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Its the holidays and ive been getting a bit bored, whenever i get bored i go on the computer. Its just, i dont want to have spent the whole holiday on the cumputer. Does anyone know any other good boredom busters?
Go somewhere or meet up with friends!
♥ lena
i'm looking for a bathing suit..but i want one that is cute but not sluty..but sexy still...
please help...
You can get cute bathing suits at WetSeal, Forever21, American Eagle, Loehmans, and even Target! Have fun in the sun!
♥ lena
I hear all these stories on how people make themselves pass out. Just out of innocent curiousity, how do you do that? Someone told me that you press a part of your body or something?
This is a very dangerous and can potentially lead to death, therefore as an Advicenator, I am not allowed to tell you how you can make yourself pass out and accidentally kill yourself.
♥ lena
I haven't gotten my period and I'm flatchested even though I'm almost 14. But I wear a push up bra so people think I got my period and when my friends start talking about cramps or whatever I don't know what to say. Should I just act like I got it or lie or what?
You should tell the truth to your friends and confide in them that you have not yet gotten your period. If they're your real friends then they won't tell other people or make fun of you. Everybody develops at a different rate, and I know many people who are flat without their period even when they are 16. It's nothing it worry about. You will develop at your own pace and everything will be just fine :]
♥ lena
ok well basically theres this guy im totalli into and he liked me to but he never told me so i got w/his bestfriend but me n his bestfriend never dated but we were tlaking and then we stoped and one night we went to this cabin and we told eachother we like eachother and we kissed and he kept saying (his bestfriend) can never find out and blah then the next week until tuesday he ignored me.. then tuesday came and there was no school wednesday and it was my frinds bday party and we kissed again and now hes ignoring me again but i rele like him and people think its because hes afraid of his bestfriend finding out and i know he is.. but he totally ignores me but he tells me he likes me and blah and he tells his friend who he talks to abt it that he likes me but he shows no emotion .. but i realli like him and i dont know wut 2 do.. do you think he rele likes me and is jus scared of his bestfriend finding out or do you think hes using me'? HELP
I'm sorry hun but I think he is using you since he doesn't show his love. He's a jerk and all talk. Forget him and find someone who is totally honest with you and won't leave you out in the cold.
♥ lena
well in the last question i posted it said that alex probably was touching my legs trying to wipe soda off and people said he was horny well what exactly does that mean and what if a guy popped a boner when i was around does that mean it is because a girl is around or is it because I specificly me am around because he likes me help soon!!!
thanks
i rate 5s for good advice
j
Yes, he probably likes the girl.
♥ lena
My art teacher is so incredibly hot
You should try your hardest to consider him as a friend, not a playmate. Tone down the flirting, because he is allowed to tell the principal which could lead to consequences. As much as you love him and want him, you definitely should think about your boyfriend before your teacher. I mean after all, he IS your boyfriend.
♥ lena
Hello my name is Rachel. I am 13. I met this guy named Bret recently. Hes amazing and exstremly hott. We've been talking and he told me he likes me. But theres a three years age diffrence you see hes 16. So I dont know if were gonna date. Hes past girlfriends have been models and exstremly pretty..Its not that i'm ugly but I cant compaire to them. He tells this girl Mellisa that he loves her so much they talk all the time but they are just friends. I guess maybe i'm getting jealous easy. But I dont know what to do cause I really like him but i'm not sure if i have a chance or anything. Help Please?
Age doesnt matter. My grandparents are seven years apart and my parents are 3 years apart, and they've been together for a long time, no problems between the ages. If you really like him and he seems into you, then call him and go to the movies with him. Or go to eachothers houses! If you set your heart to it, anything can happen, especially if you believe in yourself. So go for it and everything will be perfect =]
♥ lena
ok so i have real bad problems with my weight..im 14 and i wiegh 111 pounds. is that fat? i have depression about my wieght all the time. If someone calls me fat ( even if they are joking ) i dont eat for like a week. My friends always yell at me when i tell them i'm fat or look fat in something...but i really think i am.
can u tell me if thats fat? and if not any ideas on how i can except that im not. ill rate all 5's for people who arent idiots about it.
thanks!
You are just fine! You are not overweight at all! If you wanted to calculate your BMI just like the first person said to, heres another website to do this at - http://www.seventeen.com/health/bmi/spc/0,,665141_665142,00.html
Just smile and remember: every girl is a princess :]
♥ lena
What does spick, or spick stick mean?
