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Age: 16
Member Since: July 14, 2004
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Last Update: November 15, 2007
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okay so i was watchin this soccer game and there was this really really really hottie hot hot guy there! and i really wanted to meet him but me..being the stupid shy person i am didn't have the guts to approch him. so will you please give me some tips on how i can break the ice with a guy? please help me asap (link)
well, all i can say is HAVE CONFIDENCE IN YOURSELF!! and just be you, don't worry about what he or anyone else is going to think.. it just kind of happens.. you just need to walk up to him and act like hes one of your friends or best friends. someone your comfortable with.. then just have a convo w/ him! its really not that bad once you just say hey or whatever.. good luck!


ok well i am 5' 5" amd weigh bout 130. i dont think i am fat but i wanna keep in shape for sports ect. itd also be easier to get in shape now then later. i RELE try to work out and eat healthy but i can never stick with sumthin long enough to see results. we have so much tempting food and i never get around to my work outs is there ne tips ppl have to stick with sumthin? thx

**i could also use some good ab work outs too** (link)
well maybe you could go running or go to the gym.. that always helps a lot!! as for your foods, just try to get away from all the junk foods cause thats what kills you.. especially bread and all that junk!!


Ok well latly i have been living with my aunt lissa ( we'll call her that ) but me n' her never get along so i moved in with my aunt barbara.. I love'd living with her because we get along good n' shes really nice n' everything but shes always making me babysitt and i can lyk barely ever go n' do ne thing.. well i get a certain ammount of money a month ( for my aunt to raise me ) and so my aunt lissa gave that money to my aunt barbara to use it on food n' clothing for me for back 2 school- but instead i kno my aunt had to pay her house rent ( she rents a house) and i kno she used that money for it.. and shes in a really bad fincial situations n' problems, and when my aunt lissa found out that shes been " taking advantage of me n' not paying me for babysitting " she wanted me to live back here with her- i guess we get along better but i really liked living with my aunt barbara except the fact that she took the money i get n' took advantage of me babysitting.. And shes mad at me and i dont think she'll talk to me since i did tell her recently lyk a week ago b4 i had to move back to my aunt lissa's that i was happy living there.. i dont want her upset or mad at me and i wanted people's opinion's on if i did the right thing.. PleAse Help i'd appreciate it soo much n' ill rate you!

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awe im sorry.. thats a bad position to be in.. thats wrong of your aunt barbara though and if i were you i wouldn't worry about it! it sounds like your aunt lissa that your living with now is a great person and she really cares about you.. so just have fun and don't worry about your aunt she'll come to her senses soon, if she hasn't already.. in the mean time you should probably get your aunt to help you find her a job so she wont have financial bills much longer!!--hope this helped!


if u ask a guy out nd he says no cuz hes gonna go back out wit his x and then they go back out and break up again and now theyre strictly just frends would it be like completely hopeless for her to say yea if u asked him out again??

*Ker~Bear (link)
no not all the way... but you should probably find out if he likes you first so you don't embarass yourself again lol


i met this guy dan on halloween 2002 .. and i loved him ever since i layed my eyes on him .. we did go out 6 timez but he went out wif my best friend like 20 ! and i reely love him and she even knows that .. im soo confused .. i dont know how to get him bakk .. ;) plzz helpp mee

x0xO MayA x0xx (link)
well.. you should either talk to your best friend about how you feel and if shes a good friend she'll end things with him.. if not then maybe you should just give up on him and find someone else.. guys arent worth any friendships!


I'm a virgin, 15 yrs old & totally in love with my boyfriend. We're both ready to have sex & the only issue I have on it is do you guys like hair 'down there'? I know some guys dont mind or & some guys really do. What do guys my age like? I dont want him to be disgusted when were about to have sex cause of my hair! He's not a virgin. (link)
well... i guess if he cares about u it shouldnt/wont matter...


Im babysitting a 4 yr old boy from 7:30am to 4:30pm and i need some ideas of things to do. I dont have a liscense so i cant drive anywhere and i live in maine. (link)
walk to the pool if its a nice day??.. watch movies.. walk somewhere close.. go play outside wiht him or something lol.. umm.. play board games/video games.. stuff like that


Ok, so heres the deal. I've been bestfriends with this girl since I was 11 now Im 18. At the age of 15 we stopped talking for a year because we went to different highschools. Well now, I can't stand to be around her because she lies a lot. And it will be about stupid things or even serious things that you wouldnt lie to your bestfriend about. For instance being a virgin or not, how many people you have had sex with, how much you drank...etc. to the stupidest stuff like how much you spend on a car, how many hours you work, how much your getting paid, hitting an animal in the road n making a story up about it. I tried to confront her 3-4 times before but she gets mad and makes a big deal about it and claims she will never lie to me and stuff. Now that I've had a boyfriend for about 7 months shes thinking I dont hang out with her anymore because of him when its not that at all. Granted I do hang out with him everyday but we will go to parties, watch movies, stuff like that. With her we would sit around or go for a drive n she would usually end up dropping me off at 11 cuz she didnt feel good, was tired, and stupid things like that. My curfew is 1. Everythign she says now I doubt and I'm starting to believe shes a pathological liar. What should I do because everytime I try to talk to her she just turns it all around on me. And when I dont wanna do something like go away with her because Im not allowed or go to the club she tries to guilt trip me sayin that shes second best to my boyfriend and that I never wanna do anything. I've talked to my other friends and they all agree with em n say that they dont liek her but use her for a ride. My betsfriend doesnt know that. What should I dooooo? Hope thats not too complicated for you to follow i kinda rambled on. Thank youuu (link)
no its not complicated at all.. i'm sorry about your friend.. but i really don't think you should be friends with her! i'm sure you have PLENTY of other friends so just ignore her! if she tries to you, talk to her back, but otherwise i'd ignore her.. orrrr just give her some taste of her own medicine and give her the cold shoulder act like a bitch to her like shes been to you!


