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Do you think it's possible to "Fully" trust someone again after they have lost your trust?!?!?


Thanks

Nahh i thought it was but it isn't.


Once you lose trust in someone it just changes.

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i rattee hiigh


soo there was booyy i met at a party one night ; his names jamal, we started to hangg out alott after that night, aand then we started to date.. everything juss seemed soo perfectt, then i find outt hes moving bak to NY. =[ yeah reall madd, && reallyy upsett ; but we still stuck together. we never faught . maybe once . buh it was rare . so since we knew he was movin bakk ; we didnt stopp tlking or seein eachother less, we just seen eachother more ... an talked more .. i hadd soo many good times with him , he just knew me so well, and he always made me happy, he might not have been the best guy in the world when it camee to school or behaving, buh i didnt caree ; he was everything to me; he was perfect in my eyes ; and i loved him ; still do , -- we would spendd about everynight together .. he'd walk me to the buss and everything ; i \never got annoyed or anything of him like i did with my ex's .. buh then the day came and he was leavin bakk to his hometownn ; well , of course i was with him, we took a walk, we walked to a park, and we sat there for about 3hours , just talking about ecverything possiiable ; we walked and stoppped here and there , it was about 3am whenn we finally went back to his house, and we sayed our goodbyes . i didnt cry ; i didnt wanna cry , i held it in, he whispired in my ear i...i....love yoouu . and then he juss leftt =/ .. yeah well we ended up brakein upp aboutt a month after he moved, cuss i never seen him anymore; and it was hard to keep in touch ; so i ended it , buh i miss him so much - its been aabout 3-4 months since we've been done , and i still havent dated, and everynight. when i say everynight i meann EVERYNIGHT ! id think about him, durin the dayyy, everydayy hes always on my mindd... buh he has a new girl , and he says he loves her, i need to get over him .. i dont knoe how , i tryed everything i can, i dont eatt really, i think its depression, i neever ; EVER cared for someone as much as i care about him.. someone please give me advicee to get over him . i knoww itss never easyy , butt monthss goin by and i still feel the same !

(DO NOT Say anything like "I rate 5's!" or "I rate high!" Your question will be deleted if you do.)

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okay so i was best friends with this guy, and he liked me alot. and i knew he did but i went out with this other guy and it crushed him. we stopped talking for awhile but then after i broke up with my bf me and my best friend became really really close friends again, better than ever...he ended up liking me ALOT all over again but i still didnt wanna do anything. he then started going out with this other girl that he started talking alot too. i realized that i screwed up and lost what i once had ..and eventually figured out that i liked him all along. So thennn when we were talking i was asking him how things were going with him and his girlfriend and he said not that well...we eventually told each other indirectly that we liked each other. we had to hide the fact that we talked alot from people because they would think that he was just using the girl to get me. well he ended up breaking up with her, and less than a month later we started going out. i REALLY like him, and were both really happy. he doesnt talk to his ex anymore because she thinks he used her. did i do anything wrong?

Not really but maybe he did go out with her to try to get over you but if i was his ex i would see it the same way no affence but it's not your fault or his you can't hide your feelings and she'll get over it trust me just be happy don't worry so much.And maybe he should just try to talk to her and tell her that his really sorry and he didn't mean too but he has liked you for a while and he didn't want to be with her if he liked another girl thats all she'll get over it though so you didn't do anything wrong =]

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ok well i just madee an account on vampire freaks, and can some one please send me sites that have good layouts??
any thing would be appreciated

Hello =]

well heres a few sites i found but if you want you can always go on google.com and type in dar layouts or vampire layouts your choice =]

http://www.codemylayout.com/myspace-layouts/cat.php?id=0

http://www.hotprofileplus.com/myspace-layouts/cat.php?id=0

http://www.freelayouticons.com/myspace-layouts?a=cat&cat=Dark


http://myspaceaid.com/myspace-layouts/cat.php?id=0

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okay well me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 71/2 months. overall, hes a great guy, but hes so contolive. he gets mad when i hangout with my friends because he says theyre bad, when theyre really not, also, even if i have an average talk with another guy, you know just a heyy whats up type of conversation. after every studyhall he always asks me who i sit with and what we talk about, and when im online he im's me and asks who im talking to, what im talking about, and asks me to send him the conversations. its sooooo annoying. yes, i love the kid, but sometimes he drives me crazy. what should i do?

Arghh i had the same kinda guy but he changed i just talked to him i just said why do you always ask don't your trust me and i said if don't trust me you shouldn't be with me and their only friends you don't need to know but if there was something i would've told you and he said "oh ok sorry " and now he just asks me how many guys im talking to and thats it just tell him you need to trust me and if there is something i'll tell you but i don't like all the questions and you telling me to send you my convo.

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what does it mean when someone says a guy is "whipped"? and

what does it mean when you call someone a tool?

Whipped means like :
means that your bf would do anything to be with u
and he loves you
And also ...

whatever happens he will come back to you
he wont let go
or like he puts first before anyonr else and
like you break up
and he forgives you or gets bak with you everytime.
(My guy friend told me that =])


And tool i think it's just a word people use then swearing instead of saying "Oh your a B****" they use tool instead i think im not really sure lol.

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What are some thing 2 of my friends and I could do? We're all 15 and it would be 2 guys and 1 girl. Any suggestions besides movies?

thanks :]

Hello !

