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Ive known one of my best friends for 3 years and i have really strong feelings towards her but i have a girlfriend. latley me and my girlfriend have been drifting apart. weve been together for over a year but we did break up once cuz she wanted to date guys while she was with me(its a long story). so i think its time for us to break up. anyways i told my friend that i like her but she said she doesnt feel the same way and that she couldnt hurt my girlfriend like that. would she say tht she likes me if i broke up with her? does she not want to feel guilty cuz she thinks she "stole" me from my girlfriend? i dont know what to do i like her alot and really want to be with her
If your current relationship isn't going well and your feelings have drifted away, it's time to end things with her. It's not fair to the current girl to string her along when you know you don't really want to be with her. After the break up, I would wait a little bit before trying to jump into a new relationship. If you want to go out on a few friend dates with the new crush, you can spend some time talking about how you feel and what went wrong with your past relationship. Even if you don't end up with the new girl, you'll be happier ending the current relationship and you will find someone you can be happy with. I hope this helps and good luck.
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did i mention that he is 19 years old and im 16.... :(
I'm sorry sweetie but you're going to have to send me another question. I answer a lot of questions and I'm not sure which one is yours. Thanks, Julie
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you know how there are places where guys pay to let girls torture them sexually?
is there a place where its the opposite? like a place where girls pay to get slapped and smacked by guys? im writing a grotesque essay for my creative writing class, and plus i wanna know out of curiosity.
Practically every large city has clubs that specialize in BDSM and they don't have to pay for those services. The services you're speaking of don't involve sex. That's how they can legally perform them in most states without risk of prosecution. A dominatrix won't turn anyone down, man or woman, as long as they pay them. There's a good website you can check out to contact some fellow enthusiasts and ask them some further questions. www.collarme.com If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask me. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Heeeey,
i am 13 years old and i am quite small and 'petite'.
i really want to start my first period as all my friends have. i have had all the signs but it just doesnt seem to be coming. does anyone know anyways to make it come faster. now, i dont want any crap like 'it'll come when its ready' or 'your mad! why would you want it? its horrible!!' because i know i will probs regret it when it comes but i just want it now!!
please heeellppp meee...
thank you =)
Doctors have discovered that girls typically start their period when they reach a certain weight and not by age. That's why the age range varies from 11 till 16 or so. Other than waiting, you can go to the doctor and talk to her about your concerns. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I went on a date with my boyfriend. We got into the back of his car and started making out. He wanted to finger me but i was on my period... I didnt tell him that but i just told him we had to stop. He seemed disappointed and sad but i coulldnt really do anything for him... How can me and my boyfriend still do stuff with me on my period?
That all depends on how far you've gone before. Any guy would love to have a blow job or hand job, even if you're not on your period. If you haven't gone that far, just enjoy making out and let him play with your breasts. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I'm talking to a guy who is a little bit older than me, and I am astonished. He and I live in totally different states, but I feel like we have a good connection. He's really playful and goofy and immature, just like me, and he always makes me laugh and has such a sweet, romantic side. I really think I'm beginning to like him a lot. He has told me he likes me a lot and whenever I get scared or insecure of screwing up he assures me to relax.
I just recently got my phone service cut off and a few days ago it got turned back on. We didn't talk for a couple days, and he has said he's been busy, but still texts me back. I took that as a sign to text him. But today he told me I don't understand how busy he is and I got pissy and he told me he doesn't appreciate my passive aggressiveness and if I can't handle him being busy, then he doesn't know what to say. I realize what I did wrong. I got upset for all the wrong reasons because he has a less laidback life than I do and I can't accept that he has other things besides me. I apologized but he never answered. I really feel like I screwed us up. I feel like I made him mad and he'll remember it and not want to talk. I just like him so much I don't know what to do with myself! He's a really amazing guy and it overwhelms me that I could get such a sweet sexy guy. I plan on sending him an apology later on before I go to bed, but now I just feel so upset because this all my fault. Any advice?
I hope that this guy is being totally honest with you. There's a chance that he's a lot older than you and using a false profile to pray on young girls. Another possibility is that he has a steady girlfriend and that's why he can't always respond. I'm not telling you not to trust this guy but to very cautious with anything you do with him. You don't need to apologize for having feelings and emotions....everyone has them. I hope this elps and good luck.
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can a brother make sex with his sister
If you're both over the age of 18, you can do whatever you want. Make sure she uses birth control and he uses a condom because a child born from this could have multiple health problems. I wouldn't recommend telling anyone about it either. I hope this helps and good luck.
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what does an orgasm look like
An orgasm isn't a look but more of a feeling. Everyone has a different facial expression when they orgasm, if that's what you're referring to. I hope this helps and good luck.
