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Is it okay to fall for someone if they complement you and make you feel amazing when ever your feeling down and make you laugh all the time?
What if they were 6 years older than you?
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Is it okay? It's completely normal..but I mean the whole 6 years thing..yeah..thats kinda tough. I mean it's definitely possible to fall for him, but the whole thing with the age difference and if you're a minor...then thats a little risky..
There is nothing you could do if it's in a situation where you may get in trouble..=/
good luck
`jeSsie
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I go to a private school, and my friend did also, but then she went public. i still keep in touch with her and she is still a really great friend. But now i have this other great friend in school with me and i'm not sure wiether to think she is a better friend or not. Should i replace her? is it bad that i do not feel as close to my previous best friend?
-dorinflower55 (link)
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You don't necessarily have to REPLACE her. I mean I don't believe it just having ONE best friend. I consider a lot of my friends a type of best friend to me in different ways. I mean, I know you're not close to your other friend much anymore, but just because a new person moved in doesn't mean you have to forget about her.
`jeSsie
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Ok...I've never met this kid in person but I talk to him online all the time. He's lets call him J's friend, and lets call him B. Well J told me that B likes me...I want to know if it's possible to like someone that you never met in person? I think I like him. (link)
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Definitely possible. But before you give out any personal information. MAKE SURE this kid has a webcam and a mic so you can see if he's who he says he is...
Good Luck -- and be careful.
`jeSsie
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I am 13 and a girl. i like a boy and he is my friend and we went out and then he dumped me 3days later and he still liked me or thats what he said. now i like him again but he is going out with some girl who i dont no! what do i do to get him back? (link)
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There is nothing you could do. Honestly, most boys and relationships like that aren't serious, so I'd move on and get yourself another guy..when he comes along. But he's not worth it and he must not be that crazy over you if he goes out with you, dumps you, tell you he still likes you, and then dates another girl. So just let that other girl date that jerk and find someone else who repects you.
Good Luck --
`jeSsie
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My best friends are the 2 hottest girls in school. Every guy likes them...this is the order and why guys check them out
Alex-because shes gorgeous, crazy, and outgoing
Paige-because shes pretty, down to earth, and not prude
Me-because of my personality and bc im not prude
It bothers me so much that I'm not pretty. I know having a good personality is better than everything, but Id rather look good.
So my question is:
Should I change myself *not like i havent tryed* just to be pretty? or just deal with it that im not pretty?? (link)
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Dude!! I feel the same exact way with my two cousins.
Rachael -- shes outgoing, crazy, funny, nice eyes and all that stuff
Erica -- one of those completely popular girls who wears makeup and all the guys call her hot.
Me -- Feel invisible in school around my friends and around them most times..
I've been thinking too. Should I start wearing makeup now? Should I change how I dress or how I act to be noticed? The truth is I dont like who I am now and I feel completely invisible because they're really pretty. I mean I think I'm pretty kinda I just don't wear makeup and I really don't want to, because if you think about it it's just hiding what's really you. ya know?
You shouldn't change yourself unless you want to for YOU. Don't wear makeup, change your personality or style unless it's your choice..because in the end it wont help any.
I havent found my place yet but hopefully it's coming soon...your place will come. I know you feel invisible but I'm sure you're very pretty. Don't sell yourself short..
`jeSsie
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ok im 14 1/2 ok and theres this awesome guy at my school and i mean i like him and i think he likes me i mean he goes to church and everything job but the thing is he's 17 and ive heard rumors saying that guys make bets and crap on the freshmen to see how fast they can get into there pants i mean im not going to do anything like that but i don't want to be apart of a cruel joke so should i take the chance and go out with him or no.................. (link)
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Well, that happened to me. A 17 year old liked me when I was 14 1/2. Coincidence. But yeah I gave him a chance ya know? Because I was really good friends with him before we went out, and I knew him and knew he wasn't the type of guy that just wanted to get some..
But yeah in the end I found out there really was no chemistry and it was kind of awkward because we were friends before that, and because he had other responsiblities because he was older..so I broke it off.
