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Hey. I love giving advice. I enjoying giving advice about the sexual things, I've been thinking about getting a degree to be a sexual education teach or, or a sex therapist. I my second best would be friendship[s] and relationship[s]. I am 21yrs old. I have a pit bull named Zip. I work at a middle school as a nutriton assistant. I have 4 god children, 1 boy, 3 girls.

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I'm babysitting this little boy and he wont listen to me at all. I told him it's time to eat, he wouldnt eat. He also wont go to sleep... I need help before the parents get home because I want to be asked again to babysit for them!

well don't be mean!! just ask nicely and if ya got to call his parents and let them know that his not listening to you...it's not like there going to think your a bad babysitter!! just try to be nice to him tell him youll read him a bed time story or something!!

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f/13 im going out with this guy....lets call him bill. ok well i met bill at a convention thingy away from both of our hometowns. we got each others numbers and talked on the phone after we got back to our houses blah blah blah and now were going out. he lives about 2.5 hours away. now i was talking t this other guy who i recently went out with and ever since we broke up weve been pretty much best friends and talked on the phone all the time. he lives about 5 minutes away but he is moving about 30 minutes away(no biggie) lets call him fred. so im currently going out with bill right...and im was talking to fred on the phone and we still both love eachother more than anyone would believe and we got to talking about our relationship (i was thinking about dumping bill to go out with fred anyways) blah blah blah and i ended up asking fred out. of course he said yes and the problem now is that i have 2 boyfriends and ive never been the person that cheats. so what i want to know is how do i dump bill with out hurting his feelings and still be really good friends with him???? HeLp Me pLeAsE!!! ThAnX!

ok if Bill likes you then theres no easy way to break up w/ him trust me! i wouldn't say tell him the whole truth but tell him some of it! i would say we don't get to see each other much and i don't like the fact that we live 2hrs from each other..but also let him know that your ex wants you back and yall had a good relationship and you still have strong feelings for him!! try something around that line! and don't expect him to automaticly be your friend after this give him some time to get over it...tell him you still wanna be his friend and you'll understand that it will take awhile for him to be your friend!

let me know how it goes hun!

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Okay.. let's see- I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now. We are both around 16. Hes not to desperate to do anymore than we have.. He's went down my pants but thats the furthest we've got. We both talked about doing more, and we both want to. The only thing is i'm kind of nervous. Like everyone says giving handjobs/blowjobs come natural how to do it. but i dont think it's going to for me. or like him eating me out? Won't that just be weird. will i just lay there? I'm really ready to do this, but i just want to make sure i do everything right for him...


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aww this is kind of cute...you really shouldn't be nervous...ok yeah you should...haha yall could talk about it before you do it just to see you know what to like...eating out...yeah you'll be laying there but you'll most likely like it...if his good at it!...i guess hj and bj comes natural...but from my point of veiw...i hate doing it...it makes me feel uncomfortable...but that's just me...but hey yall have been dating for over 1/2 a year and yall are pretty close...so there really shouldn't be nothing to be nervous about cuz yall are so close to each...and yall can talk about this and shouldn't feel uncomfortable about it...i hope i didn't confuse you! haha

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what are love handles?

what everyone else said....and a place for a guy to "hang on" when yall are makeing "love"

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Hi, I'm a 14 year old, girl Freshman. Recently this guy moved to my school. He is a Senior and he rides my bus on the way to school and from school. After a few weeks of being here, he started to talk to me. He got me to write him notes and I only like him as a friend. But quickly after that he began asking personal questions like, "Are you a virgin?", "What have you done with guys?", or "Do you want another guy to do that to you?" He doesn't want me to go out with any other guy. He wants me to go out with him. It is getting really annoying. He is the most perverted guy I have ever met and everytime I wear a skirt he is always peeking up it! I can't stand him! Now he wants me to sit in the back of the bus in the morning so he can do stuff or whatever. I said, "No!" of course and made up an excuse. Then yesterday he told me to skip 3rd and 6th period at school so he can 'do' me ith the bathroom. I am only a virgin and he is 18 I think! I don't know what to do. I tell my guyfriends and they say 'smack him', but I'm not violent.
Please help! This guy is so annoying. I don't like him anyway. He does drugs, smokes, and drinks. He is not my type and he has sex with all these girls! I don't want to have sex until I am WAY older! What should I do? Will this turn into something bad later? Thanks for the help!

well my 1st thing i would say is kick him in the balls when he says that kind of stuff but since your not the viloent type i think you should considered telling your mom and the pirciple this and let them get to the bottom of all this! cuz this is pretty darn serious! ((sorry if i spelt some words wrong but i think i did)) ne'ways! tell someone!!

