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please read this...
so i like this kid at my school.. jake
i thought i had no chance wih him at all, although we talked sometimes durring classes in school
at the dance we had he came up behind me and asked me to dance
the weekend after i was really happy because i at least had a liitle now but i still believed that i had no chance.
the next week he became kinda shy around me and all my friends were like omg kat he so likes you. he talked to me a little that week, but still acted shy
so i wanted to at least know if he liked me or not, so i had my friend tell him i liked him
he was like ahh she likes me r you sure? i cant believe she had you tell me that, i mean i dont know if i like her or not shes nice and pretty and wicked funny and everything but i dont know about girls right now but dont tell her any of this
but i found out and now i'm upset, because i feel like i wish he had never found out that i liked him :/
help ..
-kat (link)
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Well maybe hes just taking a break from girls for awhile. He acted like he liked you and he did say all those nice things about you maybe he just isnt sure about everything. Guys can be wierd about that sort of thing, one second they like you the next they dont want to talk to you for more than 10 minutes. Dont worry, just act normal, pretend you dont know, just smile and show him that theres no reason to take a break from girls and that your the reason he shouldnt! Try not to be eager, play it cool, and break the ice. I'm positive that hes just a little freaked, like cold feet! Good Luck and tell me how it works out!
PS: Its better for him to know how you feel than for him not to know, its living in the moment! It was the right thing to do!
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Hey im 15/f and i was wondering if there were any face products that actually worked on fighting zits and pimples. I tried almost everything! But it either makes my face dry or gives me more zits and doesn't work. I pop them when they come but they become a horrible problem.. so it there any products that i could use that work and wont dry out your face? And another thing is, i know that some foods will make you break out or do something to your face. What foods are thoughs? Thanks a bunch i rate high! (link)
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Try Biore products i have really dry skin but i tend to get a few bad pimples on my forehead and biore doesnt dry out, it only gets rid of the pimples! Foods that tend to be bad for your face is chocolate, and jus bout all greasey foods! Foods that are really good for your skin is cantolope and salmon, both bring out the best in your skin. Good Luck!
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I think I am fat. I weigh about 116-120 pounds and am about 5"4. Is this overweight?
I don't have like ANY time at all to exercize, I do lose weight, but than I end up gaining it all back on. I can't wake up an hour earlier in the morning because I am already tired as is. I am busy like ALL the time. Does anyone have any way I could lose weight quickly, and wouln't take much time out of my schedual? (link)
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First of all YOUR NOT FAT!!! 116-120 at 5'4 thats good, and slim not fat or overweight! If you feel you must loose some weight just ry eating healthier, peoples biggest mistakes are that they eat junk foods, sodas, chips, candy, its all unnecessary. Juat eat more veggies and fruits dont over do it though because like i said 116-120 isnt remotly fat. good luck
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I really hate saying this and even admitting to myself that I have feelings with the same sex as me...a girl..not really a girl but a boyish one. Maybe i started to like her because she's really a caring person and is sensitive to other's feelings. When we talk, I feel as if my problems would go away and feel alighted. But then the problem is aside from the gender, she does have a relationship with another girl. I don't know when she think that i might have feelings for her but she did at one time. When she somewhat think, she showered me with many attention..but I think with my head than my heart, I know it's wrong so I kind of avoided her. When she talks to me, I don't have the same enthusiasm as before. By what I did she maybe realize that she "mistakenly" interpret my feelings. There was a time I really avoided her. but when she was absent I had a tantrum and I miss her. This is wrong I know it. That's why I wish people could help me on what should I do..I think avoiding is not a solution. Saying it either is a big mistake. (link)
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What is so wrong about being a lesbian? If you feel this way wouldnt you rather admit it, at least to yourself, then try to hide it and live in denial? I think you need to decide for yourself if this is just a phase or your sexuality deciion. Once you decide then you can think about this girl you like. Also, dont avoid her because you think its wrong treat her like everyone else and like you did before. Good luck and whatever you decide make sure your being honest to yourself!
