Being a teenager is the toughest thing any of you will go through..well except for a divorce or death of a loved one.
Adults just do not remember how hard this time of life is for you.
They forget how important all of these things that you ask questions about are.
Parent do not have all the answers either..they just muddle through life..just like you.
I am as old as dirt..and still have some of the things that happen to you..happen to me.
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ok here it is:
i was at starbuck ordering a vanila creaam. The person asked me what my name is (they always do that and they out ur name on the cup). well when it came out the girl (who looked about 18 shes HOT!!!) she thought i was about her age and im only 15! she gave me her # under the cup...
the screwed up thing is it is all wet and its messed up. and each time i go up 2 starbucks 2 get her # shes not there. Should i jus give up w/ her (link)
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i would go back and see if she wants to go out with you...
BUt..and this is a big but..she may not when she finds out how old you are...I am very sorry but most 18 year olds want a guy who can at least drive...
Do not keep your age from her..once she finds out..she will flip...if not..then at least you both know the score straight up.
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MJy stepdad is a real jerk, and my mom always chooses him over me, is that right:? (link)
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18 is hard..you really are an adult..but most 18 year olds are still in HS or cannot afford to live on their own.
I have mixed feelings about step parents..first of all when you get married you HAVE to support your spouse..but here is where I agree with Dr. Laura...divorced adults SHOULD not get re-married until their kids ar grown...See a step parent step child relationship is the hardest thing to do...
But and YOU can show him this...HE MAY NOT CALL YOU names..An adult does NOT call a person names..that is both demeaning and VERY childish.
He is the adult..he should be acting and behaving better than you. Is he afraid of what you do on the computer or is the computer in his area at night?
As far as kicking you out..in 8th grade..what a loser...you were a child.
but I would have to ask you...what did You do to have that happen...if nothing then you all need to go see a FAMILY counselor..for you all have a very toxic thing going on in your house.
Could be that your mom is afraid of your Sd and will not stand up to him.
But as long as you live in your paresnt house..you have to abide by their rules...
this is a great incentive to go to a college FAR away or get a job and save money and move out.
I moved out at 20..after two years of college...I just wanted to be able to do what I wanted..when I wanted.
I hope you guys can find some peace....
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What do dreams mean? What about those that keep repeating themselves? Is there some kind of connection between dreams and real life? (link)
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Dream usally represent things that bother you. Even stuff you did not kno was troubling you.
SO if you are dreaming this dream all the time, look at some of the key items in it. Taking tests mans you are stresess..being naked vulernable about something or someone.
Write down some of the things in your dream and chekc out sumbolism of dreams on the web...it might lead you to some insight that is going on in your life.
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I'm a 14 yr old female and I'm having trouble on what gifts to get for guys. Girls are so easy (most of the time) to get presents for. But guys...ugh...that's a different story. lol. What kind of present would a guy want? It seems like most of my friends are guys this year, which doesn't make getting presents any easier.
And...there is this one guy that asked me out a while ago. I didn't deny him, but I told him I thought we should hang out more and see how it goes. We've been hanging out a lot now and I'm pretty sure I like him as much as he likes me now. Everyone already thinks we're going out. What kind of gift do you think I should get him? (link)
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Music movie passes video games..or even a blockbuster movie gift certificate..or sport goods stuff. Just see what they like and usually you can get them someone cool for less cash.
One of the things above is stiff kind of casual yet he will like..aks your freinds wht they are getting their guys..
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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!
xoxo (link)
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do NOT break the cardinal tule of girl friends..ok...she is your best friend...
Unless you want to lose her..for no matter how cool she is with this..it will come bakc to HAUNT you..do not do this...
alos any guy who dates his ex is also kinda of iffy on the cardianl tule things
but this is up to you...date him..and lose the frend..ok...upt to YOU>
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OK, I am 15 and I like this guy who is yonger then and he is only 13, do you think it is right to go out with a guy that is 2 years yonger then you. O, and by the way he looks like he is 16, but he isnt. (link)
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I am sorry..but the 15 - 13 thing is just no good..now give him two years when you are 17 and he is 15..no wait..16..then ok..but girls are way more mature than guys..so..
shoot is the 13 thing..for somer eason..i am not giving good advice as I am kind of feeling weird about it.
never mind..do what you think is right..in your heart...
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okay well i have this problem..there is this guy and i have been going out with him for about 2 months..and i went to a party with him last weekend..and for some really weird reason..it was really weird to be around him..like i didnt want to go out with him ne more..and hes really nice and all..but i keep comparin him to my ex bf..who is going out with my friend..and he was like my very first love..and i just cant get over him! and its irritating..well anyways back to the current boyfriend situation..he hasnt talked to me whatsoever this week..so im thinkin that i should breakup with him cuz i dont think he likes me ne more..and i dont think i like him ne more..
so here are my questions..should i break up with him? and if so how should i do it (like what should i say) and HOW CAN I GET OVER MY EX! lol cuz i really want to..but its just always coming back to haunt me (link)
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ok..was this a rebound thing..for after a breakup you always have a rebound thngs..and trust me..one day you wake up..and think..what was i thinking...
as for you ex going out withe a friend fo yours..totally against the girls friends rules...so..you have to GET over him
So tell this guys that you were in a really bad place over the break up..and that you really think he is great..just you need to end it as it is not going anywhere..yes he will be hurt..but if you let this go on..it will hurt even more.
