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This boy is bothering me
Recently this boy has been walking me to class with his arms around me. Everyone is starting to think that we go ouy but we don't. I tell him I don't want his hand around me but he still does it. But the bad thing it thatwhen I am not around he makes fun of me and calls me bad words. See if I tell someone about this they may think I am unpopular or whatever and I can't afford that to happen. So what should I do.
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Hey hun!
Tell him to get off and ask him why do you make other people suffer! He will be speechless! I have some people make fun of me! but just tell him to step off! and about you telling someone tell your closet friends! ok?
~XoxAndRea~
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Tish guy needs to be told whats what tell him you don't want him to put his hands around you, and if that don't work tell your parents and the school and the reason for this is because it is invading your personal space...
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Just make a scene if he wont back off! Make sure your guyfriends are around you just in case. He'll be embarassed in front of the whole school, and hes gonna be scared of your guy friends, and he'll run with his tail between his legs.
Let him call you whatever he wants, you know deep inside that its not true.
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Tell this boy that you know what he does behind your back, if you haven't told him already. Tell him that he should not be two faced and that he should listen to you and not put his arm around you and seem as if he likes you and then talk about you behind your back. Tell him that, doing that is a very jerky thing to do and you won't stand it anymore. If you think this will ruin your reputation, and you don't want to risk that, then just talk to him about why he does that stuff and make sure that he really talks about you behind your back. Actually, you should do that first either way. Hope I helped. GOOD LUCK.
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Um..well if you wont tell someone..then he wont stop. He's harassing you and you care more about your reputation? I mean I'm not trying to sound like a bitch here..but if you dont want him to do it, and you already told him to stop..you TELL someone. You dont worry about what other people think at times like these. BUt like you said you "cant afford it" so it's up to you.
Good luck..
`jeSsie
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well if he does it again what i would do is make a big seen about it. i mean what's he's doing to you is wrong i mean nice when's he w/ you then like talking shit when your not around like if he does it just be "OMG GET YOU HANDS OFF MEH!" like yell it out so that every one knows and be like "I DON'T LIKE YOU AND I DONT APPRECIATE YOU TOUCHING MEH AFTER THE FIFTH TIME I'VE ASKED!". and you keep your reputation and maybe even become more popular or something. but if you don't to be so brutal just start pushing him away and show the people that ou don't like him and stuff. good luck! :)
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if the guy is sayin stuff about you, well then of couse you have to tell someone, dont you rather be a little more unpopular then to have this guy constantly bother you?
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Okay, this seems to be kinda abusive in general, and I don't like where this is going, but I don't know all the details, so I'll cover the two most likely possibilities.
This guy doesn't seem to really like you; I could be wrong, but the physical contact seems more mocking than anything else. Maybe he's jealous, maybe he likes your looks and not your personality, maybe he hates you for something you did to a friend, whatever...if you're pretty sure this is the case, get nasty when he tries it. Walk around with a male friend you trust and have the guy attack this guy if he tries it, that's the best way to keep people from thinking you're the bitch. If you don't have one, and have a female friend that's into him, have her be all over him, if he shoves her away get pissed at him for shoving your friend, that's all the excuse you need to rail at him...if he doesn't, then at least he's off your back :x
Now, he could be into you, but if he is he has serious problems. If you're kinda popular he doesn't have much reason to be bitching about you if he likes you unless he's in a crowd where that's "cool"...in which case it probably won't work out even if you do kinda think he's hot, because neither of you want to give up your friends for the other. It seems you don't really like him anyway, so this shouldn't be an issue.
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anonymous -
Think about it this way, which is more important to you: popularity or this guy bugging you? To be honest, I'd speak up regardless of your social status. Confront him about it privately so he won't feel obligated to deny anything. When you speak to him, speak so you put him at ease, so he can feel comfortable telling you what he has to say. Otherwise, he'll just deny everything and lie about it and you're back at square one.
Good luck!
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