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ok so im a 14 year old girl. and i know i have a lot of time to get a boyfriend but here it goes..
there are these two really obnoxious girls in my grade and the guys always swarm over them. i really dont even understand why. they are really fake and agressive like always touching them and stuff and they wear so much make up and like brand name clothes and stuff like that. they are also both really concieted so i dont understand why the guys would like them. like im friends with the guys too but thats just it im FRIENDS with them so none of them would even see me as being their girlfriends. i cant help it i dont know why i keep being in the position as the "friend" never the "girlfriend". i mean im kind of shy and im not the kind of girl who will just throw myself at the guys. thats not who i am and i dont want to be a fake person.
also when these two girls are talking to the guys i dont know what to do. i mean i dont want to just go over there because it would be akward and like the girls would give me looks but like these girls are with the guys liek 24/7 and the guys are always together as one group so i dont want to like shut myself out from talking to them either because then nothing will every happpen. ill never have a boyfriend!!
ugh. please help =(
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If the guys only see you as a friend then try to show yourself in another light. I think that you should try to flirt a little with your guy friends dont over do it just playful. Im not a very flirtacious person myself but flirting with guyfriends could be like practice. Once you feel comfortable flirting a little then going up to the guys at school will be easier. Try to get to the guys first, before the other 2 girls, that way they'll be the intimidated ones not you. Good Luck, and having a boyfriend in middle school isnt a big deal, the guys tend to be immature, once you go to high school it changes and you'll find yourself with more options too!
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i'll make this short and simple.
16f never been kissed (i know pathetic loser)
likes boy
wants to make first move
but scared of being rejected
what if i mess up? what if he moves his head away? i have braces will it be harder to kiss? should i eat chocolate before hand so i taste good?
please help a sista out. i'll give you 5's. (link)
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you should make the first move, it surprises the guy and its a big turn-on! DONT EAT CHOCOLATE, believe it or not it may smell good when you eat it but it will not taste good or make your breath smell good. All citris's kill bad breath making your kiss taste better. Also brushing your gums and toungue gets rid of bad breath. good luck and i hope its memorable!
PS: If your going to wear perfume when u make your move try Romance by Ralph Lauren, its sexy and not too strong or floral, its the best perfume ever!
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So.. I have this boyfriend who is absoultly amazing. He makes me laugh everytime I talk to him and we barly ever fight or have problems.. We're a lot alike and neither of us usualy have long relationships but we both really like eachother and think it'll last a long time. But for some reason i'm constintly thinking about things that could go wrong and I'm always thinking about breaking up with him. My friends say its because I have him but once I break up with him i'll want him back which is most likely true.. but I shouldnt really be feeling like this should I? What should i do about it? (link)
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Your issue is trust, you need to trust youself and your decisions. You began dating your boyfriend and you obviously still like him, so you need to realize theres a first for everything, including a long relationship. I think your just scared and anxoius about when its going to end because you havent had that relationship that lasts, so you dont believe it could happen to you yet. Have some faith in your man and good luck hopefully this will be your first long, lasting relationship!
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im very tiny & skinny .. but i have a little bit of fat on my stonmache that i want to get rid of .. i want to loose about 10 pounds only on my stomache - how and what should i do to loose these pounds?
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i doubt that you have ten pounds of fat on your stomach so instead of loosing that "weight", why dont you turn it into muscle? Try doing ab exercises daily (crunchs, situps, etc.) this way your stomach isnt flabby but instead firm. good luck hope i helped!