Well you can go pools,park,creek (Their fun xD),go to eachothers houses and watch a movie their maybe ,ice skating,bowling,shopping,or go to intenscity or galaxy world (Its a place where you play games as in car games and you play other games and you get tokens )or theme parks rides are always fun =D

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does anyone know where i can find a little black dress that would be cute for a bunny costume for halloween? any ideas would help alot! i want to be a bunny im going to get ears and stuff. not too short. but also cute! thankssss

Hello well i don't know where bouts you live lol but im in Australia sydney so i found afew sites =D

http://www.supre.com.au/(xbhqlr55tbbdcw45t3t2dt3i)/ShopOnline/Shop.aspx?pid=2&cid=127

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Hi I'm wisemen i just started a couple days ago but I'm o.k. but you give some good advise so i added you as a favorite columnist I'm 14 from America.

Hello thanks for the inbox =D
Yeh sure what would like help with and thank you =D

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Ok so this kid i like has been ignoring me and im not sure if he is mad at me or not and i want to talk to him i just dont know what to say

help plzz!!

Just go up to him and ask are you mad at me ? why are you ignoring me ? or have i done something wrong ?

And if he says no then ask why does it feel like your ignoring me it's best to ask trust me.

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My friend I’ve known my whole life I guess we were like best friends. We always told each other it but never did anything out of school except email aim and talk. Then we liked each other a little a lot. Everyone tried to get us together as in dating or alone together. Then there were a lot of mishaps at parties. Many good time so many bad times. Old games like truth or dare and zap. Our relationship fell apart. Im friends with a lot of guys and most are older than him. I am always with them. I don’t like any of them but him and another guy. I’ve never dated because I always fell for my friends and I never wanted to loose them. Four guys like me that I know of right now but I cant do it I’d miss him to much. They know I won’t date because of all that’s happened. My friend says he’s afraid on what id think, my friend told me. Doesn’t seem to like the guys I talk to anymore. We always talked, now almost never except at school a little. We always had silly little arguments on kinds of donuts and stuff always talking. He always gave me high fives or would do anything to hold my hand even for a second and then every time we saw each other he’d give me a high five or we arm wrestle or play games like red hands but he never wanted to hurt me. We used to really care for each other now we do a little but it’s falling apart. He talks to my friends more than me now. But I just don’t know what to do anymore. Im even to nervous to talk to him I’ve never been nervous for any guy. I don’t know what to do??? 13 about 14 femalee

Thanks for the inbox ♥ i didn't really understand your question to be completly honest but im gonna try to help you with that i sort of understood.

You must really like the boy but you got to learn to be confident infront of him if not maybe im him or text time just say what happened to us i want to go back to the old us and maybe you should ask him why do you talk to my friend more then me and i really miss you,you have to talk to him to sort it out you can just watch it pass by and thinking it'll be better but it won't it causes more pain and maybe you should give those other guys a chance yeh sure you'll miss him but your stilla teenager we're just seeing life the way it is you'll move on trust me you will and maybe one of those guys are one of the nicest guys you'll meet everyones deserves a chance. you need anything else just inbox me.
Or you cna just tell me i answeard it wrong cause like i said i didn't really get it sorry.

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I am 14 and never have had a boyfriend nor kissed a guy . Is this bad?

Nahh your fine don't worry you will get a boyfriend soon your only 14.

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my boobs have started growing and i have hair in my vagina and armmpiits i shave my armpits and legs but i dont have my period will this mean it will happen in the next month or so??and i have white stuff in my undys is that another sign?

Yeh you will be getting them soon i went through all that =].

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are guys turned off by braces?

15/f

Nop,i know allot of guyfriends that are going out with girls with braces just as long as their not metallic xD

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is it bad if im about 5 foot 4 and 118.5 pounds?

Nop,healthy =D

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i rarely wear any underwear and i was wondering if there is anything wrong with this or anything bad can happen to my you knowww

Nop,whatever makes you feel comfortable.

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which on do you like better. (just so i know) list them in order .. the first being the one you like the most
-thongs
-bikini underwear
-boy shorts

-Bikini
-Boy shorts
-Thongs (I've never worn them so i wouldn't reall know how they feel)

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if the sexy never left then why's everybody on my shit it it?

The site is called advicenators
where you ask for advice ?

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I want tio make a CD of love songs for my guy

we have been loving eachother for almost a year now.and our anniversary is coming up on OCT22 nd.:D

I've downloaded
Savage garden- I knew i loved you and truely madly deeply
etc]

and i love them!

can anyone give me the names of more songs I can use


I want songs with beautiful touching music


PLEASE HELP!!!!

Fantasia-when i see you

Robin thick-Lost without you

Monica-angel of mine

Toni braxton-your makin me high

Toni braxtion-you mean the world to me

Monica-Why i love you so much

Mariah ft joe- Thank god i found you

Aaliyah-4 page letter

B5-all i do

Jon b-what i like about you

Faith evans-True Love

Alicia keys-If i ain't got you

Fabolous ft Tamia-So into you

Ciara-And i

Ciara-promise

112-God knows

Ashanti- i love you

Brown boy-your the one

Cascada-Truley Madley Deeply

Cassie-Can't do it without you

Cassie-Me and you

Dj bounce-close to you

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is it true with those new ipod nano's with the video that you can't put your songs from limewire to it??

i don't have it, or limewire i just heard that.
Is it true?

You can do that from any iPod you just have to transfer your music from limewire into a folder into your desktop and open that folder and click ona song and click on open with > iTunes and thats it and you just drag it into your im gonna use any name

Melissa's ipod
My friend does it all the time.

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