But if you end up dating him, start by going on group dates and stuff like that, that way you can get to know him and feel comfortable being around him, so you know what kind of guy he truly is..
Take care of yourself --
`jeSsie =]
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i'm super confused. I think i may be a lesbian but i'm not sure. see, i find myself flirting with guys like any normal 14 year old. but i find myself checking girls out too. i'm not afraid to be a lesbian but this has been going on for quite sometime now so can somebody just help me decide? am i a lesbian or not? (link)
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It could just be a phase. Either that or you're bisexual (liking boys and girls)..
Good Luck =)
`jeSsie
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okay well i rlly rlly like this guy and we flirt a lot...but the problem is that i'm 14 and he's 16...he thinks it would be wrong to go out w/ me b/c im still in middle school...but i don't think its wrong at all b/c everyone else does it...do you think he's scared or that he doesn't like me?,...please helpp (link)
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Well I mean ultimately it's up to the two of you whether you're going to end up dating or not. But the age differences aren't that drastic..at all actually.
He may like you but he may have respect for you which is why he isn't dating you. On the other hand, he may not think of you in the dating sense, which doesn't mean that's a bad thing.
You can either talk to him about it or wait it out. Don't wait for too long though. If you two don't ask eachother out then move on..
Good Luck --
`jeSsie
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You know what?? Whoever is asking these repulsive questions needs to knock it off!! Whoever it is you are a disgusting pervert who needs to go play with a tree!! And moderators, delete this moron! You can't let him ask these questions!!
I'm also going to stand up for candi_sweet_hart, you aren't whatever that ass called you. Whoever it was, he/she is a mofo.
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OH YEAH!!
lol
No, but just ignore them, there is nothing you can do.
`jeSsie
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1. I was wondering if it was normal for a 15 year old(3 months away form being 16) not to have her period?
2. Is it possible for someone not to get their period at all in a a lifetime?
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No it's not possible for someone to not get their period at all.. You'll get your period. Some people don't get it until later, it's perfectly normal. It will come at the right time, don't worry. =)
`jeSsie
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im almost 14 and i still havent been kissed or had a boyfriend is that normal??? I feel like im abnormalk or something... (link)
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Don't worry about it. I heard that most teenage girls get their first kiss between the ages of 13 and 15. Some before, and some after. Don't feel abnormal. I mean I haven't ever made out with someone and I'm 15 in a week. The most I've done was a small little peck-kiss thing. I mean, I just didn't feel the chemistry with him. But I mean, when you know the right guy has come along, it will work out..and don't rush it. You'll get it. =)
`jeSsie
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Ok me and my boyfriend have been together for a while now and he wants to have sex and I do too but there is just one problem I have a disease and I don’t know if I should tell him or not because I don’t want him too to think of me different but we are going to use protection and everything just I don’t want to tell him! And I am sooooo scared! I don’t know about what maybe about him knowing my deepest darkest secret, I don’t know! Please help me! (link)
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Bottom line -- you gotta tell him. I know it may feel embarassing but maybe you can find medicines or ways to work around the disease depending on if it's major or mild or something.
But yeah..you definitely have to tell him. He does have the right to know. Wouldn't you want to know?
Good Luck.
`jeSsie
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my girl friends best mate says she really fanceys me and keeps asking me out wat do i do (link)
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You tell her.. Okay repeat after me -- "Noooooo."
Very good. =]
But really..you don't want to hurt the girl's feelings or anything, but tell her the truth. Be like "I have a girlfriend." and just walk away. She has no respect for you if she keeps bugging you after she knows you have a girlfriend, because that shows she doesn't want what's best for you anyway.
Good Luck.
`jeSsie
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Hey! If You have a favorite quote, or an inspiring something to share: please do!
