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2 guys......????
f/13 im going out with this guy....lets call him bill. ok well i met bill at a convention thingy away from both of our hometowns. we got each others numbers and talked on the phone after we got back to our houses blah blah blah and now were going out. he lives about 2.5 hours away. now i was talking t this other guy who i recently went out with and ever since we broke up weve been pretty much best friends and talked on the phone all the time. he lives about 5 minutes away but he is moving about 30 minutes away(no biggie) lets call him fred. so im currently going out with bill right...and im was talking to fred on the phone and we still both love eachother more than anyone would believe and we got to talking about our relationship (i was thinking about dumping bill to go out with fred anyways) blah blah blah and i ended up asking fred out. of course he said yes and the problem now is that i have 2 boyfriends and ive never been the person that cheats. so what i want to know is how do i dump bill with out hurting his feelings and still be really good friends with him???? HeLp Me pLeAsE!!! ThAnX!
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Just be like Bil? Can we just be friends? Your more like a girlfriend to me!
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Just be like, "I still love 'Fred' and he wants me back and I'm sorry but I think it's best that I take time and stop talking to both of you so I can figure out whose better for me."(You'll still be going out with 'Fred', but 'Bill' doesn't have to know that. I hope this helps you...I'm going to take my own advice and lie about loving someone else so I can brake up with the boyfriend I have now. LOL
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Technically you aren't "dating" bill. Dating is having a boy pick you up at home and take you on a date, like the movies or whatever.You talk to Bill on the phone,but you aren't dating.So really you aren't cheating.
You can date both.You don't have to be exclusive with either of them if you don't want to.
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Ok..Say to Bill.."Hey i really like u and all but i was thinking sence we live so far apart that maybe we should just be friends"..."I hate that we never get to see eachother"...Ok well i hope this helps...
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Hey. Are you sure you love these guys?Your 13, my opinion is that you dont find true love till you get a little bit older then 13. Its deffinitly not right to be giong out with two guys at the same time. Maybe bill will understand. You wouldnt really hurt his feelings, he would probably just be upset. Tell him you rather be friends. But dont tell him about fred cuz then he wont want to be your friend. Good Luck.
~Brina~
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hey well i think that it is bad to lie but in this case you should just say "i know we have been going out for a while but you have changed i liked it when we were friends " i did it when i broke up with one of my x's and we are best buds and he sooo understands we should be friends
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Heyy i hope this helps
i think you should IMMEDIATLY break up with "bill" before things get too out of hand. Since your already cheating on him you shouldnt lead him on. Maybe you should do it by saying listen my x, that i loved with all my heart,and i started talking the thing is we still love eachother i know this is hard to hear but i cant lead you on like this and hurt you even more i hope we can still be friends
maybe something like that i hope it helps feedback please
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Ok someone will get hurt i dont no if it will be so called bill or u just dump him in a nice way and ask to be friends maybe go see a movie with him but dont make it a day laugh together and maybe have fun and ask to be good friends with him...
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Love, BrettlOver
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There's no easy way. Someone's going to get hurt already as it is. There's something in the bible about if someone serves two asters eventually they will turn on one. Or something like that. Let him down easy though. probably best if you don't tell him because it's of another guy because that'll just make it harder for him. Tell him that long distance relationships are just to hard for you, which they can be for some people.
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Just talk to Bill and say you feel that your relationship wont work because of the distance and you feel lonely. Say that there is someone else you want to be with, and tell him that even though the relationship is over, you should still be friends. If he cares about you, he'll want to still be friends. good luck. update me if you can.
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ok if Bill likes you then theres no easy way to break up w/ him trust me! i wouldn't say tell him the whole truth but tell him some of it! i would say we don't get to see each other much and i don't like the fact that we live 2hrs from each other..but also let him know that your ex wants you back and yall had a good relationship and you still have strong feelings for him!! try something around that line! and don't expect him to automaticly be your friend after this give him some time to get over it...tell him you still wanna be his friend and you'll understand that it will take awhile for him to be your friend!
let me know how it goes hun!
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