Then date again..you will go through a couple guys until you find another love. But that is the fun of dating...kssing a few guys..going on great dates until Mr. right comes along.
As for the ex..lose him..he broke the cardinal rule as well as your buddy about dating friends...
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Ok I've got a boyfriend who I love and who loves me but lately he's been really confusing me because he flirts with two of my best friends and it makes me jelous even if he's mine anyway he keeps smoking weed and injects himself with heroin but i don't who if he's telling the truth but he's got little marks on his arm and I'm really worried about him if it's true he could die and I know Id be really upset if he died how can I talk to him about it because he thinks it's cool and his mate does it to (link)
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woah..heroin..i am sorry but he totally DISSES you by flirting with yor friends..and uses the WORST drug that you could possibly use...
The only people who think drugs are cool are drug users...ok...and if he is doing this and it has become a habit..heroin is so ADDICTIVE ..trust me..he will not even know that you are alive..soon..he will only be thinking about his next fix.
If you can get him to a drug counselor I would..but he is a train wreck wating to happen..and will only bring you..down.
I am sorry..but herion is such BAD news..that unless he gets help..he will end up on the street just like on tv..is is so bad...
wow..good luck...
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srry if this is long but
there is this kid in my school and he is shorter me and not very good lookin but i still lik him alot and no one understands and ppl always make fun of me for likin him and i already went out wif him lik 3 times b4 and he dumped me all the times but i still rely lik him and alot of ppl make fun of me for it and i hate how no one understands mee
how can i get them 2 stopp?? (link)
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You know they may not..but to me..you are a winner..you like him..for so,mething you see inside..which lasts WAY longer than outside as we all get ugly as we get older..yes it is true..lol
So tell them that you care...keep saying it..do not get mad but do stick up for him..Say it firmly that you like him..and if they cannot deal with it..well that REALLY is their problem...
But..if he dumped you..i would wonder if you like him..for you want what you cannot have...why did he dump you???
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Last night I found out my bf did drugs. He never told me or anything but they were talking about it and my friend told me. I also found out that he was ganna dump me because he did it. It really made me mad. Like its not the fact that he does it, but the fact that he never told me about it. He knows i dont agree with that stuff so what should i do because i dont want him keeping stuff from me. (link)
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ok..i am very fuddy duddy about drugs. See even if you are not doing them..you could get into trouble.(the b/f gets caught and the WIGGED out parentals think you do it to) Like alcohol sometimes people get into BIG trouble and believe me I am not one of those adults who preach.
But if he did not come clean about it to you..that means he knows that you are not cool about it. So yes I would be mad and tell him this is his last chance..Either he is honest with you from now on..as this it seems to me is what you really are upset with..or your guys are trough.But people that do drugs are usally very selfish..so do not be surprised if he chooses the drugs over you.
So..force the issue only if you are ready and able to accept a life w/o him..if not..just realize that durgs do change people...
I feel for you...I hope it works out for you.
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Alot of people are starting to say that my boyfriend doesn't care about me very much. He is always putting his arm round me and hugging me but he can be really insensitive whenever I'm upset. He says it's just because he isn't good in those situations but other people are saying different. What should I do? (link)
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First of all what is between you and your guy..is just that..ok..YOUR friends HAVE nothing to do with your things wiht your guy.Jeez tell them to go meddle in someone else's lives. G/f and b/f is HARD enought without other trying to INTERPRET your emotions.
So listen to your guy...and to only him...
if your buddies need some advice to give..tell them to sign up here and give some to other people..just NOT you.
Sounds to me that your guys is totally normal..ok adnif not..it is up to YOu and him to do something about it.
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Hey, I have a scenario for you all. female responses would help the best, I have this friend at church, that I hardly talk to, and in the last 3 day,s we have gotten closer, she gave me her cell number and we talk all the time. So I told her 3 day's ago that we should hang out, and she said yeah, we should. So today, saturday, Im gonna call her and find out what time to pick her up, and find out where she lives. Since it's just me and her, and we have gotten closer, what do u think this means? She just wants to be closer friends, or is this a date and we're not just hangin out? what do u think, anyone help me? (link)
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ask her out..on a date..ok..you have done the phone thing..the first step..ask hr out..just the two of you...she will either say yes or no...if she wants to get closer she will say yes right away..if she hems or haws or says she will meet you there wiht some friends..she may not be inot you.