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what are the disadvantages of masterbration ?
The only disadvantage would be if it consumes your life. If you can't hold a job down, concentrate on school, ignore your family or do anything else outside of the house, except masturbate, then it becomes a problem. If you can live your life normally, then masturbate away. I hope this helps and good luck.
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My boyfriend and I have great sex. The issue is, he has trouble making me come quickly. While I myself can take care of it in 10 minutes, it takes him anywhere from 15 minutes to 30, or 40. Not an issue for me. But he has ADHD and gets bored, and feels like he dosent have the energy. But he dosent want to never get me off and just think of himself, so sometimes, hard on or no, he will avoid sex entirely due to the fact that he dosent have the energy to try to get me off. This really hurts my feelings and I have no idea what I'm supposed to do about it. I told him that fine, I will just take care of me, just lets have sex, and I'll take care of me afterwards. Advice? Comments?
Don't have him spend so much time on straight sex. Have more make out time...let him roam his hands over your body...don't be afraid to ask him to go down on you before he gets started. Guide his hands to your clit and let him know what feels good. You can always rub yourself while he's inside of you. Try climbing on top, so he doesn't have to work as hard. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Will i cu nyself while shaving my vagina?
Use a seperate razor than you use on the rest of your body. I like to shave in the shower, it helps soften the hair. Use some soap there first and then apply some shaving cream. Put one leg on the side of the tub and shave, then repeat for the other side. I hope this helps and good luck.
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where can the line be drawn for cheating as in sexual contact or just a simple hug or something else post your options
Every relationship has different boundaries. My husband will let me sleep with another woman but doesn't consider it cheating. My husband has a lot of female friends and when we run into them, he hugs and gives them a little kiss. If he was to get emotionally attached to a woman, I would probably get a little jealous but I know that he flirts a little but his heart belongs to me. I think if you feel guilty about something you've done, then it's probably cheating. I hope this helps and good luck.
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I've realized that I sometimes am attracted to females. Like, I watch lesbian porn sometimes and I have a lot of gay friends. I know neither of those things "make you gay", but lately I've started having feelings for a friend of mine who is female. I'm not quite sure if I just want to hook up with her or if I truly have emotional feelings. What do I do? Is there even anything I should do? (Oh by the way, this friend is a pansexual.)
Go on a few friend dates with her. Go to lunch or coffee or hang out at the mall for a while. Then see how she reacts to your actions or when you talk to her. I was a little bolder when I wanted to experiment with my friend. I invited her to spend the night and we played a little truth and dare. I figured if she would turn a dare down, she wasn't into me but if she accepted, I was good. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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The title says it all i guess, it's a little embarrassing but i want to know, i've heard it's normal though. I'm 100% NOT addicted to it or anything and i hardly ever watch it but i like to masterbate to it, is that bad? thank you for the answers
If I had access to the internet when I was a teenager, I would've watched porn to masturbate to but all I had was sneaking peaks at my father's playboys. There is nothing to be embarrassed about and I bet if you talked to any of your girlfriends, they probably all do it too. If you have any other questions, please feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Me and my boyfriend have been going out for almost four years, I am 18 and he is 22. We were each others first, and we started having sex around 6 months, we did it at the park, in this secret hidden area since we couldn't do it at each others home's or anything well anyway I think a girl going down on him was always his fantasy so the second day we tried sex he made me go down on him and I gagged a lot but he loved it and then I tried him going down on me but he would go down and then up and stare at it and he had this face of like confusion and kind of disgust I'm clean shaven and I have good hygiene and since then I never brought it up since I thought he was disgusted by it but recently this year I started feeling it was so selfish because I go down on him at least two times a day I just feel like its so selfish because he gets the pleasure out of it and I get nothing, that's his favorite thing to do always he doesn't go a day without it and its been four years and I started bringing it up this year and he's like "oh I will" and "okay babe I will" and one day he tried it and he stopped like after three seconds and I was asking him if I was nasty or what? and he said he didn't know what to do and felt like he didn't know what he was doing.and I dk what to tell him to do because I've never had that done to me. I don't understand how HE can't know because he watches p*rn a lot and I know in the p*rn videos the guys who down and them zoom in and crap :( (porn is disgusting to me I gag when watching it so I don't know wanna watch it) and I really want him to do that because the face he makes and the pleasure he gets when I do it to him I want to feel that too and my friends say its the most pleasurable thing ever and I can only imagine cause once he kisses me in that area even on my legs I feel so amazing and I just wish he would go down on me, its my fantasy too:( what can I do? or how can I persuade him or do I have no hope?