I'll rate all 5's! Promice:)
-*KeLs*- (link)
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Sometimes you have to look below the suface to find the real scars
The spaces between my fingers are meant to be filled with his
Expose yourself to your biggest fear
I tear my heart open, I sew myself shut. My weakness is I care too much. My scars remind me that the past is real. I tear my heart open, just to feel. -- Papa Roach
I'm willing to bleed for days, more reds & greys so you dont hurt so much. -- Something Corporate
if I have more later Ill edit my answer..I forgot all the rest though. lol
`jeSsie
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i'm currently a freshman in my second semester of college and i have a problem staying awake in my classes, even if i get adequate hours of sleep the night before!
i've tried drinking coffee during class (despite the caffeine, has not worked for me), bringing munchies, having a water bottle, doodling on my notebook, and vice versa. basically anything to keep me busy and awake! all of my attempts have failed...any ideas? (link)
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Maybe you're narcasist or however you spell it. Hmm..it could also be the temperature in the room that makes you drowsy ya know? Or maybe if you just got over being sick or having the cold.
But I mean, if you know it's none of these factors, then next time you go to the doctors for a checkup just ask them about it and see if theres anything wrong possibly.
I hope I helped
`jeSsie
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Recently this boy has been walking me to class with his arms around me. Everyone is starting to think that we go ouy but we don't. I tell him I don't want his hand around me but he still does it. But the bad thing it thatwhen I am not around he makes fun of me and calls me bad words. See if I tell someone about this they may think I am unpopular or whatever and I can't afford that to happen. So what should I do. (link)
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Um..well if you wont tell someone..then he wont stop. He's harassing you and you care more about your reputation? I mean I'm not trying to sound like a bitch here..but if you dont want him to do it, and you already told him to stop..you TELL someone. You dont worry about what other people think at times like these. BUt like you said you "cant afford it" so it's up to you.
Good luck..
`jeSsie
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I am so confused with math. We're doing addition and subtraction of positive and negative integers. Can anyone please answer the following problems and explain how you got that answer? I rate high!
-20 - (-10) =
-35 - 16 =
There's also a sort of word problem one too. Tell me what the math sentence would be and the sum.
Start at -6. Face the negative direction. Move backward 2 units.
Please help! (link)
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m-mMath?
*shivers*
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Hello! My boyfriend is thinking about getting his penis pierced, and I was just wondering how long it will take until we will be able to have sex? Also, if anyone has had it done, how bad does it hurt? Thanks!! (link)
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Uh...piercing of the genitals. How much will it hurt you ask? ... PIERCING OF THE GENITALS. You do the math
`jeSsie
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there is this guy i go to school with and he is popular. All the girls think he's so cute. (including me)He is a hottie very cute. Recently i was in the liabary and he walked up to me and asked me out on a date i was shocked out of mine. I could not understand why he asked me because i am not one of the SKINNY, PARIS HILTON, popular brand name, expensive close wearing girls. I shop at target. I was so flatterd i said yes quickly. we went out on our date and it was heaven. He kissed me passionatley and asked me to be his girl freind. Just when i thought this was the man of my dreams he turns to me and says.... "Oh yeah about tonight and our relationship don't tell anyone about us. I'm a private person and i would like to keep this to my self." I was so offened by this i could not speak.I just nodded my head and went along with it beacuse he was still so cute. When he sees me in puplic it's like i'm thin air he says nothing to me. As soon as his friends are not around it's all hugs and kisses. My question is could it be that this guy is embarrassed to be seen with me? (link)
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OKAY...ya know what? *hold self back* he.. doesnt even say HI to you in public?? ARrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr
Don't be fooled by his looks.. PUHLEASEEEE..I know it's hard but looks arent everything. Dump him..and if ya want you can even dump him in public ;) Now..wouldnt that be great?
But yeah..I mean its up to you, but if I were you I'd seriously dump the creep and leave him alone and missing out on somebody who could have been great for him..that person is you. He doesn't know what he's losing. He doesn't even know what he HAS. You're not a toy, and you'd be better off with someone who will kiss you passionately in public..or at least say HI to you..geeze..
*makes the sound of an airplane going down* dump him..just..dump him.
`jeSsie
*huggles*
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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition? (link)
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You tell her "congratulations."
=)
lol..no but really, if you want to congratulate her you can buy her something she'll like to show her that you're happy for her, or have a small little party for her (doesnt have to be huge) but just with a group of close friends..
Hope I helped.
`jeSsie
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