ive liked a guy for 2 years but i havnt gone out with him.. ive dated another kid but i couldnt kiss him or anyone because i wanted the kid i liked to be my first kiss.. and i still do.. i dont know about other people but i want my first kiss to be special with someone i truly like.. its ok to wait for the perfect guy but dont set your standards too high now.. if your comfortable with the kid kiss him :-)
ok..i really like this guy ...he is perfect..but the only problem is that he is in 7th grade and im in 8th should that stop me from liking him?
-confused
i went out with a guy a year younger than me and it made no difference at all.. age aint nothin but a number.. go for it girl ;-)
could someone give me the names of some really upbeat songs that make you smile when you hear them. they don't have to be a new song I go for the oldies too.
happy face by destinys child... its the best song to make you smile
Have you noticed if a girl has sex they are called a slut and when a guy has sex they get more popular. I dont understand it please someone explain it to me or give your opinion on it!!
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ew i hate that!!! just like in the cant hold us down song with lil kim "the guy gets all the glory the more he can score while the girl can do the same and yet you call her a whore" i dont understand it either.. the guys are called the pimps and were called the hoes... it makes no sense
I have very pale, sensitive skin and I burn easily. I have never properly tanned in my life and this year I want to get a tan. I have to use a high SPF sunblock or I will burn. What is the best way to go about getting a natural tan with my skin type? I don't want to use sunbeds or fake tan.
spray-on tans.. look for them in your area.. you just stand in something like a shower and the tan is sprayed onto you
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Ok well I was talking on the phone to my bf last night, and I was on the internet. There was a banner-ads at the top of the page, and because I was bored I read it to him. It said "find out how well you kiss by taking this quiz". And he asked me what I was reading, and I told him it was a banner-ad thing. He then replied "I wonder how well I can kiss". I then just said "um, ok".
My question is- do you think he wants to kiss me? I want to kiss him, but I don't know if the feeling is mutual! We are going on a date tonight, and I want to know if he might kiss me.
Thanks I RATE 5's!!
it sounds like hes going to kiss you to me.. i think thats cute :-) dont think about it.. just have fun tonight and whatever happens, happens. hope everything goes good
:-)
ok well theres this guy and i think he is really cute and he likes me alot. well ive known him fot half of my life and hes like a brother to me. he keeps on askin me if i would go out with him and then i dont wamt to say no but i do and at the same time i want to say yes to him. i dont no what i should do plz HELP me
i will rate 5's to any 1 who awenswers
well he already likes you more than a friend and he probably will no matter what.. so you mind as well go out with him.. if you guys break up you can still be friends.. or if you want you can be friends with benefits and not go out.. which is basically doing the stuff couples do but not being "official". if you like him you should say yes
ok, well i like this girl, and i no she likes me 2. we went out for like a week, but it didnt really feel right, but we still both like each other! wat do i do?
if it didnt feel right going out then you guys should probably just be friends
Ok well I was the one who asked the question about my boyfriend got shot and is now in a coma and might die! Well he did die! I slit my wrist one night I cry my self to sleep every night And I hate my life I used to be a prep but now I have gone goth I guess skipping classes and crying! I went to his funerl and saw him in his casket I just broke down right then and there I fell down on the ground and cried I refused to get up for about an hour and I went bye him like you all said and spent his last hours alive with him but it wasnt good enough he still died. I left the funeral and just went to his house (his parents were at the funeral) and went in his room and cried I swear I smelled him and saw him for 2sec then I just cried! What will I do?
that must be horrible.. if something like that happened to me i dont know what id do.. but you cant think about it.. hes in a happier place now.. and hes watching you right now.. there are people who have said horrible things to people who die the next day and now they regret it for the rest of their lives.. be happy that you were able to spend his last hours on earth with him. your going to be with him some day.. dont hurt yourself, it wont help and its not going to bring him back.. you cant be sad for the rest of your life.. im sure he wants you to be happy and he loves you and he always will. try to get better.. i hope i helped you
Okay, so I'm 14 and I RALLY like this guy on my bus, he's 18 though. He told my friend that he thought I was hot, and I mean he is SAWWOOOONNN!!! I haven't talked to him much, but should I even bother? I mean, I doubt we'd go out, too much of an age difference but should I try to get to know him and stuff? HES SOOO HOT!!!