It is an offensive slang term for a hispanic/mexican person.
But sometimes people say "spick and span" which means very clean or spotless.
♥ lena
Hi I just turned 12 yesterday and i really want to wear A thong but im nscared to ask my kmom so i have been thinking of a different wasy to get a thong do you have any advice/
Well there really isnt anything to be afraid of just tell her you want to go to victorias secret or a store that sells thongs and while you are there just slip it in the pile of stuff that you are buying. Then if she questions you just tell her that you really want it and you think that you're ready for it. If that doesnt work, then perhaps go shopping with a friend. It honestly isnt anything so bad.
♥ lena
Do you use pads or tampons?
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where can you get those cute sweatpants that say "pink" on the butt? like i heard you can get them at victorias secret but idk. thanks and i rate!
The only place to get them is at Victoria's Secret. If you buy them anywhere else, they're just posers.
♥ lena
Hey, Im 13 and a female. I would like to start tanning because I am very white/pale. She says that 13 is too young to start tanning and that I should wait until I am 16. I really dont think that I would be willing to wait until I am 16. I mean come on that is 3 years! Is there anything that I can say or do to make her agree. Please dont say you should wait till your 16. Ill rate high. Molly ♥
Considering tanning is not the safest thing for your skin, I suggest creams or lotions with bronzer in them, sold at any drugstore. These creams tan your skin gradually. By 2 days you will start to see a difference, and you just keep building it up. They make it for fair skin tones and medium and dark, so whatever your tone is, there is one right for you.
♥ lena
well i was wondering what i should do with my hair! this is its color now (all the color i had before is almost faded out. my natural color is about the same just without the red tint and a little darker) does anyone have any ideas for a cut color anything? im open for anything but anything to drastic (like shaving it or dying the whole thing like white blond or green or something)
PIctures are helpful!
also if you can find something with hair longer than mine if you think that will look good because im considering growing it longer too!
(http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y111/mypics89/devin.jpg)
I think you should get honey and maple highlights to your hair, and then scrunch it to add some bounce to spice up your look, just like Britney Spears in this picture: http://pub.tv2.no/multimedia/TV2/archive/00125/britney_spears_125541a.jpg
♥ lena
what does ty stand for ???
It stands for Thank You =] AKA merci & gracias.
♥ lena
i have to get my boyfriend a bday gift by monday, any suggestions? ive already given him enough gift certificates, so im trying to think of something easy to get, in the price range of around 20 dollars, and maybe a little creative? he watches a ton of movies, plays soccer, loves poker, if any of that helps. got any ideas? i really appreciate it...
Get him a DVD that has seasons of a show that he really enjoys, like The Simpsons, Family Guy or even South Park. Or since he likes movies then get him one of his favorite movies! Then you two should watch it together =]
He'll love it! Remember, it's the thought that counts, and guys always appreciate that.
♥ lena
Is there anything I can find around the house to make my hands softer, besides soap?
Vaseline or Aquaphor, which are more pertroleum based. Also there are a million different creams and lotions, you just need to go to a drugstore and have a look. :)
♥ lena
I really like this girl at school but she is my best friend. I'm scared that if I tell her and she says yes, I know we'll break up. Everyone knows that if you break up with someone you basically aren't friends anymore. Does anyone know what I should do? HELP ME!!!
I went through exactly what youre going through. I was really close friends with this guy and then we went out and then we went back to being close afterwards too. Everyone thinks that once you break up, it's like you erase them out of your life. But you dont have to make it end like that if you dont want it to. I'm sure that she feels the same way.
Also, keep in mind that you might not want to ask her out because maybe just maybe it could affect your friendship. But probably not. It's just something to consider.
♥ lena
hey, i was the one that told you that i like this guy and i am not sure weather he likes me back. you told me to talk to him about the situation and where our relationship is going. but i already did that. you see, i called him up one night and we just talked about everything and he said he is unsure weather he likes me or not. should i just leave the situation alone?
thanks again!
In my opinion, a girl should never chase the guy. He should be the one chasing you. Since you have talked to him already and he has to make up his mind, you should just let him be and hopefully he will make the right decision to be with you. Keep in mind that you have done all you can, and now its his turn.
♥ lena