Yeah I would say he's a selfish pig. He's getting all the fun without putting any effort into pleasing you. There is no reason why he can't practice on you twice a day. Tell him he can practice on you for 5 minutes before he gets serviced. Let him start off slow and tell him to finger you while he's licking on you. I don't have much time right now, but please feel free to ask me anything. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Okay,
I thought I texted my mum today to tell her i was walking home from a late class at school. When I looked-i found i had sent the message to my ex boyfriend :O So anyway i just sent one back to him saying 'Sorry tht was for some1 else.' Bearing in mind he broke up with me five months ago now and he's started three text conversations with me in the last month, what does anyone think he's thinking? Any comments would be great thankyou :)
If it's been 5 months and you haven't deleted his number from your phone, I'd say you still have feelings for this guy. Maybe you accidentally texted him or possibly your subconscious wanted you to text him. If you really want to start things back up with him, you should have a good conversation about your past relationship and what you want from him. If you really only want to be friends, you should be honest with him about that too. I hope this helps and good luck.
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Why does it seem like guys are not as insecure of their bodies as girls are? It seems like guys will just get naked right in front of people like nothing, when I don't feel like girls would do that (I know I wouldn't and I am a skinny girl)
Girls typically have more feelings and care about what people think about them. It also has a little to do with the way you're raised. I was raised in an open, caring family and made to feel nudity wasn't anything to be ashamed of. My sister and I would walk around naked in our rooms in front of each other all the time and our mom would be naked in her room with the door open all the time. I wouldn't worry about how you feel about being naked and don't let any guy talk you into doing something you're not comfortable with. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im 18 female and i cant seem to find any way to pleasure myself. Ive tried fingering myself and touching myself but its not pleasant to me at all :( the only thing that seems to give me any sort of pleasure is 'pillow sex' where you basically rub yourself against or ride a pillow. Even then i cum but i can never have an orgasm. Im worried that (being a virgin) that the first time i have sex or let a guy finger or go down on me that i will be left with a very embarrassing situation, and that i wont be able to orgasm in any form of sexual activity. I do however know that a large percentage of women arent able to have orgasm through penetration, and that it usually involves foreplay to make a them orgasm. But i dont know if even that will work on me! Im also worried when the time comes that the guy im with will ask me how i can get him to pleasure me, and i wont know!
help :(
I think you're mind isn't letting your body have fun. You're way to worried about having the orgasm before you even get started. You can try watching a little porn on redtube.com or xhamster.com and discover what things turn you on. Another thing to try, is take a nice hot relaxing shower or bath. Let your hands caress your body and try to think relaxing thoughts. After you're dry, lay on the bed and lightly touch your whole body but don't go directly for the clit. Squeeze your breast and tease the nipple. You can work your way down and touch your clit but don't start rubbing hard yet. You may want to find something to use as a dildo, like a candle or anything else that resembles a fake penis. If you can't find one, use one or two fingers as a substitute. Finger yourself and rub your clit slowly. Your body should know when to start rubbing faster and hopefully you'll be able to orgasm. If you have any other questions, feel free to ask. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im a girl, bi, sophmore
so i met this girl freshmen year we became really close and we ended up together (gf&gf). she then broke up with me during the summer. i loved this girl to death! everything i do and everything i think about is her!
there is not one day i go without thinking about her.she ignores me alot now and it hurts me alot. everytime she does something like that to me i end up crying most of the night cause of her. i would do anything to get her back. what should i do??
Something that you need to do, that I know you won't want to do, is to break contact with her for a while. Don't try to text, call, e-mail or facebook for about a month. If she felt closed in or trapped, it may have pushed her away. Give her that space and hopefully she'll have time to think about how she really feels about you. When you've given her that month, go back to her and let her know that you'd really like to be her friend again and maybe hang out once in a while. I know the first week or two will be hard to get through but try spending time with your family or other friends, or do a little reading to get your mind off of her. I hope this helps and good luck.
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im 16 years old girl. me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 2 months. we used to be the best boyfriend ever! but here lately, it feels like things are changing. hes just been so rude to me. when he asks were i am, hes like were the fu*k are you and stuff. i love him so much and dont want to end it. i just dont know if being with him is worth it anymore. i dont know what to do if i should just end it or not
He sounds like he has issues at home or at school that he needs to deal with. Unfortunately, he's taking his frustrations out on you because you're close to him and an easy target. If he doesn't want to talk to you about his problems, he should find some professional advice to get things worked out. If he's not willing to get help, it may be time for you to break things off, because no one deserves to be treated badly. I hope this helps and good luck.
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