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wanting a boyfriend
I really want a boyfriend. I've had one before but he was unreliable and I'd like someone better. With Valintine's (sp?) Day coming up I really want this to be my chance. Well there are two guys I like and I'm going to use letters so if you don't like it don't answer it.
Let's begin with A. A is hot and popular. Really popular. Yet, he's different from all the other popular guys. He's sweet and funny. We always talk in language class and he writes these beautiful poems. The only thing is he never notices me outside of language.
Now it's J. J is hot but unpopular. He's funny and awesome. We don't talk much but sometimes exchange a few words online. In gym he constantly stares at me though.
So my question is which guy should I go for? Which do you think is more worth it? Should I forget about both of them?
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this is pretty weird because im in the exact same position and the only answer is to follow your heart and as strange as it sounds listen to your dreams because thats how i figured it out. you cant let complete strangers pick out who your gonna write a letter to based on what they look like you have to do it on your own
good luck
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You're not alone hun. I want a boyfriend too (I've been single for 2 years). What I DON'T want is a guy who will mess me around and cause heartache. So forget about the popularity of these guys. Personally it sounds like the 2nd guy likes you. But don't date either of them for the sake of it cos it's just not fair on anyone involved. Hope this helps!
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This isn't something you want to hear, so if you're only looking for happy, positive advice, I suggest you stop reading now.
Your reasons for wanting a boyfriend are stupid. Yeah, it sucks being alone on V-day, but it's incredibly stupid to go looking for a boyfriend for that purpose. Any relationship that begins because you want a boyfriend is doomed to failure and quite frankly a waste of your time. You should want a boyfriend because you like a certain guy, not just for the sake of saying "I have a boyfriend!" Until you're comfortable alone, you're never going to be happy in a relationship & in seeking relationships regardless, you're subjecting yourself to unnecessary misery.
As for who you decide you like more, you need to screw the whole "he's popular, he's not" thing. That's amazingly shallow. Like a guy for who he is, not his status in high school. If it didn't matter to you, you wouldn't have said it. Reevaluate your priorities before you go searching for a boyfriend.
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unless you like one of them more, then I would go for J, since A will probably always feel pressured by his popular friends out of language class.
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id say J. jay sounds more interested and reliable, A sounds like that guy in school who everyone likes but hes too dumb to notice anyone for real besides his friends. J is worth it and it sounds like he already like you back!
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Everyone knows at least one guy who is like "A". They seem nice, but yet they don't even know you're alive outside of english class. It sucks, I know. I think you should start talking more to "J". The staring thing might mean that he is into you, so go for it! I hope I helped :)
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