age aint nothin but a number girl.. go for it!!! ;-)
so im going to this party soon..any ideas on how to spice things up with a guy friend of mine without getting turned down? like little hints for him to hook up with me?
start dancing infront of him and just keep looking at him.. let go and relax and flirt with him.. if your feeling real confident go over and give him a lap dance or ask him to dance.. if everything turns out good at the end of the night give him a kiss :-) hope it helps
im nice and a sweet guy and all, but i tend to get real mad about little things. i punch holes in my walls and break all kinds of stuff in my room and i even put my head through a window once over a real dumb reason. so what i wanna kno is if i should look sumthin up to calm my anger or to get anger management? (after all im only 14) i just want to stop myself before i end up doin sumthin crazy
what do you get mad about? you should definately look into anger management.. if your doing this over little things if something big happens you can end up killing yourself.. you have to find other ways to deal with your anger.. just breathe or start boxing.. a friend told me weight lifting gets your anger out good.. hope everything turns out okay
well whenever this kid i like, matt, stands near me or walks by i always feel like i have to be talking to one of my friends. what does this mean?
i do the same thing..you could be nervous and not want to talk to him, so you want to be busy talking to another friend.. or you might want him to see how funny or nice you are when you talk to your friends
okay big health project and the question is what turns a girl on about a guy?
confidence definatlely.. humor.. tall.. and someone you can just be comfortable around
i have an amazing boyfriend and i love him so much, like he is everything i dreamed of.. but the other day like one of my best friends *bob* told me that he has liked me since sixth grade, that i am amazing, and he is so jealous of my boyfriend, and how perfect i am and how much i mean to him.. and the thing is i liked *bob* for like 4 years and then i met my boyfriend. i talked to my mom about it.. and she said i shoudl try hanging out with *bob* to see if i like him or w/e so i went to the movies with him last night.. and had SO much fun.. would this be considered cheating ? am i a terrible person for like questioning my love for my bf ? and what do you think is the best way for me to tell my bf about this... ?
15-f if that makes any difference..
i wouldnt consider it cheating.. and your not a terrible person.. who you love is who you love and you cant help that. Youve loved bob for a long time and he finally likes you so i think you should deifnately go out with him. All you can do is tell your boyfriend the truth.. say im sorry but i was in love with someone for a long time and I dont want to lead you on. hope this helps.. let me know how it turns out :-)
well i love my girlfriend with all my heart, she's the sweetest girl ever i would do anything for her, but lately it seems like shes losing interest in me what should i do.. i dont want to lose her because i would be lost.. i just dont know what to do.
Aw im sorry.. you really need to talk to her. Something might have happened in her life and shes just in a bad mood and wants to be alone. You have to find out whats wrong. Let me know how it ends up.. good luck
my xboyfriends brother just died today, and i i'm not dealing with it very well. i just dont know what to do, it feels like no matter who i talk to i cant lift up my spirits. my boyfriend right now has been doing everything he can to help me, but its not working. even people who arent my friends are helping me, im just not making any progress. what should i do??
Im sorry, that had to be hard.. but only you can help youself. Remember that hes in a better place and hes still with you. Your sadness wont help, be happy that he did live. All you can do is live your life, cuz your life goes on. Remeber that the good die first and everything happens for a reason.
I hae to close friends that are pregnant. Unfortunantly one was raped and the other one was by her boyfriend. They are both considering abortion. Why is it that people think it is all right for my friend who was raped to get an abotion and the other one isn't. Both are still killing and innocent child...Please help me understand the difference!!
ok your friend who was raped should get abortion. It is not her fault there is a baby inside of her and if she cant handle it, she should get an abortion. The friend who just had unprotected sex should not get an abortion because it was her fault, she agreed to having sex and she knew the risks she was taking. She should face the consequences.