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i really like this boy who is in my grade (i am 14/f) he flirts with me a whole lot and i flirt back. we hang out a lot because we go to a really small school and the same church. our parents are close, too. he has been in a lot of long-term relationships and i am looking for one because i haven't dated in about a year. we liked eachother a while back but never got together. our parents have the same rule about not calling and going out and stuff like that. i really want him to make the first move, but i haven't had great luck with boys before. (only 1 boyfriend, a year ago exactly) this boy is really sweet and my friends say we would be the "cutest couple ever" but i doubt we would be. i mean, we would be cute together but not the cutest ever. should i take the initiative to ask him out or just flirt a whole lot and hope he makes the first move? and any advice to help me get his attention (but not the wrong kind of attention just for him to see me as girlfriend material) would be helpful too! i am a huge tom-boy if that helps any! thanks in advance! i'll rate! (link)
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I think that you should invite him out with some of your friends and his like a group thing, not a date just to let him see you out of school and church but having fun. guys like to see girls when there not either under stress from school or under stress because their perents are there. When with him flirt and talk about the things your interested in and things he likes too, finding things incommon is a big turn-on for guys. Wait a little after hanging out more but if he still doesnt ask you out, then i think you should take the initiative and ask him out, it sounds like he likes you already you just need to show him your worth asking out! Good Luck!
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I feel really moronic asking this because it's stupid and one of those annoying Valentine's Day questions, but it would be really nice if someone could try to help. I'm 13 in the 7th grade and I've really liked this guy named Will for a long time. He's not quite a best friend, but a friend nevertheless. I was wondering whether on Valentine's Day it would be stodgy to send him a carnation (the school is selling carnations on Valentine's Day to donate money to child prostitutes in India) anonymously? I don't think he would laugh because he's a pretty romantic and sensitive guy himself. What do you think? (link)
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I think it sounds like a good idea! Maybe you could write him a cute note to go with it like from your secret admiriror ... haha or is that cheesey (sorry im a hopeless romantic myself)! anyways i think its cute and sweet! Happy V-day!
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Female, 21
I was recently dating a guy I thought I really clicked with. He talked about our future on several occasions, and he really seemed to be interested in me (like I said, we clicked, and not just on my end). He recieved a promotion that requires him to take frequent business trips, though, and he says he can't start a new relationship right now, especially since there might be fights about it and he might ruin what might be in the future. To his credit, I did contact him with concern even when he told me he wouldn't be able to talk (I know for a fact he was quite busy). He also said he didn't want to deprive me of someone who could put in enough time to be a real boyfriend. He also said he's not going anywhere and has kept me posted on major events in his life. So, is he to be believed? Should I get over him? Should I date around and wait (he said it will be super busy for about 7 months)? Should I just wait? I really feel like this is the guy for me, and I'm trying to keep the faith, but I feel obsessive for believing what may be a line. Help? (link)
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I think you should wait! He sounds honest and deffinitly the guy for you! Its only seven months, and if you want you can date around but keep it casual. Also, try to have faith in this new guy he could be the one!!!
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okay so for valentines day i cant think of anything to get my boyfriend since his bday was a couple days ago. so far im going into his room w hiel hes in school and putting balloons and notes n stuff in his room but i cant think of anything to actually get him. no he doesnt want cologne. he plays drums and loves music.
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I think that your idea sounds really good!!! Now something that you could actually buy him. You could make him a cd of the best drummers ever. Just downlaod or buy the songs and burn it onto a cd, its creative he'll love it and its cheap. If you need ideas for the best drummers just send me a message on my column! Good Luck!
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First off, I've been single for a really long time. Last week I met a really great guy. I have really high expectations and he met almost every one of them. Anyway, I know I kinda brought it upon myself but I sent him one of those typical surveys about "what you would do" and "do you like me" types of things. He marked that he wanted a fling with me but not an actual relationship. Should I go for the fling, do what a I want and have a valentine this year or just stay friends and be alone for a really long time? If it helps, I go to an all girls high school & see guys.. never. I'm 15 & female. thanks! (link)
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A fling could be nice but you seem like the type of girl who doesnt do that, just because of the fact you havent been in a relationship in awhile, anyways if hes everything you've been waiting for theres always a chance that he'll end up liking you more and not want a fling but instead a relationship. Also theres a chance that he might have written that he wanted a fling in case you didnt like him that way his feelings for you were protected and he didnt end up embarassed. Good Luck, and if you pick fling be ready for the no commitment part.