well...my friend and i decided that we wanted to go to this really cool camp next summer. we would go away for 3 weeks and do a bunch of cool things there. the only problem is that it costs sooooo much money and im afraid to even ask to go because they might say no. and if i do decide to ask them...how do tell them its a lot of money? L. 14 (link)
hmm.. well, maybe you could just be like i know what your going to say but just hear me out.. i really want to go to this camp with __ (ur friends name)) and i know it costs a lot of money and your not going to want to pay for it.. so like offer to pay for half of it or something and get a job or do things around the house to get money and maybe they'll consider it.. either that or offer to do something you HATE for a period of time.. lol sounds gay but it might work!


Hey, Im looking to start a band on Long Island. I play guitar and I want my band to play things people have never heard before.I listen to bands like coheed and cambria,avenged sevenfold,rise against,taking back sunday,alexisonfire,lawrence arms,afi,and a static lullaby.stuff like that. If you know anyone that plays guitar,bass,or drums please answer this if you live close.

-CoHeEdANDsEvEnFoLd6- (link)
awesome!! that sounds cool!


Hi, my brother is 10 and will be 11 in august. Anyway, my bro is so spoiled that when he doesnt get his way, he starts to get a nasty additude and says he hates my mom and grandma! How bad! My mom tries hard trying to teach him not to be spoiled but it never works. How can we get my bro to be kind and unspoiled? (link)
well you can't really GET him to be unspoiled.. it probably going to take time because if he changes hes going to have to adjust to it you know?.. just like if you walk into a store tell him he can only get 1 thing or something and if he starts crying well tell him its too bad and hes grounded or stuff like that.. ground him for awhile and maybe it will teach him a lesson?? Good luck!


Ok, this sounds kinda gross, n this question might get kicked off but i am serious about this...today my breasts started hurting really bad, it is doing it right now there are like these certain spots where they hurt, so im just wondering why they hurt and shud i call a doctor or something? Thanks! (link)
umm yah go to the doctors i guess!


damnn gurl u fyneee.. holla at me if u wanna chat baybii.. damnn (link)
lol thanks..


My boyfriend and I have been going out for 5 months and are going to celebrate our half year anniversary on August 28. The problem is I have no idea what to get him! I think he's getting me a promise ring, which is sweet beyond believe but I don't have anything to match it! When I bring it up though he just says "the only thing I want is you". Adorable, but not very helpful. I would be greatful for any suggestions, and I don't have a lot of money. Thanks a bunch! Em'lee

btw: he's a big music fan, is learning how to play guitar, and loves wild, death-defying stuff; if that helps any. (link)
maybe you could buy him a new watch or cologne or something.. or you could burn him a cd with his favorite songs or like songs that represent you two or that you both like or something??


me and my bf have been goin out for 4 months and like ive kissed him numerous just on the cheek cuz im afraid if i kiss him on the lips he wont kiss me back and ive talked to him about it and he says he doesnt know why he told me he loves me-and i really think he means it and doesnt kiss me...he just doesnt...and hes kissed all his other gf....and i really REALLY do love him- *I RATE* (link)
hmm.. well maybe you should just go for it!! take a chance.. if he doesn't kiss you back ask him why he didn't if hes kissed all his other girlfriends.. hopefully this helps!


i still like my ex boyfriend..how can i get over him and move on? (link)
well.. its just gunna take time i guess theres not really much you can do about liking anybody.. just give it time.. enjoy being single go out and meet new people like GUYS haha maybe you'll find someone new taht you really like a lot and you'll forget all about your ex!


What does Imao mean? I know what idk means but what does this mean? I try to answer questions but these abrevations get in the way of me understanding sometimes. Could someone tell me? Thanks in advance!
advice~gurl (link)
uhh its lmao babe.. with an L lol!!! and it means laughing my ass off


well my problem is i have this guy friend and i dated him b4 but it didnt work out..well recently i found out from him he still has feelings for me but i dont have feelings like that for him..we're like best friends..well the other day he told me bcuz of his feelings for me we couldnt be friends anymore..but i know if i dated him again id be miserable..plz tell me what to do..i dont want to lose a friend.thankz.
xoxo
in need of advice (link)
ahh what a hard situation to be in!! tell him that you care about him a lot and your making your decision for the both of you and you don't want to lose him but you don't want to hurt him either.. just tell him exactly how you feel but in the nicest way possible haha.. hopefully this helps!!


My boyfriend is a punk and i am like a cheerleader and im like a prep and stuff i dont know if i shold break up with him because later on in life i mean we might not work because he is a punk and he told me to choose him or cheerleading i am half hawaiian so like i have been doing hceerleading since i was 5 and surfing since i was 2


please help (link)
well i think its cool that you went for a totally different guy but if hes making you choose maybe hes not the right one you should be with--maybe its best you do break up with him!


when should i look into a boyfriend? i'm 11 now, and i think i'm way too young. whenever i have sex, it will be when i'm married. i will not ever use a condom, because it's against the catholic religion, which i am. so i'll have two kids at the most (maybe). and i will definately be having one child. when should i have a bf? i don't want to go throuhg a break up...should it be when i am old enough to get married, just in casE? (link)
whenever u think the time is right for u to have a boyfriend!! you shouldn't just go out with anyone though, try to pick a guy that you REALLY like.. as for married.. u have a longggg time haha




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