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have feelings with the same sex
I really hate saying this and even admitting to myself that I have feelings with the same sex as me...a girl..not really a girl but a boyish one. Maybe i started to like her because she's really a caring person and is sensitive to other's feelings. When we talk, I feel as if my problems would go away and feel alighted. But then the problem is aside from the gender, she does have a relationship with another girl. I don't know when she think that i might have feelings for her but she did at one time. When she somewhat think, she showered me with many attention..but I think with my head than my heart, I know it's wrong so I kind of avoided her. When she talks to me, I don't have the same enthusiasm as before. By what I did she maybe realize that she "mistakenly" interpret my feelings. There was a time I really avoided her. but when she was absent I had a tantrum and I miss her. This is wrong I know it. That's why I wish people could help me on what should I do..I think avoiding is not a solution. Saying it either is a big mistake.
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Don't forget there is different levels of feeling for someone of the same sex. I'm straight but I am attracted to girls - I even slept with one once! But I know I'm not bisexual because I simply don't really wish to repeat the experience. By all means experiment with this girl if she feels the same (though maybe not while she has a gf). Experimentation is pretty much the only way that you'll get to know your true self, and remember - there's nothing at all wrong with the way you feel about her. If you're a lesbian or bisexual it's in your genes anyway so there's nothing you can do about it. Just enjoy life and enjoy who you are...
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first off... I personally dont think its a wrong thing at all. Who are other ppl to tell u that its wrong to feel some type of way for a person. I dont think that you should avoid her, it would just make things harder the next time you see her. Tell her how you feel... everything has to start there. Its going to be hard to start off.. but youll feel better at the end.
Email me sometime if you wanna talk about it!
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Avoiding her is the wrong thing to do. You can't do that forever and it's just really rude. There is nothing wrong with you having feelings for her. So what if you might be bi or lesbian. You're not the only one and you shoulnd't pretend to be something you're not. If that's who you are, then let it be it. Don't be ashamed of it. For people who don't accept this, they are idiots and don't worry about their comments or thoughts. You can't hide your feelings and you can't make then go away even if you try really hard. This is the way it was meant for you to be and you should be happy. Everyone is different. Just talk to her and let her know what's been going on. She'll appriciate it. Good luck with everything.
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What is so wrong about being a lesbian? If you feel this way wouldnt you rather admit it, at least to yourself, then try to hide it and live in denial? I think you need to decide for yourself if this is just a phase or your sexuality deciion. Once you decide then you can think about this girl you like. Also, dont avoid her because you think its wrong treat her like everyone else and like you did before. Good luck and whatever you decide make sure your being honest to yourself!
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