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my boyfriend wants to go further


Question Posted Sunday May 15 2011, 5:23 pm

I went on a date with my boyfriend. We got into the back of his car and started making out. He wanted to finger me but i was on my period... I didnt tell him that but i just told him we had to stop. He seemed disappointed and sad but i coulldnt really do anything for him... How can me and my boyfriend still do stuff with me on my period?

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VoiceofReason answered Sunday May 15 2011, 11:17 pm:
First, remember that your life is your own and don't let others control it for you. At your age, the relationship is likely not to result in anything permanent. So do only that which makes you comfortable. Guys aren't some privileged class who you have to do everything for.

You can tell him you're on your period. There is nothing embarrassing about that. He isn't going to think ill of you for it.

If you want him to suck your nipples because that feels good to you then go for it. You can, as another commenter said, give him a handjob or bj too. Keep in mind that anything sexual you do that involves his penis is going to end up being broadcast to his friends because guys are really insecure at that age and are obsessed with getting "points on the board" as it were. You're not a bad girl if you blow or stroke him, let him feel you up or eat you or lick your nipples, but the matter could come up later due to America's really screwed up sexual attitudes. So be aware of what you're dealing with. Everything has consequences.

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julie75 answered Sunday May 15 2011, 8:25 pm:
That all depends on how far you've gone before. Any guy would love to have a blow job or hand job, even if you're not on your period. If you haven't gone that far, just enjoy making out and let him play with your breasts. I hope this helps and good luck.

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