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should i make the first move or wait on him?
i really like this boy who is in my grade (i am 14/f) he flirts with me a whole lot and i flirt back. we hang out a lot because we go to a really small school and the same church. our parents are close, too. he has been in a lot of long-term relationships and i am looking for one because i haven't dated in about a year. we liked eachother a while back but never got together. our parents have the same rule about not calling and going out and stuff like that. i really want him to make the first move, but i haven't had great luck with boys before. (only 1 boyfriend, a year ago exactly) this boy is really sweet and my friends say we would be the "cutest couple ever" but i doubt we would be. i mean, we would be cute together but not the cutest ever. should i take the initiative to ask him out or just flirt a whole lot and hope he makes the first move? and any advice to help me get his attention (but not the wrong kind of attention just for him to see me as girlfriend material) would be helpful too! i am a huge tom-boy if that helps any! thanks in advance! i'll rate! <3 :)
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I think that you should invite him out with some of your friends and his like a group thing, not a date just to let him see you out of school and church but having fun. guys like to see girls when there not either under stress from school or under stress because their perents are there. When with him flirt and talk about the things your interested in and things he likes too, finding things incommon is a big turn-on for guys. Wait a little after hanging out more but if he still doesnt ask you out, then i think you should take the initiative and ask him out, it sounds like he likes you already you just need to show him your worth asking out! Good Luck!
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well don't change up ur self becuase he obviously likes you just fine otherwise he wouldn't be doing all that flirting, right? and then i think you should take the inititave and ask him out. or over for dinner or something like that so that way it seems casual.
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