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For my health class we are suppossed to find out if guys mostly prefer virgins or sluts, what do you think?

some of my guy friends don't like virgins that much...bC they don't want the girl to get so attached...and some guys don't like sluts bC some of them like the challeng(SP?)

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I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time.. it was fun and all.. but now im walkin weird.... my butt hurts.. and im shakin all over.. i know my butts supposed to hurt.. and walkin funny is normal.. but should i be shakin like this..?

sucks for you....o yeah i wouldn't do it alot...bC that's a muscal and when it gets losen up...then your not going to be able to "hold it" and it'll just start coming out when it wants!! and it will hert when you have to go...alot of friends do that stuff and they still have probably's taken a crap...so FYI that's and exit hole not and enter hole!

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Umm, I saw a question about teeth clenching, and some people answered saying something about TMJ, well what is that? I feel dumb, but I've never heard of it.

is a dislocation n the jaw...i have it...n i got it from talking and chewing gum to much...n now it herts everytime i eat something...itll pop outta place sometimes too

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I`m a senior in high school. I`m turning 18 soon but my boyfriend will still be 17. If we have sex after my birthday, will that be illegal?

well one depends on where you live two his 17...most places u can start having sex when your 16 n also his not 3yrs younger then you..so i would say it's all good...plus u shouldn't wrry bout that stuff...cuz it's really not that big of a deal...unless your scard that your going to get caough...which i don't think so!

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where can i find MIDI music to put on my picturetrail???

...u can go and get music any where n put it on there...but when you go to the site right click on the song u want copy the properties...n cope the Adress (URL)and instead of using an MIDI click one Use a sound file from another site n past the URL adress that you copyed!!!...that's wat i did for my picture trail!!

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i just started taking the pill about a week ago and i was wondering how long you have to wait until u can have sex without a condom. like how long you have to wait for the pill to kick in. the pill i'm taking is called estrostep. if u can help me out please let me know.. thanks

hmm intursting(SP?) lol shoud tell ya...not trying to sound mean or anything...but u should atlest consider using a condom...unless your haveing sex w/ a person you have known for a really long time...

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i feel like none of my friends like me b/c no1 ever wants to hang out with me and im gettin rlly upset about it

this is kind of hard to answer cuz...i don't know how you are n how ur friends are...but i do know how ya feel cuz i feel like i have no one to hang w/ n i feel like i only have two friends...but jst make the most of it...n u shouldn't put ur self down like that or think that way...cuz i'm not saying you are/do...but ur friends not wanting to hang out w/ you also has alot of the way ur attitude is...like if your a depressing person they don't wanna be like that cuz it would get on there nervs n if ur a bitchy person they wouldn't want to be around bC well u know wat i mean

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if u make a guy laugh and u talk 2 him a lot and he talks 2 u does it mean he likes u??

not really...cuz i talk to this guy all the time n we have so much fun...but we don't like each other like that...he looks at my like his best friend...n i have anther guy friend n we are like that too n he looks at me like i'm his lil sister...

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should i change my look from preppy 2 punk 4 a guy?

don't change for a guy...if he wants to be w/ you then he'll be w/ you for who you are not bC of the way you dress...

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i really need help.. so please read this =(
- my boyfriend dumped me in PUBLIC at a football game! but it was ON OUR 2 YEAR ANIVERSARY!!! =( i was so heart broken and i couldnt believe what happen.. and he was tellin me stuff like he will always love me and shit but i was like "how will that help me, know you will always love me but you are with another girl?" it was awful!! so now he is like i hate being single it isnt what i thought blah blah and i still REALLY like him a lot and he likes me but im not so sure we should go out because that was the second time he broke up with me then came crawling back.. what should i do?

ok well i'm a BIG bitch....but wat i think u should do is let him come back n all this stuff...mess w/ his mind...n stuff like that...n when he goes will u go back out w/ me be like no u effed me over twice y should i give you a third chance...n turn around n walk away...haha..taht would be so funny...well i hope i helped!!

