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okay well i rlly rlly like this guy and we flirt a lot...but the problem is that i'm 14 and he's 16...he thinks it would be wrong to go out w/ me b/c im still in middle school...but i don't think its wrong at all b/c everyone else does it...do you think he's scared or that he doesn't like me?,...please helpp
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dont go out with him, youll end up getting raped or heart broken. hope i helped!
<3 maria
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Well, I think he's probably scared that it will make him look bad by going out with someone in middle school, now that doesn't mean he doesn't like you, because he obviously does.
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ok in my opiaoin i think age dosent matter bu the law does do you really like this guy and does he truely like you back cause somtimes all a guy wants to do is get in your pants next you have to make shure that your mature anoff for him and then are you ready for a relationship a serious one cause he is older and he is probly what a 9th or 10th grader if you go out with him it isnt middle school he probly wants longterm so be propard
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Well I mean ultimately it's up to the two of you whether you're going to end up dating or not. But the age differences aren't that drastic..at all actually.
He may like you but he may have respect for you which is why he isn't dating you. On the other hand, he may not think of you in the dating sense, which doesn't mean that's a bad thing.
You can either talk to him about it or wait it out. Don't wait for too long though. If you two don't ask eachother out then move on..
Good Luck --
`jeSsie
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i think that he might care what people think. but just get him alone and ask him. and if he's just scared then tell him that it will work out.
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You don't think its wrong because everyone else does it? Ok, that really shows your age. Hes not some pervert is why hes not dating you, thats just it. It is wrong, you should find a guy whose your age, not 16. Hes not scared, he just knows that he shouldn't be messing around with 14 year old girls.
-TheTeenGirl
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You're in middle school. YEACK!
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He probably likes you okay as a friend but he might be a little mature for you right now.To his way of thinking anyway.I think he was trying to tell you that in a polite way.So stay friends and maybe in a couple of years...I know that isn't what you want to hear but I think you'll just remain friends.
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Some boys flirt a lot. They like the idea of lots of girls liking them. It makes them feel good about themselves. If he isn't going out with you he's probably not scared, he's probably just not into you. If he were, he'd go out with you. Move on and find a boy who does like you.
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It's understanding for him to think the age difference is totally off. So wait until next year when you're in high school for him to get with you; or even over the summer which is just right around the corner! In my opinion I do think he likes you. And if I were him I'd be wary of the age difference too. If he really does like you, then I bet he'd want to hook up with you over the summer!
♥ Always,
Maria
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To tell you the truth, I think he would be embarrassed to tell his highschool friends that he is dating someone in middle school. Though it may sound silly, guys have a reputation that they would like to maintain, and telling everyone what school you are in would result in funny looks and whispers. There is a good chance that he likes you, but the timing could be all wrong.
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