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Me and my fiance have been together for going on 3 and half years, that was until Wednesday. We have now split, because I ask him to show me that he loves me more often, because I ask this he blames me for "cussing" at him to much. I know that it is hard for him sometimes to show me this but it is something that I feel that I need, even though I am pretty sure that he does love me. i have never cheated on him or anything to hurt him, he means more than life to me, and will give it all that I have to make sure that he is happy. This is not the first time that we have seperated, and after a few days and does eventually return but this time, my heart is not so sure. Can you tell me from a guys ppoint of view what you think will happen to my bf and I. Will you also give me advice on what to do to make sure that this never happens again??
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Well i dont see why he would have a problem on showing you that he loves you! I mean isnt that what hes supposed to do? But i think you two will eventually go back to eachother if how you explained to me about yalls love is true...! but explain to him how you feel and if he gets mad again forget about him cuz if he doesnt wanna show u that he loves you then forget about it...there are alot of other people you could find better than that!GOOD LUCK!
cody
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well from a girls point of view i see where you're coming from. everyone wnats to feel loved and appreciated. I don't blame you for asking him to show you he loves you more often because I wouoold have done the same thing. Tell him how much happier it would make you and tell him you'll show him as much as you can also. If he usually returns he probably will this time since it's not that much of a big deal. You need to tell him that you can't handle him leaving over every little thing. For the guys point of view i got the opinion of a friend he said just to give him time if it didn't take long for him to return before and let him settle his problems or try to on his own. Well i really hope it all works out and good luck i hope i helped.
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Ok, first I'm not a guy so sorry. But this is a chick's point of view. But I asked one of my dude friends to answer this for you. But don't worry you're still going to get my view.
My dude friend said: Ok, well I know I'm not one to show my emotions that good, like I'm a super energetic person, like I'm cool to be around and everything, but like when it comes to showing feelings around a chick, it's diffrent. So I'm positive that he loves you, but he's just not comfortable with showing and expressing his feelings, but none the less he loves you and you should exept that. But if he really wants to save it he should not be afaid to show you how he feels. Very much agreeing with him. Anyways, my point of view. Well, like, if he's still your fiance then he does love you. Like doy! But...if you believe that he should show his feelings more often tthen just like tell him, whenever he feels like showing them towards you, then he'll go for it. But like, just have a long talk with him and see where it takes you. If you get married tell me how it went. Haha, good luck with everything.
Your dark lord and master...Jenny M...
[jennymanzanares@hotmail.com]
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WELLLL i'm not a guy, but i can tell you this. you've been together for a long time (as you say 3 years) so obviously theres still always a chance of staying together b/c feelings won't die that fast unless he's been cheating on you for years, but obviously he has not. there is no guarantee things like that won't happen again but what you can do is make a promise between eachother and hold to it, never to deliberately say things to eachother that you know would hurt one another (obv, you know what hurts him). just tell him that you love him and ask him back see if he gets the picture. chances are he does but still has trouble expressing it (remember guys are less mature than girls) so just let him kno you mind (nicely) and just try to be there for eachother
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