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Question Posted Wednesday March 23 2005, 2:24 pm

my girl friends best mate says she really fanceys me and keeps asking me out wat do i do

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Alize answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 3:54 pm:
tell your friend what kind of mate she has. and if you think you wanna go out with that kind of person, then that's messed up. what if she tries to do that to you with your own friends? your gonna be the one who's gonna get hurt. so just stick to the girl you have. good luck! *AlIzE*

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gessyka answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 3:40 pm:
You tell her.. Okay repeat after me -- "Noooooo."
Very good. =]
But really..you don't want to hurt the girl's feelings or anything, but tell her the truth. Be like "I have a girlfriend." and just walk away. She has no respect for you if she keeps bugging you after she knows you have a girlfriend, because that shows she doesn't want what's best for you anyway.

Good Luck.
`jeSsie

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LindasCounsel answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 2:44 pm:
Hi there!
Say no. And I'll tell you why. She is testing you. She is also jealous of her best friend. When you say no to her, she will respect you for it and probably like you even more, but that's not why you should say it. It's not the right thing to do and if you were to say yes, please keep in mind that you are not only breaking up with your girlfriend, you are also breaking up the friendship with her friend. Another consideration is that if she is willing to do this to her BEST friend, what will she do to you when she tires of you? If she won't let up, tell her that you will tell your girlfriend what's up. That should put a stop to it. I know it's good for the ego to think that you are attractive to someone else, but you don't need to act on it. You will be much better off and feel better about yourself in the long run if you say no.
Good luck!
Linda

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xolilabbs214ox answered Wednesday March 23 2005, 2:38 pm:
dont say yes.... because if she is bff with your friend... she shouldnt be doing that. which do you want: your friend? or her best friend? hope i helped! please rate!
x0x0 abbey x0x0

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