Question Posted Saturday February 4 2006, 11:58 am
please read this...
so i like this kid at my school.. jake
i thought i had no chance wih him at all, although we talked sometimes durring classes in school
at the dance we had he came up behind me and asked me to dance
the weekend after i was really happy because i at least had a liitle now but i still believed that i had no chance.
the next week he became kinda shy around me and all my friends were like omg kat he so likes you. he talked to me a little that week, but still acted shy
so i wanted to at least know if he liked me or not, so i had my friend tell him i liked him
he was like ahh she likes me r you sure? i cant believe she had you tell me that, i mean i dont know if i like her or not shes nice and pretty and wicked funny and everything but i dont know about girls right now but dont tell her any of this
but i found out and now i'm upset, because i feel like i wish he had never found out that i liked him :/
help ..
-kat
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? xomegaroni answered Saturday February 4 2006, 8:26 pm: try not to be upset about it. at least you got somewhere. you should always tell people how you feel about them. you don't want to hide it & pass up opportunities. it's good because now he can decide what he wants to do. maybe you guys should juss become better friends & see what happens from there. he seems like he likes you & it's not a huge thing about the whole 'doesnt know about girls' thing. maybe he really does like you but doesn't want you to know?? maybe he's juss really shy about it. talk to him about it.
greeneyedgirl9o answered Saturday February 4 2006, 1:21 pm: Well maybe hes just taking a break from girls for awhile. He acted like he liked you and he did say all those nice things about you maybe he just isnt sure about everything. Guys can be wierd about that sort of thing, one second they like you the next they dont want to talk to you for more than 10 minutes. Dont worry, just act normal, pretend you dont know, just smile and show him that theres no reason to take a break from girls and that your the reason he shouldnt! Try not to be eager, play it cool, and break the ice. I'm positive that hes just a little freaked, like cold feet! Good Luck and tell me how it works out!
PS: Its better for him to know how you feel than for him not to know, its living in the moment! It was the right thing to do! [ greeneyedgirl9o's advice column | Ask greeneyedgirl9o A Question ]
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