I just had anal sex with my boyfriend for the first time.. it was fun and all.. but now im walkin weird.... my butt hurts.. and im shakin all over.. i know my butts supposed to hurt.. and walkin funny is normal.. but should i be shakin like this..?
thisorthat answered Thursday January 20 2005, 7:11 pm: The membrane that leads back to the anus called the perennial membrane is very sensitive. The inside linings of the anus are also very sensitive and thin. If you have anal sex esepecially for the first time, odds are you damaged and ruptured those thin linings. I know it sounds bad the way I describe it but it's really not. It's kind of like on a cold dry day some people blow their nose and get a nose bleed. The same thing can happen with any membrane. That's where the pain comes from and that's why you're walking funny, cause everytime you move your rubbing that sensitive area that's already had a lot of trauma to it. If you do it more often the muscles will loosen slightly and the membrane will get stronger so it won't be as bad, not that I am reccomending it I am simply stating a fact. In addition using lots of lubrication will also help. I just hope you are aware that venerial diseases spread easily through anal sex especially aids so make sure whoever your partner is clean and you use a condom. As far as the shakes go, how long ago did you do this? If it was last night than your system could be in shock to the trauma you did down their and will be okay in a day or two. If the shakes continue I'd go see a doctor. As far as people posting you have a disease or hemmoroids, the odds are very unlikely and shouldn't be a concern. Very few venerial diseases or other things pop up so quickly. Usually it is just an internal thing in your body. And those things clear up easily and quickly most of the time. I'd wait a couple days and then go see a doctor if they don't go away. Most importantly don't drive yourself crazy over it, relax and if it doesn't get better you'll take the next appropriate step, be positive. That's my advice.
JanelleYolanda answered Thursday January 20 2005, 6:54 pm: your butt hole is not for inserting objects. thats nasty. your probally have a butt infection or a disease now... maybe you should try some preperation H (( you might have some hemroids girl))) ?????????? [ JanelleYolanda's advice column | Ask JanelleYolanda A Question ]
mxpimpette26 answered Thursday January 20 2005, 6:32 pm: sucks for you....o yeah i wouldn't do it alot...bC that's a muscal and when it gets losen up...then your not going to be able to "hold it" and it'll just start coming out when it wants!! and it will hert when you have to go...alot of friends do that stuff and they still have probably's taken a crap...so FYI that's and exit hole not and enter hole! [ mxpimpette26's advice column | Ask mxpimpette26 A Question ]
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