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I texted my ex boyfriend by mistake
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I thought I texted my mum today to tell her i was walking home from a late class at school. When I looked-i found i had sent the message to my ex boyfriend :O So anyway i just sent one back to him saying 'Sorry tht was for some1 else.' Bearing in mind he broke up with me five months ago now and he's started three text conversations with me in the last month, what does anyone think he's thinking? Any comments would be great thankyou :)
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If it's been 5 months and you haven't deleted his number from your phone, I'd say you still have feelings for this guy. Maybe you accidentally texted him or possibly your subconscious wanted you to text him. If you really want to start things back up with him, you should have a good conversation about your past relationship and what you want from him. If you really only want to be friends, you should be honest with him about that too. I hope this helps and good luck.
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he might be thinking that you texted him that as an excuse to start talking to him again, but thats just a thought
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I'd need a little more information to go on to give you a really detailed response on what he may or may not be thinking.
What was his reason for breaking up with you? How long had you been going out for? And more importantly, whats your interest in the situation, are you hoping to get him back?
People all react differently after a breakup. Sometimes both men and women like to end a relationship, but keep the door partially open, or even just retain the person in their life to some extent as a friend, or a "if everything else fails, theres always _" person.
Others are unsure if they actually wanted to end the relationship permanently, and will therefore keep some form of line of communication open.
And then theres dumpers remorse.
But my feeling would be, if he broke up with you 5 months ago and has shown no effort or indication of wanting you back or forming a real friendship, perhaps its time to take him off your phone so that accidental texts can't even happen. He rejected everything that you had to offer, just because he will occasionally text you doesn't mean you should waste any time or energy thinking about him.
Delete his number, replace it with someone else's ;) If he wants to reach you he can still text you.
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