~b

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ok i have an appointment to get my license in december. for the test, is it a written test and a drving test or just driving and if there is a written test do i just study the same DMV booklet that i studied before i got my permit. Thanks!
BTW i live in georgia if that info is needed...

ok ops i didn't read the ? all that great...i'm thinking that it's only driving cuz it really depends on what part of GA ur from i'm from GA n i'm tlaking mine in Dec n i think it's only driving put if there is a writen part it would be on the computer answering ? like the permit test...but i'm saying i don't think u have to do a wirten part...but if your getting ur takeing the test in thomson be careful cuz i herd they grade hard...jst letting ya know
*hope i helped*

~b

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i like this guy and i told him this and he told me that hes known this and he asked me "y r u so cute" but im not sure if he likes me cuz im startin to realli like him and the onli time i get to realli talk to him is online and i wanna say sumthin realli sweet and hints to him how much i do like him and how much i wanna date him wha r sum things i could say

hmmm i'ma tell ya now this is a hard one...cuz i'm n like the same situation...but jst joke around...n call him retarded names...like sweetcakes or something...n send him some cute lil jurnal icons that have something to do w/ you likeing him (if u need any jst iM me n ill send you some cuz i got a bunch)...jst joke around i guess that's wat i do!
*i hope i helped

~b

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ok lets see if i can get this right lol...

-does he like me or does he like herr???
---is it me or is it her...or am i really her?
(sry i know this is long)


ok ..im 14/f and one of my best friends is 14/m..he doesnt go to my school...although lives in the district and i seem him here and there...hes been askin me how to ask a girl out..and i kept telling him to be himself..he just wont listen to me on that part advice...

he kepts telling me to put myself in that position..
- i said "no"
- he said "well its not hard 4 u ur a girl"
- i said "its hard 4 us as well..bc we have to turn down guys we dont like"..

i dk how to tell just to be himself..bc he doesnt want to listen to listen when he knows its true...

and he a few days ago he asked me "how do i ask a girl out and not get turned down??"..and im like idk its not something predictable...

-he goes to a private school..and i go to public school..so i have no clue who this girl is..if i did ..i would have asked her if she liked him..but i dk ....so im pointless at this point...-thx

P.S. i asked him way be4 that.."what would you say if i said i liked you" and he said "i dunno" and said well what would your 1st response be if i said i did and he said "u do?" and i said oooo..then he said something or w/e and i said you scare me sometimes and he didnt say anything for 2 mins and i said..."do you care that you do sometimes" and he said "yea"..and i said "how much?" and he said "______________________________________________________________________________"
and i said "ooohh"..then later on the other night on-line what this girls name is and
he said "marissa"

--- when we got into an little argument over what is harder being a girl or being a guy...and he said we have it easier..and when i said "no we dont bc we have to turn down guys who ask us out, i had to do it 5 times" and he said "w/ whoooo?"..like if he was affaird i was taken or something..ahh it drives me insane..-thx again

- i think i already hinted that i liked him...im just not suree if he is affaird to ask me out bc i said i rejected 5 guys-

ok WOW! i so did not understand that...i would really like to help u..but try to say it n a lil more detal! it star8 up say wat you want...ok then ill help you for sure!!

thanks

~b

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im startin to realli like this guy and im realli not sure how he feels bout me bur we flirt and stuff but i need a majo flirtin move or sumthin like that lol but i wanna let this guy kno i like him alot but reguar flirtin doesnt seem to b workina dn im 2 scared to jus straight out tell him...can u give me sum details as to wha to do

hmmm lets see! well since yall are always flirting then i mean it jst str8 says hey i like you! but have to look at it this way...it's better to jst str8 out say hey i like you then not cuz then he could be like i like her but i don't know if she likes me...cuz yall both might be shy...n yall want know yall like each other (srry if this isn't makeing since) but like if you don't str8 up tell them then how is he going to know u like him...think of it like that...but if you don't want to str8 up tell him then jst flirt twice as much...don't be clingy though cuz there are some guys that don't like clingy girls! jst do some mager flirting!!

i so0o0o hope i helped!!!

~b

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ive been with my boyfriend for just a week or so and he wants to have sex, and i want to too...and he told me he loved me but i dunno to belive him or not, what do i do?

well hmm u want to have sex w/ him n yall only been together for a week n his already saying he loves you...i find that kind of odd! but u know ppls feelings are all different!

~b

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