ASK her out..dud you will be doing this this the rest of your life..you might as well get comfortable wiht it..ASK HER OUT...
If she say no..her HUGE loss!!!
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I had a boy very close to me,but I moved
now I miss him ,I'm really sad,
nothing is wrong with me, I think
in my high school almost all the girls have
boyfriend,I feel really lonely.
every time I watch them do their boyfriend-
girlfriend things I cry.sometimes I just want to
kill myself .being alone is killing me please
I really need to know what I should do,because
I think guy are scare of me but I'm pretty,smart
and I have a medium body why is this happening
what can I do?
I'm desperate
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Of course you feel sad and lonely..you have moved to a new place..you have given up all your friends as well as a person you loved. Can you communicate to him through the net..the is the quickest and cheapest way??I dont think the guys are scared of you..but as you are new maybe they just feel weird as they die..right away..I know lamo..but it will get you MEETING guys and girls and even if you drop the clus..you will still have the friends.
I moved several times as a teenager..it was so dag gum hard..i hated being the new kids....i felt REALLY alone too..but i joined some stuff and met some friends and eventully things got better.
as an adult ..i have moved again..and let me tell nothing is as bad as feeling alone..even old artifacts..like me feel alone...
I wish i could wave a wand and make it better for you..but see if you can get that guys' e-mail or im or even a freind...and keep in touch while you make new ones.
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Hey guyes,
I am 5'11" tall and I weigh 165 Lbs. But still I am looking thin. I guess I need to put on weight on arms and legs. I tried doing Exercise but didnt really help. How can I do that? Please give ideas. Thanks. (link)
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you lifted weight for those areas?? I would add a protein shake or bar 2-3 times a day so that you add good calories..but try the machines at a club and ask a trainer how to build muscle there.
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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?] (link)
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could be that it is old..but to me you need a new one..try on several sizes..each maker fits differently
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Can you lose weight by doing yoga?I heard it was only for your flexibility but someone else told me you could lose weight from it?Thanks! (link)
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if you do power yog or the birkam(hot temp 115 degres yogs)..yes you can but you have to have one that powers through the poses...
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hi im gunna be a freshman next year and im thinkin of goin to either an all girls school, a private school or the public school in my small town. i've never had a bf and the private school has the guys outnumbering the girls in a 1-3 ratio. haha neways has neone ever switched schools and what wud u reccomend? (link)
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which school is better..are you going to go to college.do you need s scholarship? Are you into sports or stuff..i would put down what I want the most out of the school...and then rate them...only good thing about an all girl school is if you feel totally gross..it does not matter..but if you want to date guys..that will be hard there...
so do some research,,then decided...
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ok 15/f...my boyfriend just recently started smoking weed well we dont go to the same skool so we only see eachother 4 out of 7 days....so its realy special wehn we get 2 see eachother....well as he was walking me to where i get picked up...he started smoking...he knows i hate it....i just got really mad and started walking ahead of him...he put it away and was like sry im really sry and he stopped and i was being really bitchy and he tryed to hold my hand and i moved away and put them in my pockets...n i didnt even say bye to him when i left....i didnt hug him or even kiss him...i didnt say nething i jsut left!....and i wouldnt look @ him or walk near him....and he was like ill call u tomrrow and i wasl ike dont bother...and i just left....i feel really bad...i mean he was wrong smoking infront of me knownin i dont lyke it...but he apologized n put it away and i was saying mean hurtful stuff to him
btw we been together for 13months...=\...do u think i shuld call him? and apologize?? wat do i say?? (this happened last nite) (link)
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ok..it is illegal to do this..what if he was robbing stores..would you still go out wiht him? plus if he gets busted do you think your paresnt are going to think you never did it.
Drugs are for losers..if he lvoes the weed more than you..well dump him..ok...see love should be BEFORE any kind of illegal garbage..i Know you love him..but if he loves the drugs more...well i would find a guy who would PUT me first...
Ps as the crap is illegal..no HE should say he is SORRY to you....
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Ok, i was at sonic and a really hot girl brought the food out to me. Ive never seen her before in my life, but i got the nerve to ask he for her number. and she actually gave it to me. Ok now im stumped. What do i do? Should i call her n ask her out, or what? help plz. (link)
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You asked a hot girl for her number and she gave it to YOU??what are your brain dead?/ask HER out..ok..the worst thing that could happen is that is NOT her number..ok..CALL HER!! NOW!!!
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well I met this guy and I really liked him, but he was here for a visit from Califorina, we dated while he was here, but now that he is back home what do I do ?????? Can we keep our realtionship over the internet and my mail, or what???? PLZ HELP ME IM CONFUSED (link)
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Long distance is hard..but it is better now wiht the internet..yes keep it going via interrnet..but be honest and opne if you meet someone else..see it may be a year before you see him and you have to have some kind of social life.
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