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17/f
My boyfriend's favorite animal is a cow, and we have inside jokes about it. I was thinking of getting him a stuffed cow and chocolates for Valentines Day. But I was wondering, do guys like getting stuffed animals from girls? I mean he's kind of like a "man's man." And I've been dating him for 5 months, so do you think chocolates and a stuffed cow would be enough? Or should I get him more? Or maybe make him dinner along with the stuffed cow and chocolates? Or would that be too much? Help! (link)
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I think that your good with just the cow and the chocolates! Its cute original and creative! He'll love the fact that you thought of him when you bought him the gift and also food is the way to a mans heart so the chocolates are a nice touch! Happy V-day!
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umm i like this kid Gibson sooo much and he asked me to semi formal dance but he couldnt go (ironic) but he asked me to the next dance also. is this a sign he likes me? or how do i get him to like me?? thanx a bunch (link)
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Umm yea he deffinitly likes you! Guys just dont ask girls to dancing unless they like them. Dancing equals closeness and that means he wants to be close to you!!! Good Luck!!!
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I really want a boyfriend. I've had one before but he was unreliable and I'd like someone better. With Valintine's (sp?) Day coming up I really want this to be my chance. Well there are two guys I like and I'm going to use letters so if you don't like it don't answer it.
Let's begin with A. A is hot and popular. Really popular. Yet, he's different from all the other popular guys. He's sweet and funny. We always talk in language class and he writes these beautiful poems. The only thing is he never notices me outside of language.
Now it's J. J is hot but unpopular. He's funny and awesome. We don't talk much but sometimes exchange a few words online. In gym he constantly stares at me though.
So my question is which guy should I go for? Which do you think is more worth it? Should I forget about both of them? (link)
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id say J. jay sounds more interested and reliable, A sounds like that guy in school who everyone likes but hes too dumb to notice anyone for real besides his friends. J is worth it and it sounds like he already like you back!
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Hey what are some good british/european (english) band?!?! i like franz ferdinand, are there some good ones you could recomend?
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ohh yes some of the best music is from England/UK! I really like The Waifs (indie rock), The Zombies (there oldies but i love them), The Decemberists (rock), a few others i cant remember, umm duh The Beatles! Well i hope i helped good luck!
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So on friday 4 girlfriends and 1-2 guy friends are comin over just to hang out (we're all 15 and 16 btw) Well after a while i know fo sho that its goin to be boooring. what are some fun games to play? we dont want any kissing games (we've all known each other for so long itd be awkward lol)But something similar to Ten Fingers or like pictionary.. Please help asap! i rate 5s :]
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i do that with everyone in my neighborhood (we all grew up together ... same age)! We rent 1 scary movie and 1 comedy, usually we end up talking most of it and not actually watching that movie. Try Cranium its really fun plus theres teams so everyone can work together! or you could try charades, have everyone write out random stuff that can be acted out (like inside jokes are the best) and put the ideas in a bag and play its the best because its hilarious to act out things that are personal to you and your friends!!! good luck!
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ok well my friends met this kid at a amusement park. then they started talking to him. this is all in the summer btw. so blah blah, i would talk to him online too. so about maybe in early october we started like talking, like really talking. so now its feburary and we both have feelings for each other. but i have never seen him. but my friends have. i have talked to him on the phone and whatever but not acutally seen him. hes planning on driving down soon. (he just got his liscense) do you think it will be okay?! pleasee hellppp.
btw, he lives an hour away. does that matter? (link)
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wow right now im goin through the exact same thing with one of my friends friend who she met at some camp! wow i think its great just go with a friend, and make sure you meet someplace open and in public ... just to be safe! good luck!
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where can i get some cute clogs that look like the ones that are sold at american eagle
ps. they dont sell any at ae anymore (link)
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i got mine from Kohls for lik 15$ so its cheaper but exactly the same!
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